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What time is lunchtime?

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TinyBlueHoe · 03/11/2024 09:30

I have agreed to look after a friend's dog for a few days, he's being dropped off today and when I asked what time, my friend said "lunchtime".

This is way too general! This could be anywhere between 12-3pm, right?

Would I be rude if I asked BUT WHAT TIME?

I always need very specific information to feel comfortable. Otherwise I'll just do absolutely nothing except anticipate their arrival from 12 onwards.

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Hoglet70 · 03/11/2024 09:31

I'm like you, I like a specific time but I would imagine 12-1ish?

Agix · 03/11/2024 09:32

Gosh, that would wind me up too. YANBU to ask for a specific time.

morestraightforward · 03/11/2024 09:33

i. the time it’s taken you to start this thread you could have just responded

“could you be a bit more specific with timing just so i can plan day. Looking forward to spending the day with (insert dog name)!”

Irridescantshimmmer · 03/11/2024 09:33

You are right lunch time is any time and lunch time to one person is another time to someone else, as you need an exact time, just ask her in a txt or call.

echt · 03/11/2024 09:36

You're an adult. Text them to say my lunch is X please drop the pooch off then.

You're doing the favour, you set the terms.

TinyBlueHoe · 03/11/2024 09:38

morestraightforward · 03/11/2024 09:33

i. the time it’s taken you to start this thread you could have just responded

“could you be a bit more specific with timing just so i can plan day. Looking forward to spending the day with (insert dog name)!”

I wondered if it was rude/unusual to ask, I find I can put my foot in it a lot.

I've just text exactly what you've suggested, thank you!

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Spendingtoomuchonfood · 03/11/2024 09:39

I would ask for a specific time or tell them when you’re avaliable. For us lunch time is 12 but I have young children for PIL it’s around 4.

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