Adam is someone I know. He has cheated in every relationship he’s had. Gone from one girl to the next before the previous has finished.
person he’s with now (call her Bianca) he has two kids with. They got together when both had partners. She got pregnant straight away.
But Adam said he’s in love with a woman (Claire) he’s previously been seeing who has a husband (Dave) and two kids.
All four were good friends, and Adam and Dave worked together.
Bianca found out about all this after Dave found the messages on Facebook of Adam & Claire declaring love for each other and sending photos of each other& told everyone.
Adam & Claire went round to Adam’s parents house a few days after his mom died & were there for two hours. Apparently she was consoling him and they were just cuddling
Bianca forgave Adam, but stopped her friendship with Claire. But Adam and Claire are still messaging privately.
Adam keeps putting off marrying Bianca because he says he’s scared to commit. But surely 2 kids and living together is loads of commitment so what’s a bit more.
I am fed up of seeing Adam hurting people and gaslighting them. He has made exes feel like they’re going crazy. I want to get involved and say / message Bianca slyly to let her know the affair is still ongoing. It feels to me this emotional affair is more hurtful than just a one off sexual encounter