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...to wonder how people can afford a thing I can't afford?

46 replies

MasterBeth · 19/09/2024 21:08

Sometimes, I see people who have a thing or things which I can't afford. How on Earth can they afford it when I can't afford it? It makes no sense.

Can anyone solve this impossible conundrum?

OP posts:
JoJothegerbil · 19/09/2024 21:09

They have more money than you.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/09/2024 21:10

Grin YANBU. There are so many threads like that!

WhyArePiratesCalledPiratessss · 19/09/2024 21:10

JoJothegerbil · 19/09/2024 21:09

They have more money than you.

This.

NeverEnoughPants · 19/09/2024 21:11

It's a headscratcher for sure! Yanbu. It defies any kind of logic.

WhyArePiratesCalledPiratessss · 19/09/2024 21:11

Ah... missed the wider view there.
Ignore me.

As you were!

SleepToad · 19/09/2024 21:11

Yes they either have more money than you. Or they get into debt. Either way you can save up and spend the money on lots of cider...then you don't care about the thing you wanted...thing, what thing

bergamotorange · 19/09/2024 21:11

It's so hard to understand, isn't it? Grin

EmpressaurusDeiGatti · 19/09/2024 21:11

You spend money on something they don’t.

distinctpossibility · 19/09/2024 21:13

Or, it's because you're the absolute best and you've seen through capitalism with your laser vision and we all think that you're secretly really awesome and great because you're RICH but aren't STUPID like all of us over here surrounded by TAT and in DEBT.

Beezknees · 19/09/2024 21:15

🤣 brilliant

Barney16 · 19/09/2024 21:16

They are richer than you.

Mumof3confused · 19/09/2024 21:17

Inheritance? Smart investments years ago (rental property etc) perhaps?

ASphinx · 19/09/2024 21:17

Well, it doesn’t matter, but you are Definitely Jealous!

easylikeasundaymorn · 19/09/2024 21:17

I assume most of the previous posters haven't been on MN very long if they don't 'get' it's a TAAT (or about many, many threads).

It's not even just what people can afford, I never realised there were so many people who were completely unable to conceptualise that other people led lives different to their own (let alone that doing so didn't automatically mean their way was right and any alternative clearly wrong!)

The best example I saw was on a random post, I think about trying to get a toddler to put wellies and coat on before going out in the rain or something, that another poster responded to with 'but it wasn't raining today.' I mean, wtaf???
The armchair detectives thinking they've found a plot hole because 'It isn't half term though?' or 'but schools haven't gone back yet,' are pretty common as well.

GuPuddingRamekinHoarder · 19/09/2024 21:17

Yes, I’m always baffled by those threads. In my workplace there are people who earn £20k, £50k, £100k, £300k, £900k, £3m etc. Trying to keep up with the work Jones’ would be impossible.

LittleGreenDragons · 19/09/2024 21:18

I don't know OP. So many people have ice cream and I don't 😫

Thedownsideisup · 19/09/2024 21:19

I've found it's almost always inheritance. People don't talk about it and like to pretend they've earned what they have but generally, if they have a lot more than you'd expect, it's inheritance.

SonjaBarkerFinch · 19/09/2024 21:19

There are threads like this every week on MN where minds are blown that some people earn more money that you! Who would have thought it?

Couldyounot · 19/09/2024 21:20

I know, right, OP. Tain't fair

Dolliesdisasterousdayout · 19/09/2024 21:22

Sometimes, I see people who don’t understand things that I understand. How on Earth can they not understand it when I can understand it? It makes no sense.

I wish that I had some roller skates.

powershowerforanhour · 19/09/2024 21:22

My mum used to say, sniffily, "It's all on the never never"

OrdsallChord · 19/09/2024 21:22

😅

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 19/09/2024 21:23

So weird. Likewise I'm completely mind blown that some people can't afford the things I have. How does that even happen?

lightsandtunnels · 19/09/2024 21:23

Dolliesdisasterousdayout · 19/09/2024 21:22

Sometimes, I see people who don’t understand things that I understand. How on Earth can they not understand it when I can understand it? It makes no sense.

I wish that I had some roller skates.

😂😂😂

BlackStarryNight · 19/09/2024 21:23

It’s because you have such impeccable taste that no one could conceivably choose not to spend their money on the things you do, so the only way they could have other things is by being richer 😆