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Why don't holiday cottage companies do these things? AIBU?

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TheStroppyFeminist · 27/08/2024 15:28

I have been searching for a holiday cottage for next year and so far haven't found the right one but FGS, why don't cottage companies:

  1. Show you a floor plan? I want to see where each bedroom is in relation to other bedrooms because of snoring etc
  2. Show you the bathrooms properly? I want a huge walk in shower and I want a separate attachment as well but you can hardly ever see whether there is one
  3. Insist on a 10am checkout and a 4pm or later check in? It's annoying and we sometimes leave the day before to avoid getting up early
I also won't empty bins or strip beds, I'm on holiday! AIBU? What are your self catering hates?

YABU, understandable, they CBA
YANBU, they really should provide this info

OP posts:
Kaleidoscope101 · 29/08/2024 09:11

candycane222 · 27/08/2024 15:38

Few photos of the knick-nacks on the listings 😂

This.
All the "arty" shots of vases/glasses/lamps.
Always makes me wonder what are they hiding 🤣🤣🤣

CeeJay81 · 29/08/2024 09:13

I totally agree with your last point about the cleaning. After getting a bad review off owners off air b and b, I've realised some expect you to fit in several hours cleaning before you leave at 10. Can't be doing with that, so will be sticking to hotels in future.

DesdamonasHandkerchief · 29/08/2024 09:13

Our latest Airbnb had check in at 4pm checkout ay 9am - and yes beds had to be stripped, bedding and towels bagged separately, bins emptied and recycling sorted.
Many properties changed their check in and out times during Covid pandemic - supposedly for extra cleaning measures and seem to have decided it's convenient for them not to change back. I think it's a total rip off.

wombat15 · 29/08/2024 09:22

I hate the 10 a.m check outs, given they expect cleaning. It is always stressful. I don't remember it being so early before covid. The fact that you can't check in before 4 makes it worse.

I would like to be given details on check in and out times before booking so I could avoid early check out.

amccabe15 · 29/08/2024 09:31

The timing is all about getting it cleaned and prepped for the next guests, so that’s unreasonable (although 4pm seems a bit much).
I agree, the arty-farty photos are useless and annoying! If it’s air bnb you can message the owners and ask about shower etc If it’s through a holiday rental company, you can ring them and ask. If they’re not helpful I’d be looking elsewhere.
As far as stripping beds etc. I think it’s a cheek too.

WatchOutMissMarpleIsAbout · 29/08/2024 09:37

We have a timeshare U.K.
been coming for 20+ years. They just ask for used towels in bath. Dishwasher loaded but not on (fire hazard while empty) bed sheets left on so they can inspect them.

Anything broken we notify them during our stay.

Check in 4pm but will let you know if it’s ready before (happens often) check out 10am. But if no one coming in you can ask for later checkout.

Purplebunnie · 29/08/2024 09:40

@DesdamonasHandkerchief

9am check out is totally ridiculous.

We'd not been in a holiday let since 2019 and our most recent stay was a return to a cottage we'd been to before. Nothing has changed since Covid in that stripping the beds and putting towels in the shower have always been politely requested.

Obviously some people are taking the proverbial

pinkspeakers · 29/08/2024 09:46

TriciaA1991 · 28/08/2024 22:49

There have been holiday home owners on here - how do you rent out? We had a bad experience with Sykes a few years ago (paid a fortune for a Hen party house - just for 7 of us, with a hot tub) and things like there was dog dirt all over the garden, a kitchen cupboard door fell off, one of the beds was broken, there should have beds for 10, but we had to look for bedding for no 7 - plus the bathroom was on a separate floor for everyone except one ensuite.
AirBnb - generally pretty good (on a lovely one atm) until we had a REALLY dire experience where we paid £800 for a 5 bedroom house for a weekend for a wedding and it was unsafe (had small children with us). Hanging electrical cables, broken glass in internal doors, door wouldn't lock and it was filthy with standing dirt in the drawers and stains on the sheets and towels. It took months to get 30% refund but the house is no longer on AirBnb (they didn't take off immediately). It had 7 or 8 x 5* reviews but they had to be fake. I found it listed on another site with bad reviews afterwards.

I now feel I have to see 100 reviews to feel safe!

I rent out through Airbnb. But I use a professional host who manages about 15 properties locally and she looks after absolutely everything for me beautifully. I dread her deciding to stop as I don't know what I would do! I couldn't do it myself and I don't think the large companies would be the same. She has her own website, but in fact the bookings are all through airbnb. The good thing for me starting out was that she already had a very high rating as a host, so that made up for having no reviews to get started.

Started in Jan 2022 and now have 111 reviews, 4.95 average. Pretty high occupation rate all year. It's in a popular tourist/university city so demand isn't very seasonal. My original plan was to use it myself too as I have quite a long commute. But it's so popular that it's tricky!

My own experience with Airbnb has been very good. There's always some luck involved I guess. But that's going to be true for any holiday accommodation?

pinkspeakers · 29/08/2024 09:54

PS - I'm cringing slightly as my airbnb listing is guilty of a few "arty" close up shots of a bottle of prosecco and flutes on the table etc. I blame our hosting company that did the photos.

Goldbar · 29/08/2024 09:58

I think the "arty" shots are nice in addition to, although not as a replacement for, the main pictures. What I want to see in the main pictures is bedroom set-ups, bathrooms, kitchen and living-room, especially the seating.

We have young children so I rule out places with glass tables with sharp corners, very steep or unsafe stairs, fabric dining-chairs or carpets under the table. Also lots of "stuff"!

TheStroppyFeminist · 29/08/2024 10:06

Fizbosshoes · 29/08/2024 08:35

I think some owners need to appreciate guests are on holiday!
We don't want to do everything we do at home.

It's enough to have to self-cater, buy food, grapple with strange ovens etc, take the rubbish out, stack the dishwasher, without having to do every single chore.

...but is that not the point of self catering over a hotel?
I know friends who say s/c is not a holiday because they have to shop and buy food and cook....so they go to a hotel!
I prefer it because I like having more space, meal times that suit us, go out for some meals but don't have to eat out every day.

I don't do everything I do at home, less laundry, I don't generally clean the bathroom or hoover on holiday, we eat out 3 or 4 times, but accept that there will still be washing up/emptying bins ....because we're self catering...

Not always the point of self catering, we go self catering because we want privacy and space (so generally book a 3 bed, 3 bath apartment or house) - I don't cook at all other than possibly breakfast, we eat out all week / holiday.

OP posts:
DataPup · 29/08/2024 10:24

We've never done several hours of cleaning, always got the deposit back and have even had comments about how tidy places have been left. That must be over at least 20 different places/companies in the last 15 years. Considering we don't do much beyond washing up and a quick wipe down it makes me wonder how places get left sometimes.

parkrun500club · 29/08/2024 10:29

TheStroppyFeminist · 28/08/2024 17:24

I do sympathise with owners whose mortgages and all other costs have gone up and who can't find any cleaners and who are hated by the locals in Cornwall and Wales and places like that. I do think bookings must be down, I'm seeing a lot of availability when I'm searching, probably because it's cheaper to get on a plane!

Well assuming it's not a property that can only be used for holiday lets, there's an easy solution - either rent out the house for residential use, or sell it!

But no, they want the status symbol of their second home/holiday home in Cornwall.

No sympathy from me at all.

parkrun500club · 29/08/2024 10:32

DataPup · 29/08/2024 10:24

We've never done several hours of cleaning, always got the deposit back and have even had comments about how tidy places have been left. That must be over at least 20 different places/companies in the last 15 years. Considering we don't do much beyond washing up and a quick wipe down it makes me wonder how places get left sometimes.

I think some people are turds and leave a horrible mess, especially when you see the threads on here where people who've worked in hotels talk about some of the awful things they've encountered in hotel bedrooms.

But most people will leave a floor to hoover, a bin to empty and a pile of damp towels and used sheets to wash. It really won't take a cleaner that long unless it's a really big property. But then the rent will still cover the cost as the rent for a cottage that say sleeps 8 people will be huge.

KeepScrapingBy · 29/08/2024 10:37

pinkspeakers · 29/08/2024 09:54

PS - I'm cringing slightly as my airbnb listing is guilty of a few "arty" close up shots of a bottle of prosecco and flutes on the table etc. I blame our hosting company that did the photos.

You’re paying your hosting company so you could ask them not to do them? Personally I find them useless and even wonder if they’re trying to hide something.

pinkspeakers · 29/08/2024 10:48

KeepScrapingBy · 29/08/2024 10:37

You’re paying your hosting company so you could ask them not to do them? Personally I find them useless and even wonder if they’re trying to hide something.

I have sometimes asked her to change photos or wording. But she has much more experience than I do, so I tend towards trusting her judgement and knowledge of the market more than my own personal tastes. She seems to be doing an excellent job.

Elphame · 29/08/2024 10:55

TriciaA1991 · 28/08/2024 22:49

There have been holiday home owners on here - how do you rent out? We had a bad experience with Sykes a few years ago (paid a fortune for a Hen party house - just for 7 of us, with a hot tub) and things like there was dog dirt all over the garden, a kitchen cupboard door fell off, one of the beds was broken, there should have beds for 10, but we had to look for bedding for no 7 - plus the bathroom was on a separate floor for everyone except one ensuite.
AirBnb - generally pretty good (on a lovely one atm) until we had a REALLY dire experience where we paid £800 for a 5 bedroom house for a weekend for a wedding and it was unsafe (had small children with us). Hanging electrical cables, broken glass in internal doors, door wouldn't lock and it was filthy with standing dirt in the drawers and stains on the sheets and towels. It took months to get 30% refund but the house is no longer on AirBnb (they didn't take off immediately). It had 7 or 8 x 5* reviews but they had to be fake. I found it listed on another site with bad reviews afterwards.

I now feel I have to see 100 reviews to feel safe!

Sykes have a well deserved poor reputation. They visit the property when they take it on and then never again so there is no quality control.

They also have complete control over the reviews they publish or choose not to publish!

blondiepigtails · 29/08/2024 11:01

parkrun500club · 29/08/2024 10:32

I think some people are turds and leave a horrible mess, especially when you see the threads on here where people who've worked in hotels talk about some of the awful things they've encountered in hotel bedrooms.

But most people will leave a floor to hoover, a bin to empty and a pile of damp towels and used sheets to wash. It really won't take a cleaner that long unless it's a really big property. But then the rent will still cover the cost as the rent for a cottage that say sleeps 8 people will be huge.

it really does take that long to clean a property to guest standard. Every floor has to be hoovered then mopped. Drawers need to be checked and cleaned if hairy. Kitchen cupboards & drawers may need a wipe out for crumbs as does the fridge freezer (and a 2nd fridge). Under beds and behind beds need a wipe, skirtings need a wipe. Door switches, tops of door frames, internal glass doors etc etc.
I offer 2 rooms of zip and link beds and that adds another 20 mins to change mattress protectors, duvets etc.
If I say my 4 bed takes 2 of us 4 to 5 1/2 hrs to turn round - it really does. 4 hrs is an absolute minimum if the previous guests haven't used all the bedrooms and have eaten out.

Elphame · 29/08/2024 11:13

TriciaA1991 · 29/08/2024 08:43

@SnaggingaSalmon
Do you not charge for stolen items?? As I said earlier, we are just leaving a lovely home today. Husband broke a wine glass this morning (we were asked not to put in dishwasher so broke washing up). I have eailed owner to tell her and offered to pay!

Also re dogs - I generally avoid ut we booked somewhere erlier this year as it was perfect (taking whole family and position) nd it was perfect - so sign of dogs. Better than Sykes one who didn't say and then was dog dirt in garden!

It can be surprisingly hard to identify the thief and then you have to be 100% sure too.

Normally we notice things "missing" but can't say for definite whether it was there at the last changeover or not. I wouldn't necessarily notice a missing corkscrew or bowl immediately but obviously would miss the TV and the Sonos devices are on the checklist to check they are present...

Yes guests do get away with the petty theft most of the time unfortunately. GDPR has made it impossible for owners to share details of bad guests amongst themselves as well but I have an excellent memory and have refused repeat bookings on more than one occasion.

Don't worry about the broken glass - we wouldn't expect you to pay for or replace it. I like all my glasses to match and we keep good stocks in the spares cupboard as we know they are vulnerable. It's just another consumables expense. After the state mine was left on Saturday a broken glass doesn't even register.

NicoleSkidman · 29/08/2024 11:27

Purplebunnie · 29/08/2024 08:37

It is is not new since Covid to strip the beds.

I have been using holiday cottages for over 30 years. Originally you had to take your own bedding, towels etc and pay for electricity by a £1 coin meter. Even in those days you were asked to leave the cottage clean and tidy. Very rarely was there a dishwasher so it all had to be hand washed

I greatly appreciated when cottages started to provide linen and towels and the electricity was included. This change, calculating back, must be over 20 years ago and there have always been instructions to please strip the beds.

Not in my experience. I have also been using holiday cottages for decades and I had never been asked to strip beds until Covid.

SnaggingaSalmon · 29/08/2024 15:53

Agree with pp it is often difficult to spot the thefts immediately - the person who stole all the LEDs replaced them with cheaper non LED bulbs which burnt out - so it was only then we noticed.

The only option you have is to try and claim from guests - but the type that steal don't respond to demands, so then you have small claims but the cost and time spent issuing a small claims proceeding often outweighs the cost of the items stolen.

Regulations now also mean you cannot refuse bookings from all female/all male groups - as it is discrimination. So you can end up hosting stag and hen dos - one of which smashed a hole in a wall.

We have suggested that our agents take a deposit but we were strongly discouraged - saying it would halve our bookings.

TorroFerney · 29/08/2024 15:59

Thisismetooaswell · 27/08/2024 22:59

No it isn't. That's a holiday in the UK. A staycation is staying at home and having days out

Thabk you. Yes the clue is in the stay bit of the word.

Purplebunnie · 29/08/2024 16:11

NicoleSkidman · 29/08/2024 11:27

Not in my experience. I have also been using holiday cottages for decades and I had never been asked to strip beds until Covid.

Obviously I have stayed in far inferior establishments as I have been stripping beds and cleaning since DD2 who is now 30 was a toddler

Delatron · 29/08/2024 16:44

NicoleSkidman · 29/08/2024 11:27

Not in my experience. I have also been using holiday cottages for decades and I had never been asked to strip beds until Covid.

Yes there are lots of different holidays cottages at different price ranges. I wouldn’t now or in the past 20 years, go to one where I had to take my own bedding and make up beds.

I know this has been done on a different thread and we all had a lovely argument about how long it takes to strip beds but that’s not the point. The main point is on holiday, and especially the last morning, I don’t want to be stripping beds. It’s just another bloody task to do on holiday.

Nadeed · 29/08/2024 16:50

@SnaggingaSalmon not being able to refuse all female or all make groups are because they could be a group of lesbian or gay male couples. So if you would take a group of mixed sex couples, then turning down a single sex gay group would be discrimination and you could be sued.