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Abusive cleaner took pics of my home

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ChicExpert · 12/10/2024 18:32

My lovely self employed cleaner went back to her own country. New cleaner started this week. House is tidy but dirty floor and surfaces, needs a good vacuum/mop/wiping up. We hire 4 hours a week for a deep clean of the downstairs(kitchen dining living room)/hallway and stairs. Standard 3 bed house in London with kitchen extension, takes me 2 hours to do but pay for 4 so the job gets done properly.

New cleaner came and in 4 hours couldn't clean what we asked which is just vacuum/mop and wipe down all surfaces. Had to ask her to clean individual window seals as she didn't and when she left I noticed the living room window seal wasnt cleaned. She broke my glass chopping board and didn't say anything and left chemicals in the oven which I told her not to clean. Last cleaner was able to wipe the skirting boards and didn't leave a spec of dirt in corners, this cleaner left many areas dirty.

I said nothing and thought I won't hire again. The company messaged me why I don't want to hire again and I said I wasn't happy with the clean nothing else.

I then get very abusive messages and pictures of my floor being dirty saying my house is disgusting. Didn't get to respond before I was blocked by the company.

AIBU? I feel completely violated and want to complain some how. She took photos of my home without permission.

Don't even know what to do now and feel uncomfortable using another cleaner. Husband says I'm over reacting :( am I?

FYI I've added a photo of my home before the cleaner came. Floors are clearly dirty but the kitchen is tidy/needs wipe down.

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Aria999 · 20/10/2024 21:37

TooFewShtsToGive · 20/10/2024 09:21

As someone who has been a professional cleaner for six years, I feel the urge to weigh in...

If I'd have turned up to a new property and seen floors like this I'd have thought 'wow, and this is why they need me!' Then I'd have been chuffed that I'd made such a difference after sorting it, that the client would think I was a fucking wizard.

Also, four hours to clean one floor of a three bed house?? It would be fucking immaculate.

Not being unreasonable OP, get yourself a cleaner who's not an AH.

Also, people who clean before the cleaner arrives... you guys make me howl 😂😂

If you ever find yourself living in Pittsburgh message me, I want to hire you!

MyMauveWasp · 21/10/2024 11:26

Yalta · 13/10/2024 10:43

If everyone cleaned up after themselves then cleaning companies and cleaners would be out of business

The job description is in the name

I had a cleaner tell me they wouldn’t come back because there was a hair on the bathroom floor.

Please note this was one hair. FFS

I have had cleaners in the past and wouldn’t ever again

They want everything spotless and to be paid.
They don’t seem to realise that if everything is spotless then no one needs their services

‘I have had cleaners in the past and wouldn’t ever again’

I worked 60-80hrs a week and my cleaner was excellent. Every Friday, 3hrs to do the whole house. Couldn’t fault her and she charged 16 quid a hour. She had her own little business and worked hard and was customer focused!.. Not all are bad! .. but agree.. some are very unreasonable. Find a cleaner through a recommendation is the key!

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