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Should I contact him?

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Teanadbisucits · 13/09/2024 15:46

Hey so I am female (25), I met a male (26) when I went to the pub for food ( he was with his brother having a pint after work).

long story short he kept looking over to me & when I went outside for a cigarette he told me that I was beautiful & we got to chatting and we really did hit it off. Before I left the pub as I only came for food - he asked for my Snapchat so I gave it him.

Him and his brother were really nice, we spoke a little bit after the pub & he ended up in an argument with his brother and was letting steam of to me about it ( which I didn’t mind)

I have not heard anything from him since this and it was a month ago - I’ve noticed his Snapchat score hasn’t changed in a month ( it changes when you use Snapchat the score goes up) we are still friends on their I am definently not blocked but he hasn’t posted anything at all.

He has no other social media platforms the only ones he does are old - I’m more concerned than anything I am just wanting to know that everything okay. I have been thinking about messaging his brother who was with him that day just to check he is okay. I don’t want to over step though so it’s holding me back as I barely even know him? But I feel like we really hit it off so I’m just a bit confused.

thanks :)

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angellinaballerina7 · 13/09/2024 22:10

You traded Snapchat details, not any actual phone number or anything? That says it all tbh.

Also why do you want a man who argues with his family then offloads the drama onto the first person he meets?

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