Would you find it weird if a ex was viewing your social media ?

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If you weren't friends anymore ?
My ex was posting on his Snapchat as public
So I viewed
Not realising he could see my name
Would you find it weird ?
Aibu ?

Nosey but not weird. Unless you viewed it a lot maybe. No idea how Snapchat works though.

A little but I know most people are nosey so I’d just put it down to nosiness and not think much else of it.

Yes because everything of mine is locked down so he wouldn’t be able to!

Yeah a little bit weird.

TBH is it not weirder to not have a look - nosiness and all that.

It's pretty normal. They might choose to smugly flatter themselves and think you're still into them. Truth is lots of people look just out of curiosity or because they're secretly hoping the ex is doing badly.

No, I wouldn't. Most people have a snoop here and there.

Hopefully not, I have recently done exactly the same thing! 😬

Everyone does it, I don't think it's weird. People are nosy!

Check out a previous poster today (or yesterday), who did exactly the same thing - you may get more advice!!

The previous poster did it to an ex of 4 years ago though!!! So the ex probably thought she’d been pining over him for the last 4yrs!

Not really. People are nosey.

Weirder if they are then starting multiple threads about it seeking opinions

I think lots of people do this to be honest, whenever the urge takes them, be it due to simple curiosity, or out of sentiment due to missing them. So I don't think it's weird at all, but he might perceive it that you miss him/are thinking about him a lot.

I look up everyone’s social media but I’m exceptionally nosy.