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Please stop saying "it's been a minute"

337 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 15/10/2024 23:06

Please stop

Also mooching stop saying that

OP posts:
Namechangefordaughterevasion · 16/10/2024 10:30

It annoys me when young people in the UK refer to the police as the 'feds'. We are not a federal country. We don't have a federal police force.

BunnyLake · 16/10/2024 10:34

CellophaneFlower · 16/10/2024 09:46

Oh me too 😍

Me three (that might be an irritating response in itself) 🤔 Mooch and Pootle are great words.

BunnyLake · 16/10/2024 10:37

Crushed23 · 16/10/2024 09:58

I love the evolution of language and discovering new ways of saying things.

We should embrace change, not silently rage about it. What a waste of energy.

My new favourite thing to say is "pass the vibe check" to mean "get along" (with someone new).

I agree. It’s good to get some new words in our vocabulary. Learnt from my kids, I approve of the words drip (for style) and rizz for charisma. They’re fun words to me.

RobinStrike · 16/10/2024 10:45

I hate newsreaders and politicians who say crate for create and nucular for nuclear. Drives me mad! Nick Clegg was forever saying crate and I notice Keir Starmer saying it now. Sophie Raworth and numerous other presenters do the same.

HaveToSaySomethingHere · 16/10/2024 10:58

ClytemnestraWasMisunderstood · 16/10/2024 08:21

even my pop of colour...?

Only if it's used very sparingly.

Eekomouse · 16/10/2024 11:05

Don’t do “me (F53) and my partner (M78)”

Firstly, you’re not on Reddit and secondly I don’t give a fuck about your gender or age, nor is it ever relevant to the post.

KimberleyClark · 16/10/2024 11:18

TheBunyip · 16/10/2024 09:03

Also “excited for..” that can get in the bin. It’s giving 2022 vibes.

I hate that. You’re excited about something, not excited for it.

Sceptical123 · 16/10/2024 11:30

KimberleyClark · 16/10/2024 11:18

I hate that. You’re excited about something, not excited for it.

Or “I’m THERE for it” Gah! 😩

Isometimeswonder · 16/10/2024 11:31

oakleaffy · 16/10/2024 09:03

This. ⬆️ ⬆️ ⬆️

🤣🤬

Itiswhysofew · 16/10/2024 11:38

YABU. Mooching has been part of the vernacular forever. My aunt used to mooch in the charity shops in Shepherd's Bush, back in the 1970s 😁

"Back in the day", please be gone. In the past is good enough.

cordelia16 · 16/10/2024 11:50

Combattingthemoaners · 16/10/2024 02:43

I’ve never heard anyone say it’s been a minute but it sounds annoying!! Whilst we are on this topic allow me a sleep deprived rant.

“It’s giving…” usually followed by something to do with “vibes”. Fuck off.

Hubby or Hubster 🤢

People missing out the I’m and to the. Eg. “going gym” 🤬

Instead of replying with a laughing emoji or haha saying “I can’t”. Can’t what?? Also fuck off.

Any Americanisms I.e. cops, trash, aluminium foil (it’s fucking tin foil), movies, elevator, candy. I could honestly commit GBH whenever someone uses one of those words.

I feel better now, thank you.

we Americans would say aluminum :)
I've been living in the UK since the late '90s and still cannot say aluminium.

Tomatina · 16/10/2024 11:57

redleaves75 · 16/10/2024 06:29

I don't get hot mess either. It just rubs me up the wrong way when I see it

I hate 'hot mess', it makes me feel sick. I get a mental image of something disgusting on the pavement.

EvvyLannis · 16/10/2024 12:40

Someone does something ‘on the regular’. Hate it.

DalRiata · 16/10/2024 13:24

Tomatina · 16/10/2024 11:57

I hate 'hot mess', it makes me feel sick. I get a mental image of something disgusting on the pavement.

I can't stand it either. As with many of the sayings mentioned here, I can roll my eyes indulgently at a teenage cousin or niece on Instagram saying it. But when it is grown women (or men).. I feel so embarrassed for them. Surely they should have acquired a more considered and mature style of expressing themselves by now.

DalRiata · 16/10/2024 13:27

RobinStrike · 16/10/2024 10:45

I hate newsreaders and politicians who say crate for create and nucular for nuclear. Drives me mad! Nick Clegg was forever saying crate and I notice Keir Starmer saying it now. Sophie Raworth and numerous other presenters do the same.

I know someone who started saying crate instead of create after finishing her degree at Cambridge. I think she must be under the illusion that it sounds posh.
It makes her sound like she has a speech impediment.

Andylion · 16/10/2024 13:52

Bonjovispjs · 16/10/2024 07:20

I've always said aluminium foil 😬 but I can't stand macaroni AND cheese, it's macaroni cheese 😤

I’m Canadian. I just say “foil”. And for us it’s definitely “macaroni and cheese”. Or even just “Kraft dinner”, regardless of the brand. Otherwise it sounds like you’re describing a kind of cheese.

Andylion · 16/10/2024 13:57

ClytemnestraWasMisunderstood · 16/10/2024 08:19

Pootle vs mooch; the new MN class wars???!

Pootle and Mooch. If I ever have two cats, that’s what I’m naming them.

Bonjovispjs · 16/10/2024 13:58

Andylion · 16/10/2024 13:52

I’m Canadian. I just say “foil”. And for us it’s definitely “macaroni and cheese”. Or even just “Kraft dinner”, regardless of the brand. Otherwise it sounds like you’re describing a kind of cheese.

Ha ha, I used to live in Canada, I remember those Kraft dinners, really can't call those macaroni cheese or macaroni and cheese 😆 The name is still macaroni cheese though, it's a hill I'm willing to die on 😁

PressedOnion · 16/10/2024 14:11

If someone's heading to the Annoying Phrase Recycling Centre can I please add the following to the pile in your boot:

'Can I get' used instead of 'Please can I have'
'Hot take'
'A red lip'
'Skibbidi toilet'
'Sigma'

Thanks, I owe you one.

CellophaneFlower · 16/10/2024 14:26

Bonjovispjs · 16/10/2024 13:58

Ha ha, I used to live in Canada, I remember those Kraft dinners, really can't call those macaroni cheese or macaroni and cheese 😆 The name is still macaroni cheese though, it's a hill I'm willing to die on 😁

Agreed! Same as cauliflower cheese!

TragicMuse · 16/10/2024 14:27

'Bimble' can get in the bin. Having a bimble, going on a bimble.

No.

Absolutely not.

Lilifer · 16/10/2024 14:33

Bigcat25 · 16/10/2024 03:11

Hard agree, op.

Oh god I'm on a WhatsApp group with my two sisters and one of them is always saying "Hard Agree" and it makes me cringe to my very core but I can't say it to her cos she thinks it's a hip thing to say and will be really upset if I say it's just not cool at all

CellophaneFlower · 16/10/2024 14:39

Lilifer · 16/10/2024 14:33

Oh god I'm on a WhatsApp group with my two sisters and one of them is always saying "Hard Agree" and it makes me cringe to my very core but I can't say it to her cos she thinks it's a hip thing to say and will be really upset if I say it's just not cool at all

My older sister went through a stage of saying "rock up". Everybody rocked up everywhere... nobody ever just turned up anymore. Also made me cringe 😂

Lilifer · 16/10/2024 14:59

@CellophaneFlower what do we do???!!
Every time anyone says anything she "hard agrees" with it / its taking every ounce of self control that I have to not say anything but I think its going to explode out of me eventually cos I thought after a year or two it would stop .. but no 🙈

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/10/2024 15:44

Andylion · 16/10/2024 13:52

I’m Canadian. I just say “foil”. And for us it’s definitely “macaroni and cheese”. Or even just “Kraft dinner”, regardless of the brand. Otherwise it sounds like you’re describing a kind of cheese.

Correction:
tin foil
KD, but...
macaroni and cheese if you've made your own

😃🇨🇦