To send this to the parents of the kids who are being horrid to my Y9 son every day

[Spondoolie]

Do you realise that your child is nasty and cruel to my child every single day? Is that the kind of child you wanted to release into the world? Do you realise that you child makes fun of and is vile to my child just to entertain themself?

What's the issue? He got beaten up in primary school and absolutely hated the kid who did it. Of course he'd be delighted when he heard from others that this kid got bullied horribly in secondary.

And yes DS was teased a lot in secondary (by someone new) and one day just lost it and beat the snot out of him.

The only way to truly stop a bully is to give back as hard or even harder.

Don't put it on the WhatsApp group. You need to keep going into school and ask to speak with a safeguarding officer. Ask what they are doing to safeguard your DC. If no joy speak to the Head Teacher and if they don't put a stop to it tell them you will ultimately go to the school governors. Always follow up with email summarising discussion so there is a paper trail. Ofsted always asks to see or be told about any complaints going to governors so when school is Ofsted tested this would be investigated and school know this so will want to a t before it gets to governor's.

This isn't the trendy thing to think and schools will never condone this response for obvious reasons, but you're not entirely wrong!