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To think he would sneakily spit in my hair?

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Nightleaf · 15/10/2024 19:04

Reminiscing about a recent ex and his odd behaviour. He was very much the high flying professional, handsome and all the rest of it so I was a little shocked by some of his oddness, it didn't match his "type". Anyhow after sex with him I would always have exta wild hair and it never went like that with past partners after sex so I did find it quite strange.

That was until one night I found what looked like saliva in my hair and it made me wonder if he would spit in my hair during sex. He did tell me one day how sexy I/my hair looked after sex. It has just been on my mind recently. AIBU to think that this is what he would do?
And if so, do you find this odd?

He has also done a couple other things such as try to hide my underwear after staying over at his. It made me think that he wanted to keep them. But again doubted my gut.

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ScaryGrotbag · 15/10/2024 19:06

The hair thing...possibly. But mine goes like that after sex with a certain person and no one else. Definitely no spitting in my case. Underwear, yeah, he totally wanted to keep it.

Nightleaf · 15/10/2024 22:59

It only happened at my home and not anywhere I had to travel from coincidentally.

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XChrome · 15/10/2024 23:12

He does sound like he could be a fetishist. Hiding your underwear is flat out creepy. As for the hair, it's possible he drooled in it accidentally, but you're right to be suspicious. There are so many sick bastards out there. Trust your gut on this.

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