As a Black woman, I pray for the day that White female partners of Black men claiming to be pro Black....well I pray that they stop low key fetishising Black male criminality and care more about the Black women and children who mostly have to clean up after or suffer for it.
Fact is, your husband has a far greater chance of being murked by the actions of a Black Chris Kaba than the police.
Furthermore, Chris Kaba, the beater of a Black woman was NOT executed.
By any definition.
Revving the engine of a very weighty vehicle, hands on steering wheel, high off cocaine with the law standing right in front of you, telling you to get out of said vehicle after being tailed from one borough to another is as far away from an execution as possible.
Trust and believe; Black people in Black majority countries are wondering how the police let him get so far, so uncooperative, knowing that the vehicle was involved in a firearms incident the previous evening.
Funny how I and all the Black women that I know who obviously have Black male loved ones do not have "death by police" anywear near our mind fronts amongst any everyday thoughts about them.
Shit, even my distant cousin, a now dead member of the "Lettsom gang" ...his mother wasn't worried about the police.
Maybe if she was worried about anything, she'd have fixed him up before he did gun shit that got him murdered in retaliation.
It's beyond me why force teaming one's "pro Blackness" with seeing oneself in a career criminal who happens to be Black and male has become a hill to die on for a certain type of Black or White person...usually the types that will never move in the same circles...what with one side usually being criminal adjacent and another tertiary educated or other Middle class signified.