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What would you have thought of me at soft play today

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Whatwilltomorrowhold · 08/10/2024 22:15

As a parent?

Dd is 6 and in school, but had a Drs appointment today that ended around 2.30. She was then hungry and there was no time to go back to school.
A new ball pool type place has opened nearby and she’s been asking to go to it. We went and she was really happy to be running around, going down slides etc.
The few kids there were under 4, Dd chatted to a few and helped some little ones, but was happy climbing and doing her own thing, The other parents were all following their kids around and I sat more or less the whole time, with a coffee and on my phone. I obviously engaged with Dd, got us snacks and drinks and I went to look at the slides she was on/took a few pics of her.
What would you have thought of me? Just sat on my phone? Just felt a bit self conscious, but Dd really doesn’t need or want me following her around a place like that.

OP posts:
Bellaboo01 · 10/10/2024 13:09

Brieandcamembert · 10/10/2024 12:36

As long as you knew exactly whst your daughter was up to that's fine. I hate it when I'm in soft play and I aquire someone else's kid to follow me about.

I also hate older girls that try and mother my toddlers in soft play.

Oh and children that are too big to be in there that rave sound sending small kids flying.

I'm a bit bitter on soft play behaviour on reflection 🤣

I totally agree with you on this.

Whatwilltomorrowhold · 10/10/2024 20:04

@Bellaboo01 You would 😂

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Tobycarvery11 · 02/02/2025 08:55

Same, my son is 9 now but from the age of about 6 I could let him go without worrying, my 2 little ones I now have to follow around but I'd love to sit it down on my phone, probably all they think is "ahh jealous, wish I could do that"

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