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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if you’ve ever become obsessed with a murder case?

564 replies

sheknoedidhitit · 16/09/2024 20:26

I was watching a true crime podcast on YouTube and it finished and went to a random suggestion and it was a 2 minute video of a crime scene inside a subway from the 80s on an ordinary news channel.

I looked into the case and there’s nothing on it apart from a one column blurb in the newspaper at the time and the victims photo being sold on Amazon. It’s so weird .. and I can’t stop thinking about it.

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XChrome · 17/09/2024 04:28

Also Missy Bevers. Terrifying case with creepy CCTV video of the murderer captured shortly before the murder.

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autienotnaughty · 17/09/2024 04:31

Corrie McKeague
Claudia Laurence
Madeline McCann
Ben Needham
Andrew Godson
Amy Lynn Bradley

Their poor families never truly getting closure

MeanderingMeercat · 17/09/2024 04:48

A case that stays with me is baby Liam Gonzales Bennett. He was found in his bed with severe head injuries thought to be caused by a fist. Apparently his mother had decided to take away his dummy. They estimated that he had over 30 injuries.

His mother and her partner of the time were both suspects but no one was ever charged. Prosecutors couldn't decide who was responsible.

They literally got away with the murder of a poor innocent baby. I followed the case at the time and often think of him.

Firefly1987 · 17/09/2024 04:53

DreamTheMoors · 17/09/2024 03:42

Imagine him getting love letters in prison.
Sickening. People are warped.

Oh god that reminds me of when I had a prison penpal. I was super young tho-like 16/17 (had to lie about my age) and it was never love letters. But I look back and think WTF did I do that for. I started regretting it a few months in. My parents used to ask why I had "department of corrections" stamped on some of my letters! I honestly don't know why I did it and think what an idiot now.

user1471492582 · 17/09/2024 05:26

Nicole Simpson and Ron Goldman

MoodyMargaret11 · 17/09/2024 05:57

1dayatathyme · 17/09/2024 00:07

Definitely not an obsession but the Lucy Letby case makes me shiver yet I take it all in. If there is even a slight chance she is innocent as many professionals have stated, it would be an absolute abomination of our justice system.

How could there be any chance of that though? Do people forget the notes she wrote, found in her house, admitting to killing the children?

Alondra · 17/09/2024 06:06

The only case I became really emotionally involved with was the disappearance of an 8 year old (El pescaito) in circumstances so incredible, with so many twists and turns, it could have been an Agatha Christie's book.

It was the largest missing person search ever in Spain, and it gripped the whole nation. We all kept hoping we'd be found alive but was murdered pretty soon after his disappearance.

I still think of him and his parents.

usernother · 17/09/2024 06:18

GlitchStitch · 17/09/2024 00:25

I also find both the Chris Watts and Scott Peterson cases interesting. They are both so similar to me, outwardly mild mannered, almost taciturn. But capable of such brutal violence. And similar behaviour afterwards too, devoid of feelings of grief and guilt.

Scott Peterson is a truly awful person. The fact the he still maintains his innocence is bizarre to me. I'll be interested to hear his appeal.

usernother · 17/09/2024 06:24

I listened to the Lucy Letby trial every week via the podcast. When they read out everything she'd done to kill each tiny baby it made me cry. I think she's guilty. The inquiry that's happening now is very interesting and I'm listening to that podcast too.

Riapia · 17/09/2024 06:55

Disappearance of 13 year old April Fabb in 1969. In rural Norfolk.

Nw22 · 17/09/2024 07:28

@AnotherNameChange0 there has been a lot happening with the Asha degree case this week

Auburngal · 17/09/2024 07:34

Also Colin Pitchfork. Both Lynda and Dawn came from villages 7 miles from where I live.

Dont get the law courts obsession with wanting Pitchfork on parole. He needs permanent locking up as he was on parole once and didnt last 5 mins.

Poettree · 17/09/2024 07:40

The Beaumont children in Adelaide. Just vanished. Sadly it appears they will never be found and no one will ever know what happened to them.

Lentilweaver · 17/09/2024 07:51

Poettree · 17/09/2024 07:40

The Beaumont children in Adelaide. Just vanished. Sadly it appears they will never be found and no one will ever know what happened to them.

Oh yes that was baffling. No trace at all!

StMarieforme · 17/09/2024 07:52

Newname71 · 16/09/2024 22:16

The murder of Sophie Lancaster really got to me. I sobbed my way through the documentary. I can’t believe the bravery and drive of her mum, starting the Sophie Lancaster foundation. I wear my Weirdo, Mosher, Freak t shirt with pride.

Me too.

thoonerismspread · 17/09/2024 07:59

SpagBolBowl · 16/09/2024 20:47

George Floyd. I watched the entire case.

Also not a case but listened to a fascinating talk by an undercover police officer who then went on to campaign for legalisation of drugs. He was also of the mindset that it would solve deforestation and help prevent climate change.

I want to know more about the police officer! Do you remember his name or any other info please? I kind of have the same opinion having worked for the police.

Claudia Lawrence is definitely one for me. I'm also fascinated with Alice Glaston, although that is very different.

JennyBeanR · 17/09/2024 08:02

Basically every case covered by the prosecutors podcast. Fascinating discussions, but my favourite is probably the Murdaugh murders.

Rosscameasdoody · 17/09/2024 08:03

The Jamie Bulger case has always haunted me. I was at the shopping centre in Bootle the day he was abducted, witnessing the commotion when it was discovered he was missing. I remember the horror of watching events unfold on the news and when they announced they had found his body, the shock of learning that two such young boys were responsible for torturing and killing him.

Gallowayan · 17/09/2024 08:05

Yes... the Sara Boone case, (aka suitcase Sarah).

thoonerismspread · 17/09/2024 08:32

Also I can't remember her name (sad) but the young woman who was murdered by the man who was of Yemen elite, and he almost got away with it. I'll find it. Martina something. That case infuriated me. Typical male entitlement, murdered her because she rejected him.

Member984815 · 17/09/2024 08:35

MaidOfSteel · 16/09/2024 22:02

Back in the 80s (when it was much harder to lear more about US cases) I became very interested in the case of a young teen named Cinnamon Brown. She was manipulated by her father into murdering her stepmother, Linda, Ann Rule wrote a book about the whole sad thing, called 'If You Really Loved Me.' Her father really was a piece of work.

I still always think about Suzy Lamplugh and Claudia Lawrence, and hope that we'll have answers about them one day.

I remember the movie of that case , he was such a manipulater.

bringincrazyback · 17/09/2024 08:47

Youllnevergetabetterbitofbutteronyourknife · 16/09/2024 23:36

I love true crime. The most disturbing case I ever watched on YouTube is the murder of Junko Furuta. The poor girl was kidnapped, held for 40 days, whilst being perpetually raped, tortured and eventually killed by a gang of young men. It is the single most horrific thing I have ever seen and I've watched a lot. It has stuck with me.

Oh God yes, that one is harrowing. I only found out about it recently but I've not been able to forget it either. That poor poor girl.

TheRulerofThings · 17/09/2024 09:05

@Over40Overdating I was on maternity leave when Graham Dwyer’s trial for the murder of Elaine O’Hara was taking place and I remember reading every single paragraph written about it. He is such an evil, evil man - a predator in every sense of the word.

Paul Williams’ book ‘Almost the Perfect Murder’ on it is very good. The sheer number of coincidences which led to the murder being discovered and him being caught are almost unbelievable - if it was fiction you would say it was far fetched. The testimony from the previously suicidal American woman who said he was trying to convince her to let him kill her was terrifying and very distressing. His former partner testifying that he brought a knife to bed was incredibly disturbing. The world is a much safer place with him behind bars.

RIP Elaine. I am so glad for her family that all his appeals have been rejected and justice has prevailed.

StMarieforme · 17/09/2024 09:32

AdviceNeeded2024 · 16/09/2024 22:48

I always think about those unsolved cases, or missing people, at least one person somewhere knows what happened to them, how do they feel, do they spend their life looking over their shoulder that they might be caught or do they not care, and how can they live with themselves knowing what they’ve done or that the loved ones of the victim are suffering so much.

If they're psychopaths then they won't care. It's unthinkable for anyone else, but they literally see and have no consequence.

StMarieforme · 17/09/2024 09:33

Charmatt · 16/09/2024 22:51

There was a murder in the village I grew up in, when I had just started secondary school. A 16 year girl was raped and murdered. It wasn't solved for over 26 years.

It completely changed the village, it destroyed the family and it had a huge lasting effect.

I was obsessed with it for the whole duration. He never gave the family an explanation.

Notts?