Juice in school

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My DD’s teacher is being very combative about her taking juice to school (primary) in a clear drinking bottle. He says it’s against school healthy eating standards, but if she brings it in a non clear bottle it’s fine! She brings a very healthy lunch and has perfect teeth. She is also very sporty . She point blank refuses to drink water. Yet others in her class bring crisps and chocolate and nothing is said .
AIBU to stick with the (new) clear bottle?
i dislike petty rules that have no bearing on her education ! Especially when the rules are not enforced for others !

Not getting anywhere. Send the water in and stop morning then. If she doesn’t drink then she doesn’t drink! Or complain to the head teacher and look more of a dick!

She drinks milk at home , she has a large bottle of water with a splash of juice in it fr school. She has sweets once a week and crisps if she is at a party. We don’t go to McDonalds and we don’t eat takeaways . So thank you 😀.

So send her with water then. It's 7 degrees at the moment. She's not going to dehydrate.

No but you would expect them to go at least once in a 6 hour period

Honestly OP, the majority of people on here are telling you that yabu and yet your still arguing with them, why ask in the first place if your not really interested in peoples opinions.

Just get a darker coloured water bottle for the juice. In my opinion the teacher is compromising and your the one that isn't.

Someone once told me regarding parenting: ' don't exhaust yourself trying to constantly win battles that are not worth the fight, otherwise you won't have any energy left for the battles that are'

Being a drama lama over this isn't teaching your daughter how to compromise, which is an important lesson in life.

Children should only drink water or milk, juice is totally unnecessary and has no health benefits.

Schools have rules. You don't need to agree with them but you need to follow them. You have been given two very easy to comply with options, stop being awkward.

This is not a hill to die on.

I don't understand this. If she was that rule-bound she would be drinking water, surely?

Maybe he is doing a reasonable adjustment for your child, which they have to do for many children in a variety of ways. He knows your child doesn’t drink water. To make it easier for them he has said put it in a non clear bottle so the teacher doesn’t get inundated with questions from other pupils/parents why your daughter is allowed juice and they aren’t. Otherwise they can add it to all the other questions they will get in respect of other reasonable adjustments made, why is little Jonny allowed to be on an I-pad to play games when I’m not allowed, why is Jane allowed to bring in a comfort toy, why does Dan not have to wear school shoes etc etc.

If she does take juice she needs to know not to drink jt in little sips all day as you can with water, as you’re basically then bathing the teeth in it all day. She would need to know to drink it on a couple of occasions during the day, ideally with her food for at least one of these.

she doesn’t want to be doing something she shouldn’t do
So if the rule is no juice just stop sending juice.

I could be wrong but I interpret that as teacher saying they will turn a blind eye to what is in the bottle, as long as they can pretend ignorance. I'd applaud that as a common sense compromise and go along with it.

Absolutely this. You offer them sugary crap of course they will go for it.

How an earth, as a parent, do you manage to bring up your child to not drink water?

A bit of a sweeping statement, isn't it...
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In general I support teachers and appreciate that they do a very difficult job under increasingly trying conditions. But, teachers are not impervious to criticism however small it may be. The fact is they are giving mixed messages here, over juice (a bloody silly hill to die on for many schools to start with). Either juice is allowed or it isn’t. And if it isn’t, then many kids will go without all day. There are many adults who’d choose plain water as a last resort drinking option, yet apparently kids will turn to fat sugar addicts if they have one bottle a day.

MN would have fainted at what was given to me as a child, full glasses of lucozade was typical! Fruit juice boxes constantly, chocolate bars twice the size they are these days. Wagon Wheels as big as your head. There’s a line between caring about children making healthy choices and simply being a jobsworth, kids these days are already in a much better position than we were 30 years ago.

How on earth as parents did yours raise you to be so judgmental? Not your child , not your business

They’ve said it isn’t. OP complained. Kind teacher gave a compromise. OP now complaining that said kind teacher is now a rule breaker.
Conplain to Ofsted. Chair of governors. Petition for other parents? Local paper?

You've sort of made it our business by plastering it all over mumsnet. If your not interested in other peoples opinions why did you even start the thread?

They should only eat fruit, vegetables and organic meat as well. Yet even schools offer cookies and chocolate puddings as part of a lunch meal. Bit hypocritical isn’t it.

I actually don't know how often my school aged kids go, and really don't care! They will listen to their bodies and drink and toilet when they need to.

You’re lucky they even let you hide it in an opaque bottle. They aren’t supposed to allow it at all.

Just change the bottle. My DD drinks water but if all her friends came in with juice she would ask for it. I wouldn’t be happy with the school allowing it. One of her friend’s mums has the same issue of her daughter not drinking plain water so she sends in flavoured water. That may be an option too? But it’s certainly not an arbitrary rule.

Is your child learning?
Is your child making progress?
Is your child happy?
Does your child have friends?
Does your child feel safe and comfortable at school?

If not, move her. I’d hazard a guess that any other school would have the same expectation about drinks.