To want to change my whatsapp settings to remove my last seen?

[Ponystories]

My friend stalks me on whatsapp. She stalks everyone. She will send a message and then:
If you have been last seen but either not read or replied to her message she will get arsey. She will then regularly check your last seen. She will get arsey in that you'll either get a short reply or she will purposely wait ages to reply, like you did to her (her words).

She will comment that I was up late ie she saw my last seen at eg 1/2am

If I turn off my last seen she will get the arse. But I'm tired of her games and feeling like I'm being watched. I feel like I need an excuse to turn off my last seen. She will 100% ask me why I did it.

somebody has to be the last to reply or you will be up all night. Say 'good night' and then ignore all future messages. Or block her. I could not be bothered with it

I couldn't be dealing with someone like that. I'd have to just cut contact completely.

Google ''Out of the FOG'' (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) and ask yourself why you are so afraid of making her angry, when she is the one being unreasonable.

Good! This post made me so angry, who the fuck does she think she is?!
I turned off my blue ticks and last seen ages ago. I don’t want people stalking me thank you very much!

Do it, I did it years ago. Why should everybody know when I last went on WhatsApp, invasion of my personal privacy 😂

When you switch off last seen, it switches ofd your view of it too for other people, least it used to, but if you don't need it then switch it off. I like having it so I can check some people are still active, like my dad recently split after 30 years and I was worried about him but was reassuring to see him regularly online without having to actually message and get on his nerves.

Why are you altering your behaviour and use of WhatsApp because if her. Block her on it and tell her why. Better yet remove her from your life.

Same, i think just turn it off and if she asks you, so you dont have to deal with her nonsense, just say you turned it off for another reason, me and my sister use each other to blame for things like this. Best thing i ever did was turn off my last time and online status.

I’ve been your friend in the past, when my mental health was low, and YANBU. In fact you should turn it off and don’t give in to her sulks. If she’s in the same frame of mind I was, she needs the reality check. If she questions it tell her you’ve done it because it makes you uncomfortable that she follows your movements.

She sounds unhinged. Really not normal behaviour.

I wouldn't even give this headspace op. Turn it off. You owe her no explanation. Let her get arsey. She sounds hard work.

Say
'I don't like you commenting on when I've been last on the WhatsApp if makes me uncomfortable please stop 😊'

Any friend who gets the arse over a friend turning off the last seen function on WhatsApp isn't a friend.