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To think it’s okay to take certain things from a hotel?

414 replies

TakeOrLeaveIt · 10/09/2024 01:00

I’m curious to know what people think about taking items from hotels. For example, I know things like toiletries (shampoos, soaps) are often seen as fair game, but what about things like mugs and glasses? I’ve stayed at a few places recently, and I was tempted by some of the nicer bits. Obviously, I didn’t take anything major, but it’s got me thinking - where’s the line? Is it stealing or part of the hotel experience?

AIBU to think it’s harmless to take certain things? Or shouldn’t all stay behind?

What do you think?

OP posts:
Lovelysummerdays · 10/09/2024 07:09

Philandbill · 10/09/2024 06:53

I didn't know the toiletries bottles are refilled @ThePrologue. You learn something every day. Who does the refilling? Hotel staff or back to the manufacturer?

Nobody is refilling the tiny bottles. That would be time consuming and fiddly and most likely sticky. A bottle of Arran aromatics costs 26p per unit shower gel, shampoo, conditioner it was all the same. A minimum wage worker cost 19p a minute. Unscrewing, refilling, wiping down drying, polishing would cost more in time than just replacing the bottles and you’d need to buy the big bottles at £30-£40. Possibly abroad if labour costs are comparatively low.

They refill the big bottles.

Channellingsophistication · 10/09/2024 07:10

Of course you can’t take mugs and glasses from hotels that is stealing their property!

MikeRafone · 10/09/2024 07:11

TakeOrLeaveIt · 10/09/2024 01:00

I’m curious to know what people think about taking items from hotels. For example, I know things like toiletries (shampoos, soaps) are often seen as fair game, but what about things like mugs and glasses? I’ve stayed at a few places recently, and I was tempted by some of the nicer bits. Obviously, I didn’t take anything major, but it’s got me thinking - where’s the line? Is it stealing or part of the hotel experience?

AIBU to think it’s harmless to take certain things? Or shouldn’t all stay behind?

What do you think?

Apart from he fact it is theft and some hotels will charge you for the items taken - why would you want an item everyone else has used ?

Cvn · 10/09/2024 07:11

I take whatever toiletries I haven't used. There's a few of us at work who do (I work in a maternity unit). We keep them in the staff room to give out to patients who unexpectedly have to stay overnight and haven't brought an overnight bag.

SherbetSweeties · 10/09/2024 07:14

My friend works in the hotel industry. In management and no you can't steal anything they will charge you for anything you take.

Not including the toiletries and tea coffee etc obviously those you can take.

Lemonadeand · 10/09/2024 07:14

The difference between toiletries and mugs/glasses is so obvious because one will be replaced after each customer anyway and the other will not.

Hopebridge · 10/09/2024 07:16

Toiletries yes, beyond that no..... I would imagine they would charge for that.

SunnyDaySummer · 10/09/2024 07:18

I saw a mum pinching Lego bricks from a play area in Legoland. She was being very middle class and jolly as she went about it too, which somehow made me more disgusted. Add Lego to the ‘no’ list!

Globules · 10/09/2024 07:19

There was a lovely Bose speaker in a hotel I stayed in last year. Should I have taken that?

hopefulnothelpful · 10/09/2024 07:22

I love getting the mini shampoos etc - so handy for flying.

Apparently branded items are for taking (hence the branding) so things like pens, but definitely not mugs/glasses.

I took a corkscrew from a fancy hotel once as it was branded but it was a really lovely one and I have felt guilty ever since!

pasturesgreen · 10/09/2024 07:25

Are you really that desperate for a shitty ceramic mug that's been used by God knows who and the likes of which you can pick up new for a quid or two anyway?

Gazelda · 10/09/2024 07:26

@Hateam is right. This must surely be a journalist's post.

LuluBlakey1 · 10/09/2024 07:29

I couldn't be faffed with taking anything. It is never anything I'd actually want anyway.

NetZeroZealot · 10/09/2024 07:32

I do take the mini shampoo, conditioner and soap because they are useful for travelling- to a lesser hotel that doesn’t provide them. Or a self-catering place. I’m also partial to a shower cap.
i take the biscuits if they provide them, but it would never occur to me to take the tea bags too!
in fact I try to remember to bring my own from home as I’m quite fussy.
I would not dream of taking anything else.

Corinthiana · 10/09/2024 07:33

LuluBlakey1 · 10/09/2024 07:29

I couldn't be faffed with taking anything. It is never anything I'd actually want anyway.

Me neither. I suppose you'd have to be fairly desperate to steal a mug from Ibis or Holiday Inn!

RedOnyx · 10/09/2024 07:33

I take shampoo/shower gel if I've opened it and slippers if I've used them. I'll also take the biscuits and if they leave a free bottle of water I'll either drink it there or take it with me. Some places charge for the water though.

PattiSmithsPattis · 10/09/2024 07:35

I have taken shower caps (for shoes) and several pairs of spa slippers (got a new pair each time you went and they were 'disposable')
I love the idea of supporting the homeless charities with the little bottles 🧡
I did once admire glasses in a pub and the manager gave me 2! I wouldn’t have stolen them though.
If you are desperate for mugs try poundland, normally cheaper than charity shops these days.

2Old2Tango · 10/09/2024 07:36

The people who steal this stuff are usually the first to moan when hotels put their prices up, totally missing the point that it's a cost to them to keep replacing stolen goods.

squashyhat · 10/09/2024 07:36

Shower caps for me - the one I use at home is too big for my wash kit and not all hotels supply them so I like to have a few in reserve. That's all.

Mercurial123 · 10/09/2024 07:38

It must happen a lot in Thailand and Vietnam. Nearly all the hotels I have stayed at have a price list of everything in the room if you decide to steal it.

whatkatydid2014 · 10/09/2024 07:40

BettyBardMacDonald · 10/09/2024 03:24

That doesn't make it ok.
Theft is theft.

If you want to donate toiletries, purchase them.

Hotels provide sundries for immediate use, not as takeaway.

That makes no sense to me. Your room
rate includes the consumables (tea/coffee/hot choc sachets/sample size toiletries). If you choose not to use them now and instead use something you’ve brought yourself I fail to see why taking them for later instead is theft. It would be akin to taking away a desert that comes with a 3 course meal if you decide you are full after the main.

Zita60 · 10/09/2024 07:40

Absolutely not. The only toiletries I would take would be little ones that I've already started using, eg a half-used bottle of shampoo.

Anything else is theft.

SleepingisanArt · 10/09/2024 07:41

We have branded luxury robes which we bought when staying in a very expensive hotel one Christmas. The same hotel gave us expensive candles, cuff-links and chocolates as a gift because it was Christmas (over a decade later the robes and cuff-links are still going strong).

The Savoy have a price list in the room for everything including £10k for a bed 😂

Corinthiana · 10/09/2024 07:42

@SleepingisanArt - I'm wondering how people would get a bed down the corridor!

Partylikeits1985 · 10/09/2024 07:46

The hotel will just bill you if they realise you’ve knicked anything (and they’ll have your card details remember)