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AIBU?

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To say I wouldn't leave my 2 year old child with someone they didn't know - an agency nanny

77 replies

KnittingKnewbie · 28/10/2024 22:56

The viewpoints on another thread are so far from what I considered "an obvious truth" I have to ask.
Would you leave a young child, a two year old, with an agency nanny you and they have never met before? For a social occasion, not a medical emergency?
Think no other childcare, rather than life or death situation.
Personally I would only leave my child with a very small number of people - one grandparent alone. Other Grandparents as long as an aunt/uncle of the child also there (grandparents are old). Mine and DH siblings - 2 or 3 out of all of them.
Friends - in a medical emergency, not for a night out.

YABU - I would definitely leave my child with an agency sitter they didn't know
Yanbu - I wouldn't leave my child with an unknown sitter, I'd skip the night out

OP posts:
Saschka · 29/10/2024 18:27

ClytemnestraWasMisunderstood · 29/10/2024 11:27

It's a nonsensical sentence.
But thank you for your delightful and politely woded response

Made perfect sense to me.

Bunnycat101 · 29/10/2024 18:32

I have never used an unknown babysitter and most definitely wouldn’t have done so at 2. I have used trusted nursery staff who knew my children and would continue to use them. I have used grandparents for overnights and childcare over a few days as my children have got older.

No doubt it curtailed the social life we had as a couple during that period but we both went out with our own friends as the other one looked after the children. I wouldn’t have changed that.

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