I think this applies at the higher functioning end.
The world is more stimulating; "bigger" louder, brighter, more expectations. There is an increase in triggers beyond coping capacity. I think this exposes people around the diagnosis threshold who previously coped with life.
The younger generation of DS's paternal family (inc DS) are getting diagnosed, but traits run deep through the family. Fortunately they have a tendency towards being very mathematical/ technically minded and tend to find sucessful careers in computing or engineering and find interesting jobs and have peaceful, routine calm home lives with little external socialising. DH has a disproportionately high number of batchelor cousins for their age range
The great-uncle still on the family farm has many traits, but a quiet, solo rural life on the family farm has dodged many triggers.
It was the pressure cooker of y2 SATS that exceeded DS's coping abilities and triggered the assessment then diagnosis. Plus me being aware of the possibility and concerned that something wasn't right.
It is also easier for higher functioning people to meet and connect than 20+ years ago.
We're catching up on diagnoses not made in childhood. In my later years of secondary school when classes mixed more, I ended up hanging out with the quirky "alternatives" A few friends are getting assessed/ diagnosed in our 40s, and with hindsight, there were quite a few with strong traits.
At the lower functioning end, there didn't tend to be too many questions asked about learning/ cognitive disability. For my 1960s relative, it was simply "brain damaged at birth, do you want to put him in an institution and get on with your life?" He stayed in the family home until early adulthood before moving to a community residential setting for the rest of his life. He wasn't "hidden", his care needs just meant that he wasn't very "visible" in public spaces. He actually hit a sweet spot in the resource provision where community based care was becoming favourable, respite was there for families and there were decently resourced day centres with transport.
With his level of care need, as long as that support was avaliable, the diagnosis was a bit of a moot point anyway in terms of quality of life.
There are generally more children with severe disabilities because of surviving premature or difficult labours and children survive with complex health and care needs for longer because of medical advances. This means more resourcing in an era of "cost savings" and there are more children being pushed into mainstream settings that don't meet their needs.