We are going away for 2 nights others our joining us for an event. My partner needs to be there the day before but technically I don’t. We originally planned for us both to go and I’ve arranged childcare. Problem is my partner keeps changing his mind it’s one minute come for both then just one. I’ve made up my mind to go for 2 but he’s back to thinking 1 would be better. It’s really hard to feel secure in my decision when he keeps questioning it. He thinks our youngest child will be upset the second day but I know he’s perfectly comfortable with the family member looking after him, he may ask but old enough to understand the reassurance that we will be back soon. I am looking forward to getting away but don’t want to be selfishly putting my wants over my child’s wellbeing. Is he right should I just go for 1 night?