To not expect my DP to say "you are always tired"

[lucyellensmum]

when, on being asked how i am feeling, or why i am flat, i reply, "im just tired" you know, its because of that, i AM always fucking tired actually!!!!!!!!!! Thats it really... i really dont want to be tired, but i am, and you did ask so.............suck your own knob tonight, i am tooo tired!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

heheheheheh good for you you. although my dh and i try to out do each other with who is the most tired, usually in the kitchen witch two little ones crabling around...i've been knackered since having kids...about 4yrs..and have started popping iron tablets...i'm so f*n fatigued

My god I'm so tired it's scary isn't it.... and then I feel guilty because I'm always tired!!!??

I honestly cannot remember not feeling tired

my dh usually on the floor demanding iv coffee after a sat morning romping with 2 dc....try doing it 7am to 7pm with no let up you wimp!!!!!

I just say 'yeah, I know' when my DH occasionally trots that one out. talk about stating the fucking obvious.

They say it like you're tired on purpose, just to spoil their evening

I get 'but why are you always so tired?'. Well let's see shall we, 3 kids, work, household chores, no help at all at home, you working long hours, you getting up at crack of dawn and waking DD, DS#1 that wants to go to bed really late. And then, when I finally get some peace and can lie comfortably horizontal and stop moving, you want to get jiggy

well said OrmIrian, my dp is exactly the same!!.
He puts them to bed 2 nights week whilst I'm at work- he therefore believes he is mr perfect father
But a) I do everything before I go to work, sorting out his tea, laying out pjamas, even drawing the curtains in the dd's room!! How had can it be.