Bit confused about this -
DM bought a leasehold flat in one of those semi-managed blocks with a warden, communal gardens etc. She's getting on a lot now and told me today that the flat is left to me in her will - but that that means the communal fees and mortgage would need to be paid until the property sells.
I don't think there's any mortgage on it, or if there is its only small. But the communal / service fees are really high - about 1k per month.
Now me and DM sadly don't get on well at all which is a bit by the by, but basically I wasn't expecting to be left anything and really don't want anything from her. Those types of flats in those blocks seem to take forever to sell - her one was on the market over a year before she bought it and there are at least 3 others for sale in there. So I'm pretty worried I could end up saddled with this thing and having to pay 1k+ a month which I really can't afford for an unknown length of time.
She says she's put me as Executor on her will, which makes me liable for all payments. And also if I become the owner of the property I'm liable anyway.
I could refuse the inheritance- but looking at Google it sounds like that would make it pass to the next in line, which is my children and would be in their late teens / early twenties so obviously I would never saddle them with it either. There is nobody else, she has no other family.
Are we basically stuck with her ongoing payments eventually, one way or another? And AIBU that is a rubbish system if so to be forced to pick up the pieces for something you don't even want...