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Juice in school

370 replies

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 08:42

My DD’s teacher is being very combative about her taking juice to school (primary) in a clear drinking bottle. He says it’s against school healthy eating standards, but if she brings it in a non clear bottle it’s fine! She brings a very healthy lunch and has perfect teeth. She is also very sporty . She point blank refuses to drink water. Yet others in her class bring crisps and chocolate and nothing is said .
AIBU to stick with the (new) clear bottle?
i dislike petty rules that have no bearing on her education ! Especially when the rules are not enforced for others !

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Sadmamatoday · 13/09/2024 08:55

Would you really rather your child's teacher waste their time on this than actually teach your child? Get your priorities sorted!

I’m not the one wasting time , the teacher is wasting his own time by trying to enforce petty rules

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LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 08:57

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 08:56

The juice is not the issue! The teacher has clearly said she can bring juice as long as it is in a non clear bottle!

A clear bottle is unfair on the other kids. It's like letting her eat haribo at her desk, and not letting any of the others have any

MrsMitford3 · 13/09/2024 08:57

@Fubar01

This is not a hill I would die on.

You have a choice here-IMHO the teacher being helpful-

get a different bottle
give your DD water
Move schools

You seem to want to escalate this into more than it is.
Don't bring drama-otherwise it will be no juice!!

PassMeTheCookies · 13/09/2024 08:59

I just put flavoured water in my son's bottle.

He does drink water, but likes it fresh out of the fridge, so he was coming home with a warm water bottle that was still full. We've switched to flavoured water and he drinks the full thing every day.

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 08:59

daisychainarainyday · 13/09/2024 08:45

You have answered it yourself really.
Your child is very sporty. Others may not be so. Orange squash allowance may open the door to bottles filled with coke! There's more sugar in that than a bit of chocolate.

If you so keen for juice - give her a non clear bottle. Done.

It’s not about the juice it’s about the hypocrisy of saying you can’t have juice it’s against school standards. But if you put it on a non clear bottle it’s fine! What is that teaching our children?

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brunettemic · 13/09/2024 08:59

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 08:55

And we wonder why we have an obesity epidemic....

We certainly don’t have one due to a bit of juice in a bottle.

LostTheMarble · 13/09/2024 08:59

brunettemic · 13/09/2024 08:54

And then a fizzy drink opens the door to heroin and before you know it kids are shooting up in the toilets.

🤣🤣

The overreacting on this thread is ridiculous and the teacher is being persnickety. I bet the staff room is full of caffeine and cake! Fizzy drinks are a short, very sugary energy burst, so absolutely makes sense on many levels why they’re banned. But juice is mostly flavoured water, it’s not the end of the world.

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:00

fizzymizzy · 13/09/2024 08:46

Well you have 2 choices. Get into a battle with school over nothing, or support a different bottle.

As part of the wider picture of you are not happy with school rules etc remove your child.

You have many choices here. Choose the least argumentative one, and the best for your child.

So we teach our children to be sneaky ?

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daisychainarainyday · 13/09/2024 09:00

Send water in the bottle. Nothing else.
If she's thirsty she will drink it.
You are pandering too much and being a pest of a parent by being a fuss about this!

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 09:00

brunettemic · 13/09/2024 08:59

We certainly don’t have one due to a bit of juice in a bottle.

Of course not. I love juice, and drink it in moderation

It's the attitude that's the problem. My child must have sugar for every drink! Water is not good enough for my child!

Imposter1212 · 13/09/2024 09:01

My DD has ASD and accompanying massive issues around food and drink. School resisted anything but plain water in her bottle resulting in her drinking nothing (and I mean not a drop all day even in summer) so her consultant wrote a letter stating that she would be bringing diluted juice in her bottle.

We did pop it in a coloured bottle so you couldn't see the contents. We have had some progress and she will accept flavoured still water on PE days so she can take her school clear bottle on the sports field.

Sadmamatoday · 13/09/2024 09:01

brunettemic · 13/09/2024 08:59

We certainly don’t have one due to a bit of juice in a bottle.

Tbf sugary drinks is a huge contributor. Even fruit juice that people believe to be healthy are basically just sugar. It's good to instill healthy habits from a young age. Know better, do better.

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Anyone who can’t answer an op without resorting to personal attacks shouldn’t be questioning anyone else IQ.

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:01

Sadmamatoday · 13/09/2024 08:48

Another parent just wasting time being petty. Just put it in a non clear bottle ffs.

So you think it’s okay to teach primary school children to be sneaky !

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banoffeelover · 13/09/2024 09:01

I assume the non clear bottle is so other kids don't get jealous that their classmates have juice whilst they have water. But that would seem daft when they can be envious over the snacks they each get.

Tbf I'd just get a non clear bottle as I wouldn't have the energy to waste on something trivial.

However, I would have the energy to address DD dictating that she must always have a sugary drink. Point blank refusing to drink water? No way would I be accepting that as a parent, sporty or no sporty.

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 09:01

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 08:59

It’s not about the juice it’s about the hypocrisy of saying you can’t have juice it’s against school standards. But if you put it on a non clear bottle it’s fine! What is that teaching our children?

The poor teacher is trying their best to give you a compromise. If you are that worried, just give her water.

lizzyBennet08 · 13/09/2024 09:02

Honestly op. You are coming across like a total loon. The school rules say no juice but teachers turn a bit of a blind eye as long as it's not flaunted. Why oh why would you chose to go to war with teacher and get reputation in school as difficult as awkward when all you need to do it buy a different bottle.
If these are the issues you wish to go war on, you're in for a difficult school career.

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 09:03

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:01

So you think it’s okay to teach primary school children to be sneaky !

No, it's the school trying to accommodate conflicting needs.

Sadmamatoday · 13/09/2024 09:03

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:01

So you think it’s okay to teach primary school children to be sneaky !

You're being disingenuous, they're allowing you to bend the rules. If they said that you couldn't have juice at all then you'd complain about that. Honestly, would you rather your chirl had an education or that teachers wasted their time on dumb shit like this? Really?

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:03

JustJoinedRightNow · 13/09/2024 08:49

You don't need to "win" this OP. Just change the bottle, omg.
Or get her to drink water.

So you actually think that it’s okay for teachers to enforce rules for some and not others ?

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Sadmamatoday · 13/09/2024 09:04

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 09:01

The poor teacher is trying their best to give you a compromise. If you are that worried, just give her water.

Great solution. You can be the bigger person OP, don't fall for the sneakiness and give your daughter water instead! 😄

Rory17384949 · 13/09/2024 09:04

My eldest DD was terrible at drinking water, she would literally not drink all day if I gave her water.
So I got her a pink drink bottle and put summer fruits squash in it for school and nobody ever found out.
She is 13 now and drinks water all the time, in fact prefers water to squash.
She also has never had issues with her teeth.
So just send her in with squash, it's really not a big deal.

LameBorzoi · 13/09/2024 09:04

Fubar01 · 13/09/2024 09:03

So you actually think that it’s okay for teachers to enforce rules for some and not others ?

So you would rather they ban her juice altogether?