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UK fertility rate drops by 18.8% in 12 years

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MidnightPatrol · 13/10/2024 20:35

The UK has the fastest falling fertility rate in the G7.

2022 saw the lowest number of births for 20 years.

The current TFR is 1.49 births per woman.

What do you think the reason for this is, and what could be done to reverse the trend?

news.sky.com/story/amp/britains-fertility-rate-falling-faster-than-any-other-g7-country-with-austerity-thought-to-be-a-principal-factor-13232314

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Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:22

Also, any person pre 40s who is savvy is leaving the uk. Future is not bright guys.

JHound · 14/10/2024 19:23

BruFord · 14/10/2024 17:57

@GretchenWienersHair It’s not nice, is it. That’s why we need to focus on technology now to replace younger humans. It’s hard enough finding a dentist nowadays, for example, I can’t imagine what it’ll be like when a larger percentage of the population is elderly! We need dental robots. 😂

I think what will happen is people will have to get used to paying for things they did not previously. Such as your comment about dentists - there is load of availability….for private dentists!

TheOtherSide21 · 14/10/2024 19:23

Because for the first time ever, it’s becoming socially acceptable not to.

I don’t think it needs reversed. Planet is a mess, we have over evolved, and current society isn’t somewhere I’d want to navigate whilst having the responsibility of influencing a young mind.

Not to mention the fact I just don’t want to risk my health and my body for the sake of another life.

JHound · 14/10/2024 19:23

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:22

Also, any person pre 40s who is savvy is leaving the uk. Future is not bright guys.

I did that and came back in my 40s. Falling birth rates are a global issue.

OptimismvsRealism · 14/10/2024 19:28

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:22

Also, any person pre 40s who is savvy is leaving the uk. Future is not bright guys.

This is naive. There's no sunset to walk off into.

IVFmumoftwo · 14/10/2024 19:30

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:22

Also, any person pre 40s who is savvy is leaving the uk. Future is not bright guys.

Not sure it is in many places.

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:49

JHound · 14/10/2024 19:23

I did that and came back in my 40s. Falling birth rates are a global issue.

I know they are. Economic issues everywhere we look, but there really is no future here, not even shelter. I’d go as far as to say no future in much of the west.

We have neglected the young (millennial and under) too long, and they have had enough 🤷‍♀️

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:52

OptimismvsRealism · 14/10/2024 19:28

This is naive. There's no sunset to walk off into.

I never said there was a sunset, but a certain hopelessness pervades in this specific dead empire.

As I said, a person can work until they drop and still not afford shelter here. This is not comparable to many places in Europe.

IcedPurple · 14/10/2024 19:53

WasteOfPaint · 14/10/2024 18:03

@IcedPurple True. The same pattern can be seen across pretty much all developed countries, regardless of significant variation in the cultures of those countries as well as in economic policy and the support provided to parents etc. Even in less developed parts of the world it's declining, obviously from a higher starting point. Fundamentally, when given the choice, people simply do not want to have many (sometimes any) children.

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Even in countries not classed as 'developed', birth rates are in decline. India and China for example. The Chinese really didn't need the 'one child policy', as birth rates would soon have declined without it. Now they are encouraging women to have more children!

Africa is the only exception, but within a decade or two, the same thing will also happen there. Female education and work opportunities are a huge factor. When women have the chance to complete their education and work outside the home, they will start having children later, or perhaps not at all. Unfortunately this isn't the case yet in much of Africa, hence birth rates as high as 7 per woman in some countries.

JHound · 14/10/2024 19:59

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:49

I know they are. Economic issues everywhere we look, but there really is no future here, not even shelter. I’d go as far as to say no future in much of the west.

We have neglected the young (millennial and under) too long, and they have had enough 🤷‍♀️

The sheer number of people wanting to come to “the west” suggests there is very much a future here for those who want it.

JHound · 14/10/2024 20:00

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:52

I never said there was a sunset, but a certain hopelessness pervades in this specific dead empire.

As I said, a person can work until they drop and still not afford shelter here. This is not comparable to many places in Europe.

Europe is the west.

BruFord · 14/10/2024 20:05

JHound · 14/10/2024 19:23

I think what will happen is people will have to get used to paying for things they did not previously. Such as your comment about dentists - there is load of availability….for private dentists!

@Jhound. I agree that people will have to get used to paying for things, but surely there’ll also be a scarcity value as the population ages? Someone who is 30 now will have fewer younger people to provide any type of service to them when they’re 80 (regardless of their ability to pay).

Thewildthingsarewithme · 14/10/2024 20:06

@Vettrianofan NI?

EatSleepSleepRepeat · 14/10/2024 20:06

GretchenWienersHair · 14/10/2024 17:16

It will certainly be a problem in 30 years time when we haven’t got enough doctors or nurses to look after us all!

Hopefully by then we will have euthanasia.

Sorry to sound flippant but I know a few people whonhave watched elderly parents decline over years with incurable illnesses and its been very traumatic.amd drawn-out. It's not something I'd want to go through.

Ragamuffin8 · 14/10/2024 20:16

I read a great book about this recently, called Count Down, by Shanna Swan which explains the science and shows that both male and female fertility has rapidly declined over past few decades (due to pollution), and we are physically less able to conceive than our grandparents were at our age.

If it continues, she and others think there’ll be a fertility crisis. The Guardian did an article on this: https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2021/mar/28/shanna-swan-fertility-reproduction-count-down

Shanna Swan: 'Most couples may have to use assisted reproduction by 2045' | Fertility problems | The Guardian

The professor of environmental medicine explains how chemicals in plastics are causing our fertility to decline – and what we can do about it

https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2021/mar/28/shanna-swan-fertility-reproduction-count-down

IVFmumoftwo · 14/10/2024 20:26

Ragamuffin8 · 14/10/2024 20:16

I read a great book about this recently, called Count Down, by Shanna Swan which explains the science and shows that both male and female fertility has rapidly declined over past few decades (due to pollution), and we are physically less able to conceive than our grandparents were at our age.

If it continues, she and others think there’ll be a fertility crisis. The Guardian did an article on this: https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2021/mar/28/shanna-swan-fertility-reproduction-count-down

The amount of weed smoked by young men won't help.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/10/2024 20:31

Bangwam1 · 14/10/2024 19:17

Just wait until the young properly catch on to the fact that no babies = no pension or society for themselves.

It’s almost like they’ll wonder why they are bothering to pay in at all currently. Poor greedy boomers and landlords, damn shame.

We’re aware already! I don’t know any millennial or gen z who is expecting to get a state pension or indeed any help whatsoever at the state pension age of 75 (as it’ll be then). We’re expecting to die at work!

OptimismvsRealism · 14/10/2024 20:34

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/10/2024 20:31

We’re aware already! I don’t know any millennial or gen z who is expecting to get a state pension or indeed any help whatsoever at the state pension age of 75 (as it’ll be then). We’re expecting to die at work!

Yep. And it'll come quick because the NHS is already hopeless. Know so many people with cancer that has gone incurable while waiting for NHS treatment.

HellsBalls · 14/10/2024 21:26

fitzwilliamdarcy · 14/10/2024 20:31

We’re aware already! I don’t know any millennial or gen z who is expecting to get a state pension or indeed any help whatsoever at the state pension age of 75 (as it’ll be then). We’re expecting to die at work!

Good luck finding an employer when between the ages of 60 and 75.
That said, if there is such a shortage of workers, maybe there will be opportunities? I suspect not though.

BruFord · 14/10/2024 21:39

HellsBalls · 14/10/2024 21:26

Good luck finding an employer when between the ages of 60 and 75.
That said, if there is such a shortage of workers, maybe there will be opportunities? I suspect not though.

@HellsBalls I think employment opportunities will have to change tbh as subsequent generations shrink. Gen Z is already smaller than the Millennials and the current generation, Alpha, looks to be smaller still. So working longer will become the norm as we can’t rely on the next generation to take over.

User135644 · 14/10/2024 21:45

IVFmumoftwo · 14/10/2024 19:30

Not sure it is in many places.

Capitalism has collapsed (pretty much since 2008 crash) and the west is in a real funk and denial.

The other side of the planet is in constant warfare (middle east/Russia).

IVFmumoftwo · 14/10/2024 21:49

User135644 · 14/10/2024 21:45

Capitalism has collapsed (pretty much since 2008 crash) and the west is in a real funk and denial.

The other side of the planet is in constant warfare (middle east/Russia).

How is that different from the world wars, the cold war, any other war during history? The only difference I see is better choices for women and more access to contraception.

floral2027 · 14/10/2024 21:50

For me it's because of fertility issues (basically had unprotected sex with dh for 9 years since age 22) but on another level, I am also stressed from work and own a fairly small 2 bed flat so there are times when I think being childfree may not be that terrible.

Drawfulofbitz · 14/10/2024 22:01

Capitalism has collapsed (pretty much since 2008 crash)

we never recovered from 08, low interest rates just masked it.

Werecat · 15/10/2024 07:55

Drawfulofbitz · 14/10/2024 22:01

Capitalism has collapsed (pretty much since 2008 crash)

we never recovered from 08, low interest rates just masked it.

This is very true. They just kept printing money to shore things up, and not the chickens are well and truly roosting.