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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:04

See I agree with this but as I’m a guy I’m sure I will get hate for agreeing

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:05

Abbylikeswine · 13/09/2024 01:13

Let's throw something into the scenario.

Say if the man was old, fat, smelled bad.

Would you still take a half a million pounds for sex with him.

These kinds of men are not usually kind nice and good looking

@Abbylikeswine

fat. WTF I'd find some people's attitudes far more of a problem than someone being fat!!

my neighbour is 'old', he's 20 years older than me & one of the sexiest men I've ever met. Yes he's 'ageing' now & getting a bit saggy, be he's still one of the sexiest men I've ever met.

but yes, even if the man wasn't young & 'fit'
id still do it.

Kittynoodle · 13/09/2024 02:06

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 01:25

As a father of 3 at 35 and been single for 7 years I’d say yes to improving my children’s and my life

Why are you on here???

FruitFlyPie · 13/09/2024 02:06

I think that many of us have had sex that left us feeling used and unhappy with men that were supposed (and claimed) to love us. So the idea of doing exactly that with someone who made no such claims but we were left with a life changing amount of money isnt a huge issue.

Exactly. I've never been raped or sexually assaulted, but I've had sex I didnt want. To be nice, to make someone like me, to avoid an argument, to stop him nagging and even because I felt awkward saying no. I feel like most woman have done this at some point.

To have sex for a large amount of money is nothing compared to that. I wish sex was something "special between two people in love" but it isn't really, is it.

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:07

500k is still 500k regardless of who it is right now?

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:08

Oh my god what is everyone’s problem, I just commented on a thread I haven’t said anything unkind or inappropriate at all I’m just answering comments like everyone else I’m not harming or offending anyone at all !!

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:09

Abbylikeswine · 13/09/2024 01:17

It's you who's wrong actually.

Go and read up on what a sugar baby is

@Abbylikeswine

Its not @PyongyangKipperbang that's wrong.

Garlictest · 13/09/2024 02:10

I doubt he'd be talking about fishing or Reform You never know, it might be what gets him in the mood 😂

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Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:11

I know what a sugar baby is I’m not dumb. Sugar babies and daddy’s I find weird but they only exist and continue to exist because of the customer base they have right and the “people” that want there services.

BobbyBiscuits · 13/09/2024 02:11

If someone offered me half a million quid for missionary that lasted only about two minutes? And it was someone I didn't know? Or I did know?! If they used a condom...Can they have a bag over their head? Can I? If nobody would ever know I guess it would be idiotic not to. But why on earth would this circumstance arise?
I reckon any sicko wants to pay that much for sex would want something way more grim and humiliating? Maybe if the person was female I'd be less suspicious? Lol

BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma · 13/09/2024 02:11

Nothing wrong with fat, middle aged men imo. Jack Black for example. He has a million pounds.

Garlictest · 13/09/2024 02:13

BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma · 13/09/2024 02:11

Nothing wrong with fat, middle aged men imo. Jack Black for example. He has a million pounds.

I bet he's good in bed, too ...

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:17

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/09/2024 01:32

Because this thread is based on the hypothetical scenario the OP asked about.

One off missionary sex that is over quickly. So on that basis, the no weirdness is implied. I will admit that the missionary part of it is my biggest issue, not the sex itself.

@PyongyangKipperbang the OP has already that it could be doggy etc it was just the she thinks it would be the 'easiest' (lay down & think of England).

& yes, 'nothing weird' was very much implied!

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:17

People like jb could probably get it for nothing if they were that way inclined he wouldn’t need to shell out a single penny

BoreOffAboutYerChickensEmma · 13/09/2024 02:19

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:17

People like jb could probably get it for nothing if they were that way inclined he wouldn’t need to shell out a single penny

Yeah, I think I will be paying my mortgage for a good while longer. 😒

OonaStubbs · 13/09/2024 02:20

I would do it for a lot less than 1/2 a million. I go to work every day for a year and make a lot less than that. Having sex is far easier.

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:21

Why less suspicious if it were a female ? I’d be more suspicious given that you’d expect it from a guy. A woman offering this would arouse my suspicion hugely. Unless she was a cougar and was open about what she does and what she wants. I don’t see any wrong in that. But it’s wrong and weird the other way around ? How does that work then

Iateallthechocolate · 13/09/2024 02:21

I've had sex as pain relief, sex to shut him up moaning ( sex cheered him up for a few days, shh I never told him I did this). Sex because I was bored and there was nothing on tv. Sex so I could think about the guy at work I fancied.
So it's a yes from me, I would also pimp out husband / ex husbands soon as look at them for this amount.

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:22

Hey you never know you could be jb’s exact type then you wouldn’t have to lol

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:23

lol 👏🏻 class act, needed you to back me erlier not that I was out of line in the slightest.

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:26

I’m from England I’d advise not to think about us atm we are in dire shit
perhaps think about France or America lol

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:28

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:04

See I agree with this but as I’m a guy I’m sure I will get hate for agreeing

you need to quote the post that you agree with or other posters have no idea what you agree with 🤣🤣

Just ignore posters banging a drum or implying you're not welcome to post on a lighthearted hypothetical thread, just because it's about sex. Some would rather men didn't post at all, even on the gardening threads 🙄🙄

obviously it's better to use your common sense & not post on 'sensitive threads' that really only concern women, but other than that. 'Have at it!'

Just4thisthreadtoday · 13/09/2024 02:29

Kittynoodle · 13/09/2024 02:06

Why are you on here???

@Kittynoodle

why are you?? Why is anyone?

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:31

Appreciate your words thank you I don’t know how to quote as I said already I literally just joined this web page and not to even speak about this lol. I have even posted a thread myself. I understand some people won’t like me being here even tho I’m being sensible. I think it’s because I’m a man with an opinion and just one or two didn’t like it. I’m not here to offend or piss anyone off. Why can’t people talk or debate without the hate tho.

Delonghi88 · 13/09/2024 02:33

I posted on a completely different thread and have already proven that this was the first thing that came up as I joined. Not that I have to explain myself but I will tho. Well exactly then !! What are you even here may I ask

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