Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Thread gallery
14
twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:16

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:15

Correction: I don’t buy into or support the biggest segregator of modern society.

Except it isn't the biggest segregator in modern society. The biggest segregator is wealth, not indy schools

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 11:17

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 10:59

Certainly will as long as none of my or my kids’ tax revenue is used for childless people. Also I don’t want any of my tax money used for people outside the SE.

What a ridiculous statement. The system is not stand alone or opt in to the things you agree with.

Where would it end if we decided only people with kids paid for schools? Are we doing the same for PIP? Asylum support?

We pay tax to fund society - one that should be built on equality and meritocracy, not propped up by luck of birth.

Whether I choose private school or grammar, it doesn't alter the fact my DC are "propped up by luck of birth". I've even bought them rental properties to fund their prep school, save for uni and to gift them later in life. By using grammar I'll just be sponging off the state more and contributing even less.

Another76543 · 06/10/2024 11:19

cardibach · 06/10/2024 10:49

I’ve worked in two which don’t. And having worked In both state and independent, I think it’s more than a bit condescending. Why do you think it’ll ‘help’? The teachers in Indy were trained by the state (if they were trained at all). They aren’t any better.

The state schools our school helps seem more than happy to accept the help (and free lunches/trips etc) which our school provides them with.

Boohoo76 · 06/10/2024 11:20

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 10:59

Certainly will as long as none of my or my kids’ tax revenue is used for childless people. Also I don’t want any of my tax money used for people outside the SE.

What a ridiculous statement. The system is not stand alone or opt in to the things you agree with.

Where would it end if we decided only people with kids paid for schools? Are we doing the same for PIP? Asylum support?

We pay tax to fund society - one that should be built on equality and meritocracy, not propped up by luck of birth.

No it wasn’t a ridiculous statement. I believe that state schools should be funded by general taxation and that it should be increased to pay for state schools. The fact that parents who say that they can easily afford private school but choose not to and still expect those that do to pay additional tax to fund their kids education is perverse. If these parents can genuinely afford private school why are they not campaigning for general taxation to be increased to fund state schools?

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:20

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:16

Except it isn't the biggest segregator in modern society. The biggest segregator is wealth, not indy schools

And 75% children at private school come from the wealthiest 30% of households, with the majority of that 75% coming from the wealthiest 10% of households.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:22

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:15

Correction: I don’t buy into or support the biggest segregator of modern society.

If you want the areas of segregation ranked then:
1 Cost-of-living crisis
2 Food insecurity
3 Children experiencing poverty
4Homelessness
5Women’s rights
6Trans rights
7Climate change
8Education
9Healthcare
10Racial discrimination
11Police brutality
12Mental health
13Asylum and migration
14Weakening of human rights protections
15Digital safety and privacy

Strangely Independent Schools aren't listed

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:23

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 11:17

Whether I choose private school or grammar, it doesn't alter the fact my DC are "propped up by luck of birth". I've even bought them rental properties to fund their prep school, save for uni and to gift them later in life. By using grammar I'll just be sponging off the state more and contributing even less.

I agree.

But that doesn’t mean we should - as the poster I was responding to suggested - segregate tax revenue such that people only pay for services they use personally.

I assume with all your investments, you pay the required tax on your income. VAT on school fees will soon be part of that payment.

I’m actually not against private schools - I went to one myself - but I am against the idea that they are charities or not luxuries.

I think parents who want to choose private schools should be free to make that choice, but that everything in the government’s power should be done to ensure the state system is world class. If they have decided VAT is part of the plan, let them crack on.

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:24

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:22

If you want the areas of segregation ranked then:
1 Cost-of-living crisis
2 Food insecurity
3 Children experiencing poverty
4Homelessness
5Women’s rights
6Trans rights
7Climate change
8Education
9Healthcare
10Racial discrimination
11Police brutality
12Mental health
13Asylum and migration
14Weakening of human rights protections
15Digital safety and privacy

Strangely Independent Schools aren't listed

All of these are most significantly impacted by wealth and quality of education. See comment above – rinse and repeat all you wish.

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:24

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:22

If you want the areas of segregation ranked then:
1 Cost-of-living crisis
2 Food insecurity
3 Children experiencing poverty
4Homelessness
5Women’s rights
6Trans rights
7Climate change
8Education
9Healthcare
10Racial discrimination
11Police brutality
12Mental health
13Asylum and migration
14Weakening of human rights protections
15Digital safety and privacy

Strangely Independent Schools aren't listed

And did you spare a thought to what number 8 indicates?

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:25

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:24

All of these are most significantly impacted by wealth and quality of education. See comment above – rinse and repeat all you wish.

Quality of education doesn't = indy schools. Many state schools get better results eg Michaela. Rinse and repeat all you wish.
Your children have way more opportunities due to your wealth

florasl · 06/10/2024 11:25

@Didimum the governments. The guidance says any nursery class with 5 year olds or children who will turn 5 in that school year are subject to VAT. Summer born children who have delayed a year are still in nurseries. Nurseries are only exempt so long as they aren’t attached to a private school.

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:25

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:24

And did you spare a thought to what number 8 indicates?

I’m going to suggest no, they didn’t.

I guess private education wasn’t worth it with this one.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:26

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:24

And did you spare a thought to what number 8 indicates?

#8
You said it was the biggest. It isn't

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:26

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:25

I’m going to suggest no, they didn’t.

I guess private education wasn’t worth it with this one.

Who said I went to indy school? I didn't

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:27

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:26

Who said I went to indy school? I didn't

Then once again we circle back to a state system that is failing our kids.

Bring on the VAT.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:28

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:27

Then once again we circle back to a state system that is failing our kids.

Bring on the VAT.

Yet your snippiness is a really good advert for state education?

florasl · 06/10/2024 11:29

To add, this is what the government said about charging VAT to toddlers.

A government spokesman said: “The vast majority of nursery classes will not be subject to VAT, as children have usually entered the first year of primary school by the time they are five years old.”
“We want to ensure all children have the best chance in life to succeed. Ending tax breaks on private schools will help to raise the revenue needed to fund our education priorities for next year, such as recruiting 6,500 new teachers.”

So basically, couldn’t care less.

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:33

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:26

#8
You said it was the biggest. It isn't

See comment above regarding wealth and percentage of private school usage. Once again – rinse and repeat.

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 11:33

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:28

Yet your snippiness is a really good advert for state education?

I think that because they went to private school they are trying to demonstrate what type of people they believe it produces - ones that look down on state school educated people like us. Just ignore it - I see that isn't true on the whole these days.

Didimum · 06/10/2024 11:35

florasl · 06/10/2024 11:25

@Didimum the governments. The guidance says any nursery class with 5 year olds or children who will turn 5 in that school year are subject to VAT. Summer born children who have delayed a year are still in nurseries. Nurseries are only exempt so long as they aren’t attached to a private school.

5yr olds deferring a year to school start don’t get funding for school-hours childcare provision either, regardless of the nursery.

Bilbonne · 06/10/2024 11:37

Are the poor state schools going to have a much higher percentage of the new teachers because the good schools won't need them.

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:39

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:28

Yet your snippiness is a really good advert for state education?

I was privately educated - guess I’m not a good advert for it?

State for all, then, I guess.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:39

Bilbonne · 06/10/2024 11:37

Are the poor state schools going to have a much higher percentage of the new teachers because the good schools won't need them.

Unlikely. Most indy teachers have left state for good reasons

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 11:42

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:39

I was privately educated - guess I’m not a good advert for it?

State for all, then, I guess.

Ah so you benefitted from it but now too want to prevent others from doing the same? I say benefit because you obviously look down on others and judge their level of education from a few posts which are a different ppint of view from your own? Or is this the supercilious attitude you think all indy school alumni have so you don't want your own DC from being subject to it?

Phonomnomnom · 06/10/2024 11:43

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 11:33

I think that because they went to private school they are trying to demonstrate what type of people they believe it produces - ones that look down on state school educated people like us. Just ignore it - I see that isn't true on the whole these days.

I don’t look down on anyone because of their education. It was a bit of fun poked at someone who tried to suggest that because the list didn’t specifically mention ‘private education’ it wasn’t relevant, even though ‘education’ was prominent on the list.

To me that showed a lack of deeper understanding, that, given the context of the discussion, I (humorously in my own opinion)
ascribed to their education level.

Apologies if it wasn’t received in the manner intended and hurt anyone’s feelings.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.