I know many people here are anti sperm banks, & I get why, but I think they can often be better than settling, esp in this climate. Imo, women should set high standards for men. If there are consequences, then they will have to change. On redpill forums, feminist allies get derided as bedroom feminists, & probs some are, but that is better than not at all.
On a related note, I think everyone - women and men - should plan their life with the knowledge in mind that they may never find the one. We don't like to admit it. But some never do, for many reasons, often no fault of their own. Even if you do, you may not always have them. My grandmother was happily married, but she's been a widow for 16 years, luckily she has good friends still & lives w us so she's not lonely. But she has single or widowed friends who are alone, have faraway children etc, and it makes me so sad how lonely they are.
Imo a lot of incel rage, esp in the US, can be traced to loneliness. Men in often manual jobs, w no woman for emotional support, told their self worth depends on having a good job & a wife. Femininity is far more flexibly defined in comparison. Male friendships are often more surface level, or about insulting to assert dominance, so sometimes men have no one else to lean on for fear of seeming weak. Fewer rl places to meet, instead online culture which promotes loneliness, as do dating apps. Incel forums should be promoting healthy male friendships & staying close to family, working & finding a passion, releasing sadness in a healthy way. Instead it's all about dominating women & unleashing rage against Chad, Stacey & Tyrone.
I think I have a different perspective on this as I'm lesbian & there's not that many of us.. I plan to try my hardest to find a forever person, & I hope I will. But I'm planning my life w the knowledge that I may not, & that close friends, family, goals & hobbies are the best way to be fulfilled when you're single. If I don't find someone by a certain age, I'll have a child on my own. That's what my mum did, & I was raised w support from my gran as well, which made it a lot easier. I think if there's an upsurge in misogyny, some women will need to consider single parenthood seriously. Otherwise there'll be an upsurge in abusive husbands & fathers, or a falling birth rate, & the far right may try & bring in something unpleasant to combat it.