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ASOS “fair use returns policy”

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creepywoman · 25/08/2024 14:25

Did anyone else get this email from ASOS? Aibu to wonder whether they sent it to a select group of people?

I have the ASOS next day delivery service which has led to me ordering a lot from them. I’d say recently I’ve placed a few returns including a faulty item, so I wonder if I’ve flagged up.

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LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:27

Crunchymum · 26/08/2024 16:40

I am going to give up shopping full stop.

We moved to online shopping when loads of shops closed down / moved to smaller premises / moved to online models. And now online shopping is brutally painful as its costly and time consuming to sort out returns. I've had issues with both Next and George recently. Not only did I pay delivery and return postage but George fucked up the refund and I had to spend 40 minutes on the phone to get it sorted and Next couldn't process my return request online (system error) so I had to call them too.

Fucking nightmare.

Never mind the end of the high street, welcome to the demise of shopping full stop.

Soon we'll be ordering everything from big Amazon-esque warehouses.

I’ve never had any issues with returns.

Back in the day shopping in town would mean getting ready and looking good enough to go shopping, then getting the train or bus or driving which was costly in itself. Then there’s the time spent travelling and the two or three hours in the crowded shopping centre going back and forth and having to decide.

It took up your whole weekend whereas now I can order something online from my bed before I start my day WFH and have it by the weekend. It’s great.

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:28

TheEuropaHotel · 26/08/2024 08:25

I've had the same email. It says it doesn't affect me too.

I don't order very often but when I do I quite often have to return as things don't look nice on 🤷‍♀️. i have heard people being cut off from clothes shops for returning things (not excessive numbers of returns either). I am
not sure what people are supposed to do - keep ugly clothes which don't fit, to keep the privilege of being able to spend money ?

There aren't lot of places to shop in person where they have enough stock either.

Meh, I suppose it will mean people spend less money, which is good for them and the planet, but surely not good for the shops. There margins must be absolutely tiny for this to be cost saving for them as it will surely lose them sales...

Edited

I’m in your boat.

I don’t order too much but return quite a bit. I also often order two sizes and end up returning them both as the one that fits looks shit.

I try to counter my returns by ordering skin care and underwear and other casual bits and bobs which I know I won’t or can’t return.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:29

NatalieIsFreezing · 26/08/2024 17:25

How would going for my best guess allow me to compare items? I mean literally compare them next to each other or compare the fit.

By your logic, I order one, it looks 85% ok but could have a bit more room around the middle. I send it back, the larger size is fine around the middle but falling down on the shoulders, so the first one is better (or neither).

Tbh I have heard of people ordering huge numbers of things to essentially recreate a boutique in their bedroom, try on at leisure then return nearly everything. I assume this is the sort of person they want to stop, not someone ordering two sizes of one top.

Either the 85% one is good enough OR it's not. If it's not you return it and try the next one. If that's not good enough then it's time to try something else

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:32

EternallyIrked · 26/08/2024 16:33

ASOS are on the bones of their arse, I believe - as are many of the similar online retailers such as Boohoo, PLT etc
Fashion retailer Asos predicts sales dip in 2024 as losses balloon (ft.com)
Asos reports smaller loss before tax and improved gross margin (retail-insight-network.com)

I used to be a regular user however I can't remember the last time I seen something I liked on their website (personal opinion). Also, they hardly ever have discount codes anymore whereas it used to be a different one every week. Another sign that they are struggling, perhaps?

If they want to reduce returns they should improve the quality of their goods and standardise sizing. If people have their accounts closed, they will shop elsewhere and soon realise how shoddy ASOS & co. have actually been in recent years. I shop(ped) at ASOS as it was easy and quick; sometimes that efficiency was worth the drop in quality but if the efficiency goes, so will the incentive.

That's the issue. It's too quick it sounds like people aren't considering their purchases

RareBears · 26/08/2024 17:32

Anyway I will keep ordering a couple of sizes and won’t change my habits. ASOS and other retailers don’t seem to have an issue with it and probably are happy for my custom. I love shopping irl but they don’t stock my size usually. And it’s much easier to try on clothes at home with the right accessories, not feeling rushed etc.

ohmydays37 · 26/08/2024 17:34

I use ASOS and return more than I keep (benefit of annual delivery).

I did contact them about a hoddie that had shrunk. They asked for lots of pictures then refunded me the amount and said I could keep it - all done in chat.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:35

RareBears · 26/08/2024 17:32

Anyway I will keep ordering a couple of sizes and won’t change my habits. ASOS and other retailers don’t seem to have an issue with it and probably are happy for my custom. I love shopping irl but they don’t stock my size usually. And it’s much easier to try on clothes at home with the right accessories, not feeling rushed etc.

Very wasteful but I see how the model encourages this behavior. Personally I think they should take 25% of the price off the return

Precipice · 26/08/2024 17:35

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:29

Either the 85% one is good enough OR it's not. If it's not you return it and try the next one. If that's not good enough then it's time to try something else

You seem like a person with a body type easily served by retailers.

For those who are not, it often involves a compromise. Maybe the 85% top is "okay". Comparing it to the next size up makes the difference: maybe the next size up is 95% or maybe it's 60%. The question of whether the 85% top is good enough to tolerate depends on what the alternative is, since the fact that it's in possible consideration at all means that it's not a terrible fit, just not an optimal one. Maybe the 85% top is the best of all possible available options (among even other retailers, considering material, cut, price, colour, neckline, garment length, sleeve length, shoulder width, armhole depth, etc.). But it would be a shame to miss out on the possibly much better fit of the next size up when we note that this one feels a little tight-fitting, just for want of trying it on.

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:37

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 13:46

Why? Just order one. Try it on. If it doesn't fit then return and order the other

So they have to send two packages and you potentially send one.

Whereas ordering both at the same time means they send one package and you send one.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:38

Precipice · 26/08/2024 17:35

You seem like a person with a body type easily served by retailers.

For those who are not, it often involves a compromise. Maybe the 85% top is "okay". Comparing it to the next size up makes the difference: maybe the next size up is 95% or maybe it's 60%. The question of whether the 85% top is good enough to tolerate depends on what the alternative is, since the fact that it's in possible consideration at all means that it's not a terrible fit, just not an optimal one. Maybe the 85% top is the best of all possible available options (among even other retailers, considering material, cut, price, colour, neckline, garment length, sleeve length, shoulder width, armhole depth, etc.). But it would be a shame to miss out on the possibly much better fit of the next size up when we note that this one feels a little tight-fitting, just for want of trying it on.

On the contrary I find it difficult to buy clothes so live in loose styles when I buy online. If I want fitted I try on in the store.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:38

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:37

So they have to send two packages and you potentially send one.

Whereas ordering both at the same time means they send one package and you send one.

And the item you don't want gets returned and it doesn't get put straight back on the shelf for the next person who wants it...

GettingStuffed · 26/08/2024 17:39

I don't think this is aimed at normal people who order a few items and return a part order, it's aimed at "influencers" who order huge amounts like 6 styles in 3 size so they can try it on with friends to see who looks best and the return all 18. Or people who order an expensive dress and returns it a week or so later with makeup on the colour or dirt on the hem obviously worn it and no longer needs is.

GreatMistakes · 26/08/2024 17:39

Immemorialelms · 26/08/2024 08:07

This whole culture of ordering and returning seems to me to be very decadent. I don't use that word lightly but it's the height of making something convenient for yourself while increasing entropy and work and burning more and more of the planet's resources.

In the olden days clothes are made they go to a shop and are sold. Yes, by ordering piece by piece, each with its own journey, we are reducing the number of shop fronts and associated energy costs, and our own journey to the shop, but that only works as an energy saving if we just buy something broadly in our size and wear it. Ordering ten things and returning them seems mad to me.

I 1000% agree about the need for shopping culture to change for the planet's sake, but these are fast fashion brands and it's not their business model.

I used to buy from some of these brands and the sizing was inconsistent and the fit and product quality varies hugely by item. If you can't guarantee a size 10 you order will fit the same as the size 10 you ordered last week, of course people buy the 8/10/12 and return the ones that dont fit. Another common trick is to order extra items to trigger meet the free shipping threshold and then return them free.

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:40

EternallyIrked · 26/08/2024 16:33

ASOS are on the bones of their arse, I believe - as are many of the similar online retailers such as Boohoo, PLT etc
Fashion retailer Asos predicts sales dip in 2024 as losses balloon (ft.com)
Asos reports smaller loss before tax and improved gross margin (retail-insight-network.com)

I used to be a regular user however I can't remember the last time I seen something I liked on their website (personal opinion). Also, they hardly ever have discount codes anymore whereas it used to be a different one every week. Another sign that they are struggling, perhaps?

If they want to reduce returns they should improve the quality of their goods and standardise sizing. If people have their accounts closed, they will shop elsewhere and soon realise how shoddy ASOS & co. have actually been in recent years. I shop(ped) at ASOS as it was easy and quick; sometimes that efficiency was worth the drop in quality but if the efficiency goes, so will the incentive.

They used to have new stock quite often so every time you looked you’d find something new.

But now it seems they’re still trying to flog their stock from two years ago.

The branded things they sell (which is the only thing I buy from them) look terrible too now.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:41

ohmydays37 · 26/08/2024 17:34

I use ASOS and return more than I keep (benefit of annual delivery).

I did contact them about a hoddie that had shrunk. They asked for lots of pictures then refunded me the amount and said I could keep it - all done in chat.

I am wondering why you don't go to another retailer?

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:43

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:38

And the item you don't want gets returned and it doesn't get put straight back on the shelf for the next person who wants it...

Why do you care about this so much?

They have a business model and they factor in the cost of expected returns. If it stops working they’ll change it.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:43

Another common trick is to order extra items to trigger meet the free shipping threshold and then return them free that is revolting behaviour and I think free returns should be banned unless faulty

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:43

LovelyBitOfHam · 26/08/2024 17:43

Why do you care about this so much?

They have a business model and they factor in the cost of expected returns. If it stops working they’ll change it.

Because the waste.

Borgonzola · 26/08/2024 17:45

I also received it and haven't bought anything for about 3 years?

Precipice · 26/08/2024 17:47

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:43

Because the waste.

Instead of aiming your ire at customers and seemingly suggesting that customers should be putting up with subpar products within some range of their size just so that they don't put the company out by returning, why not direct this energy at retailers? Some returns are inevitable, but retailers could cut down on a significant chunk by providing comprehensive and accurate sizing for their products.

Nosurprisetherethen · 26/08/2024 17:49

Great advertising ploy - send an email which is somewhat “odd” - now we’re all talking about ASOS.

Ineffable23 · 26/08/2024 17:52

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 17:38

On the contrary I find it difficult to buy clothes so live in loose styles when I buy online. If I want fitted I try on in the store.

So if you live in loose styles only, maybe your advice, particularly in a relation to a retailer known for its wide range of outfits, including mainly fitted styles, might not apply?

If online only retailers only want people to buy baggy clothing and not return it someone can certainly try that as a business model but I wouldn't bet on the brand's longevity.

I totally understand what people mean - my bust and waist measurements are 3 sizes apart. Depending on the way a top is cut I can either look like I'm busting out of it or not. I can wear anything from a 12 to 16 or even an 18. I have broad shoulders as well for extra fun and games but if a top isn't fitted on the waist then I look 3 sizes bigger than I am.

I mainly buy in person or from about 3 brands that semi reliably fit me. But places like ASOS are online only so if they want customers to purchase from them then they have to come up with a way of supplying clothes that fit or enabling the return of clothes that don't. Preferably both!

LoquaciousPineapple · 26/08/2024 18:00

I got this email and I can't remember the last time I ordered from ASOS. I do return most things when I do order, but I do it so rarely I doubt I've been flagged as a problem customer.

SuddenlyINeedToGoCauseIHaveAThing · 26/08/2024 18:09

creepywoman · 25/08/2024 15:14

It just has me thinking if I fall foul. In the last year I have placed 10 orders and have kept around 30%. There’s only been 1 full order I’ve kept too, I’ve returned at least 1 thing in the other 9 orders.

I had a look at their current fair use policy and they do mention returning a lot being a flag for them.

I think most people do this nowadays. Rather than go into town and try things on – and it’d be unusual to go home with every single thing you took into the changing room.

People probably try more items (and ultimately keep more) because they know they can return them without penalty.

It’s part of their business model. They expect returns.

violetsparkle · 26/08/2024 18:12

Ineffable23 · 26/08/2024 17:52

So if you live in loose styles only, maybe your advice, particularly in a relation to a retailer known for its wide range of outfits, including mainly fitted styles, might not apply?

If online only retailers only want people to buy baggy clothing and not return it someone can certainly try that as a business model but I wouldn't bet on the brand's longevity.

I totally understand what people mean - my bust and waist measurements are 3 sizes apart. Depending on the way a top is cut I can either look like I'm busting out of it or not. I can wear anything from a 12 to 16 or even an 18. I have broad shoulders as well for extra fun and games but if a top isn't fitted on the waist then I look 3 sizes bigger than I am.

I mainly buy in person or from about 3 brands that semi reliably fit me. But places like ASOS are online only so if they want customers to purchase from them then they have to come up with a way of supplying clothes that fit or enabling the return of clothes that don't. Preferably both!

That is a fair point. They aren't geared up for online selling if they sell tight fitting garments