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Anyone work in a Premier Inn?

162 replies

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:28

Our teen slept heavily and wasn't responding to us knocking loudly on his hotel room door and calling his phone. The receptionist had a look but couldn't open it with her key card because he had locked the door from the inside.
She said the only way to open it was the police. Surely there is a way to open the door in these circumstances, without damaging the door ?
(Next time I'm booking a connecting room)

Anyone work in a Premier Inn?
Anyone work in a Premier Inn?
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kenidorm · 22/09/2024 20:50

Surely there is a way to open the door in these circumstances, without damaging the door ?

It's neither your problem nor your business.

Your son wasn't in a situation where the door needed to be opened from the outside.

Wantsalotofattentio · 22/09/2024 20:50

Well if he's 18 he's an adult isn't it so you can't be asking staff to go in

FawnFrenchieMum · 22/09/2024 20:51

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:48

I think the embarrassment of us all standing there when he finally emerged was enough to stop it happening again. Plus my brother shouting at him 🤦

I think a lesson in responsibility for you all.

BridgetJonesBigPants · 22/09/2024 20:51

If he's 18 you can't demand access to his room.

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:51

kenidorm · 22/09/2024 20:50

Surely there is a way to open the door in these circumstances, without damaging the door ?

It's neither your problem nor your business.

Your son wasn't in a situation where the door needed to be opened from the outside.

We had to leave for a flight and I couldn't leave him there !

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TheArtfulScreamer1 · 22/09/2024 20:52

Is it right that hotel staff can't gain entry to a room that the occupant has chosen to lock to safeguard themselves without the police.
Yes absolutely it is.
Wasn't it Lucy Spraggan who dropped out of X Factor and years later it was revealed she'd been raped by a hotel staff member who used his key card to gain entry.
YABU

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:52

FawnFrenchieMum · 22/09/2024 20:51

I think a lesson in responsibility for you all.

Responsibility?! I did tell him to set an alarm . What more could I do. He didn't answer

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PeachRose1986 · 22/09/2024 20:53

Not the same hotel chain but I have worked in hotels with these kinds of locks, we had master key cards and a manual key to open doors. I suspect the receptionist may have needed to ask a manager or housekeeper for a master key. I’m glad your son is okay, that must’ve been worrying for a while.

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:53

TheArtfulScreamer1 · 22/09/2024 20:52

Is it right that hotel staff can't gain entry to a room that the occupant has chosen to lock to safeguard themselves without the police.
Yes absolutely it is.
Wasn't it Lucy Spraggan who dropped out of X Factor and years later it was revealed she'd been raped by a hotel staff member who used his key card to gain entry.
YABU

There was a member of staff and 4 members of family stood outside his room !

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kenidorm · 22/09/2024 20:54

We had to leave for a flight and I couldn't leave him there !

Right, but it absolutely wasn’t an emergency where the police would have facilitated the opening of the door, was it? It was a case of 'shit happens' your DS slept in.

You don't need to know how it's done in an emergency, you didn't have an emergency.

Choochoo21 · 22/09/2024 20:54

There is a lock for a reason.

If staff could get in easily then not only could it be dangerous but they could also be accused of all sorts including SA or stealing.

In an emergency they would ring the police, just like you would do if you needed to get into a strangers home (e.g. a welfare check on an elderly neighbour).

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:54

PeachRose1986 · 22/09/2024 20:53

Not the same hotel chain but I have worked in hotels with these kinds of locks, we had master key cards and a manual key to open doors. I suspect the receptionist may have needed to ask a manager or housekeeper for a master key. I’m glad your son is okay, that must’ve been worrying for a while.

A sensible answer, thank you

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PeachRose1986 · 22/09/2024 20:54

Wantsalotofattentio · 22/09/2024 20:50

Well if he's 18 he's an adult isn't it so you can't be asking staff to go in

Of course you can.

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:55

kenidorm · 22/09/2024 20:54

We had to leave for a flight and I couldn't leave him there !

Right, but it absolutely wasn’t an emergency where the police would have facilitated the opening of the door, was it? It was a case of 'shit happens' your DS slept in.

You don't need to know how it's done in an emergency, you didn't have an emergency.

Edited

I think missing a flight is an urgent situation

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BridgetJonesBigPants · 22/09/2024 20:55

This isn't a premier inn problem, this is a your son problem. And I say this as someone who will face this exact scenario in a couple of weeks. My plan is to set his phone off on Find my Device which is a horrible alarm.

Wantsalotofattentio · 22/09/2024 20:56

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:54

A sensible answer, thank you

So would you be happy that any old member of staff could access the room? This is aside from you all standing outside bellowing. Would you feel the same if you had a daughter?

forgotmypassagain · 22/09/2024 20:56

What on earth caused him to sleep so heavily that he couldn’t hear his door being battered at close range?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 22/09/2024 20:56

MocktailMe · 22/09/2024 20:47

The booking name isn't proof of anything.

Big problems in cheap hotel chains with teens especially being accompanied by adults for drug trafficking reasons. We had to have safeguarding training on this sort of thing all the time.

Also, you can't book a child into their own room in a premier inn and you aren't allowed to leave a child alone in the room. So, if he's over 18, he's an adult and you have no right to enter. If he's a child, then you broke the t&c by letting him be alone in there, and policy will be police have to be present to break door down.

No, at 16 and 17 they can be in their own room as long as you are in the hotel, with Premier Inn.

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:56

BridgetJonesBigPants · 22/09/2024 20:55

This isn't a premier inn problem, this is a your son problem. And I say this as someone who will face this exact scenario in a couple of weeks. My plan is to set his phone off on Find my Device which is a horrible alarm.

That is exactly what I did. I sounded the Find My Device and kept trying to call him.

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kenidorm · 22/09/2024 20:57

I think missing a flight is an urgent situation

To you maybe, but to the hotel?

Your son was fine, you don't need to be asking why they couldn't open the door. Yes procedures are in place for emergencies, this was not one.

NotOnlyFedUpButAlso · 22/09/2024 20:57

Waiting for the police to bother getting around to attending seems pretty unpredictable. Why can't these hotels keep a single master key in a "break glass in case of emergency" box?

HaddyAbrams · 22/09/2024 20:58

MocktailMe · 22/09/2024 20:47

The booking name isn't proof of anything.

Big problems in cheap hotel chains with teens especially being accompanied by adults for drug trafficking reasons. We had to have safeguarding training on this sort of thing all the time.

Also, you can't book a child into their own room in a premier inn and you aren't allowed to leave a child alone in the room. So, if he's over 18, he's an adult and you have no right to enter. If he's a child, then you broke the t&c by letting him be alone in there, and policy will be police have to be present to break door down.

Premier inn class 16+ as an adult. I can't book myself and 2 16+ teens into 1 room for that reason. They don't allow more than 2 adults per room.

BridgetJonesBigPants · 22/09/2024 20:58

I feel your pain but at 18 you can't expect a hotel to access a room because you tell them to.

FawnFrenchieMum · 22/09/2024 20:58

fizzypop100 · 22/09/2024 20:52

Responsibility?! I did tell him to set an alarm . What more could I do. He didn't answer

Not blame premier inn that your adult child can’t wake up!

Nomorecoconutboosts · 22/09/2024 20:58

I’ve got teenagers and if one of mine was likely to sleep in before a flight or similar I’d probably have booked them into a room with someone else - in your case the boy’s uncle perhaps. or as you suggested yourself an adjoining room.
although just him (not the rest of you) missing a may well have cured him of doing it again!