I sit downstairs every evening by myself after working full time all day. He never acknowledges me when he comes in from work, gies upstairs every evening and lies down to watch telly and stays there all evening. I’m totally pissed off and want to end our marriage of 23 years but all attempts to discuss anything ends in an argument. I have no connection to him at all and am very depressed. I have raised our 4 children myself without hardly any help from him. Should I stay or go. I’m 56 yrs old and scared stiff of leaving my home. He pays a contribution to ou koint account but I have always paid fo Christmas myself. I lonw he has 500k stashed away but he won’t discuss any anything with me without it ending in arguments. Advice appreciated