To not want DH to post my messages to him online

[Sweetlikechoco89]

DH has joined a forum for one of his interests. We had a heated argument, i stormed out and we ended up having a text war. I found out he was putting my messages word for word in this forum.

I am annoyed because that to me was crossing a boundary but he was says he was just gathering opinions. That message was for him not an online community, I dont care if its anonymous, its a line crossed, AIBU?

My first thought was if you are upset that he’s posting anonymously-then what are you actually saying in the messages.

If there is name calling, exaggeration, threats, and generally escalating then maybe you could not do that and both of you can find a better way to communicate. (or break up!)

Maybe none of that is relevant, and you are worried the forum isn’t really anonymous: in which case I’m with you.

I would be pissed off too. You’ve moaned on here nit actually posted the messages. Not the same at all!

But, you’re posting about your DH on an anonymous forum….🤔

Ok but who did Reddit side with tho

My wife doesn't mind

My mother gave me a piece of advice I always found very helpful. Never write anything down that you wouldn't want to be made public.

I have to agree with @MoveToParis If what he had reproduced on the other site reflected well on you I’m sure you wouldn’t be complaining.