We helped with my mum, feeding, keeping her mouth moist, cleaning teeth and what she loved... having her hair brushed.... but she also needed regular turning, not something we could do, she needed regular toiletting, she was a proud woman, had we attempted this she would have been mortified.
The hospital staff were only too pleased to see us help.
However, from what we saw, over many weeks, is that most people in hospital did nt have regular multi visit days.
As for the Spanish health system: in rural areas, its very hit and miss & if we cast our minds back, didn't care staff abandon people in their care homes during CV... staff here inc my DD risked infection etc to give the best care they could do to residents and clients in the community.
@Abra1t a small cool box and bring your own teaspoon ? we bought in mums favourite stuff when she was willing to eat and the catering people (private company) assisted where they could.... Derriford Hospital did all they could, despite the staff shortages... i even spoke to one of the directors whilst having lunch, i saw him a few days later and he remembered me and the situation with our mum.