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To think only a monster would claim a reward for returning a missing pet

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OptimismvsRealism · 29/08/2024 12:59

Surely any decent human would refuse unless absolutely desperate for food or something

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Beautiful3 · 30/08/2024 18:47

If someone's offered a reward, then why not accept it?! Shouldn't be offered if they don't want to pay it!

Teddybear23 · 30/08/2024 19:53

I agree, maybe not a monster but I couldn’t accept a reward for returning a pet to its home; my reward would be seeing the owners and pet happy to be reunited, seriously 👍

YeOldeGreyhound · 30/08/2024 20:11

This thread is batshit. Monster is a strong term that I would reserve for people who commit atrocities on others. Accepting a reward that has literally been offered, does not a monster make!

A few years back, I found a ferret in a back lane near my house. I took it home (my greyhound thought it was for her), and I shut it in the bathroom whilst I posted on FB that I had found it, then rang around vets. There is an exotic vet a 30 min walk from me. They suggested I put it in a box, and bring it to them. There was no way I could keep it until FB group admins eventually accepted my post, and people saw it with the hope that someone could collect it.

From finding ferret, to getting it to a vet took over 3 hours. I have zero ferret experience, and found out the hard way that they are escape artists, so the box it was in contained it for about 20 seconds. So whilst walking to the vets, I was wrestling with it, trying to keep a hold of it and keep it calm. I wont lie, a couple of times I felt like just letting it go.
I was very stressed (and very hot, it was during a heatwave), and my very old phone with shite signal was sending me all around the houses in terms of directions to the vets. Unfamiliar journeys are something I struggle with on my own, and despite people directing me, I kept getting lost and more stressed, all whilst this furry noodle was climbing all over me.
I got to the vets 30 minutes after they closed (a member of the public called them), I was bordering on having heat stroke when I got there.

When I eventually got home, there was a post in a FB group about a lost ferret, and some people screenshotted my post for them. Ferret was reunited with owner the following day.

Had I had been offered a reward, fuck yes I would have taken it. The critter was cute, but the whole experience cost a lot in time and my own spoons.
The real kicker is that I found the ferret in the same lane where it actually lived, so it was not far from home at all.

SpringHexagon · 30/08/2024 20:25

I know what you mean op as I have actually thought to myself when I've seen rewards posted for missing pets, there's no way I would take anyone's reward if I happened to find their animal, I would just want to make sure it got home to where it needs to be, free of charge with no expectation other than seeing a family happy to have their pet home.

Askingforafriendtoday · 30/08/2024 20:42

Numsmetty · 29/08/2024 13:01

No, monsters keep them and use them as bait in dog fights.

Yes, exactly. And some monsters steal them, and return them to get the reward. The world is full of very nasty peoole... I'd obvs give the reward to get my beloved pet back but if I knew it had been stolen, had evidence etc. I'd have the police waiting to arrest the lowlife or summon some strongarm friends to do a citizens arrest until police arrived!

PointsSouth · 30/08/2024 20:42

Beth216 · 29/08/2024 13:39

In that case this is a very, very random thread.

The OP specialises in those.

Lyraloo · 30/08/2024 21:05

OptimismvsRealism · 29/08/2024 12:59

Surely any decent human would refuse unless absolutely desperate for food or something

This is a really stranger post, you’re arguing your point despite everyone disagreeing with you, why ask the question if you’re just going to argue your right?

YeOldeGreyhound · 30/08/2024 21:10

Askingforafriendtoday · 30/08/2024 20:42

Yes, exactly. And some monsters steal them, and return them to get the reward. The world is full of very nasty peoole... I'd obvs give the reward to get my beloved pet back but if I knew it had been stolen, had evidence etc. I'd have the police waiting to arrest the lowlife or summon some strongarm friends to do a citizens arrest until police arrived!

Someone on my FB lost her cat, and offered a reward. She had several people PM her and say they had her cat, and said they were sexually abusing it, and were asking for more money for its return.

Her cat just casually sauntered home one day. Just got a bit lost.

JustAnotherDadOf2 · 31/08/2024 00:32

If the owner offered a reward, then fine.if not then it's a ransom so not fine. Are you suggesting the rewardee stole the pet?

Mynewsofa · 31/08/2024 09:08

Why?

And monster is real hyperbole.

Someone returning a lost pet has been inconvenienced in some way and if there was reward offered, why not accept it?

Same goes for any lost item.

And totally depends on the 'reward' offered and by whom.

RightOnTheEdge · 31/08/2024 09:24

I always struggle with myself when I see rewards for lost pets, because I absolutely would gladly take a lost pet home if I found it and just be happy to have done a good deed. I would feel really awkward and a bit of a dick accepting a reward.

But at the same time, I'm always short of money, and any extra would really help me, so would it be daft to refuse a reward if they could afford it or the insurance was paying just for the sake of feeling awkward?

MaroonedinWales · 31/08/2024 09:54

I would guess the OP has just finished watching the film '7 Psycopaths' , an enjoyable watch with a different take on missing pet rewards. Watch it if you can.

Debs2024 · 31/08/2024 14:02

Seriously I’d give them double if reward posted !

Debs2024 · 31/08/2024 14:04

It’s going to be a £5000 fine to steal a cat or dog at last!

CleverGreenBee · 31/08/2024 14:11

A monster!!!! 😱😂😂 If someone returned my dog Star, if she were missing. I'd give them a piece of my heart never mind money 💰 She's part of our family and I would insist the person took a reward. A lot of people would ignore a stray dog and if they took the trouble to return them. They should get something for their time, at the very least

FortunateCatsGlugDaquirisAllEveningBlindly · 31/08/2024 17:03

@CleverGreenBee kitchen fitters let our dog out. I wasn’t at home but was furious as to make matters worse they hadn’t noticed and his tracker was charging.
A neighbour found him ‘dodging cars’ while she was walking her dog.
I realise he wasn’t missing for long and no reward was up but when I saw her with him and realised he was safe, I would have emptied my (not enormous) bank account and handed it to her if she asked.
I can’t imagine not honouring any reward if one is offered, basically because of the monsters out there and what they could have done. I would just be happy to have them back safe.

Kjpt140v · 31/08/2024 18:07

OptimismvsRealism · 29/08/2024 13:04

I don't even have a pet I just think taking a reward for doing a basic humane act is an arsehole move

A monster? You might not like, but the person is a monster, that is well over the top.

MrsToothyBitch · 31/08/2024 18:15

I wouldn't necessarily advertise it but I'd pay a fortune to whomever returned my cat. I wouldn't necessarily expect or accept reward myself but if I'd put quite some effort and energy into it - such as in the ferret story upthread, I would take anything kindly offered!

PeloMom · 31/08/2024 18:18

If someone is offering compensation if their pet was found , I’d definitely take it. What would make me a monster?

CleverGreenBee · 31/08/2024 22:25

Poor you.😌 No wonder you were furious. I hope you reported the kitchen fitters letting your dog out to their company. They should be aware of these things. Exactly the the thought your precious dog could have been hit with a car or that there's monsters out there that harm animals for the fun of it. People that don't have animals, don't realise how much our pets mean to us and other family members. I'm so pleased you got your dog back 🥰

TheArtOfTreeHugging · 01/09/2024 08:05

I kind of get what the OP is saying. In an ideal world we like to think we'd all be kind and caring enough to reunite a pet with it's owner without the need for payment, just because it's the right thing to do.

But unfortunately, we don't live in an ideal world, and if offering a reward makes people sit up and take the initiative to help look a bit harder for that missing pet, then so be it.

Reward offered = pet found = reward given.

I mean, you can't offer a reward and then when your pet is found say "oh, you actually want the reward? - you're a monster!" and get all arsey about it.

I just imagine my own dog going missing. I love that little dog so much. He's just the best, a cherished member of our family and I'd be heartbroken without him. The stress of not knowing where he was or if he was hurt would cause me a lot of sleepless nights and genuine stress. If a 'lost dog' campaign without a reward yielded nothing, I guess I would get desperate enough to then move on to offering a reward. And if that meant the return of my treasured little dog, then I'd be happy to hand that money over.

But still, it is sad that money has to be used to get animals back to their owners. And like the OP, if it was the other way around, I wouldnt feel comfortable accepting reward money if I returned a beloved pet, because I know that money was only offered out of sheer desperate love and it would feel a bit grubby to profit from that.

A bit of a grey area really.

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 02/09/2024 21:18

Of course it doesn't make someone a monster if they take the reward money @OptimismvsRealism 😆

If I found someone's pet, I wouldn't take the reward, because I don't need the money, but if I did I would. And if MY pet was found by someone and I offered a £1000 reward for example, I would insist the pet-finder has it..

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