Hi, was with my ex for around a year and we split, his choice, in the time together he told me he loved me saw a future blah blah blah. When we split he said he saw no future had no feelings etc. A couple of months after splitting we became FWB, said he had no feelings. A couple of months later he said he had feelings and wanted to give it a go how bad he'd treated me etc etc. fast forward 6 months of trying we've had a few big rows and now his saying he's struggling to get past them and his feelings now aren't as strong because of the arguments. But he believes they can grow and we can make this work. Am I just being deluded?
When I broach the topic of what he's done wrong he makes me feel I'm the bad one. It's almost like everything he did has to be forgotten and I have to try get him to now want me! surely this isn't right?