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To think toilet sounds better than loo?

244 replies

Mabelthebore · 25/08/2024 14:02

& dessert sounds nicer than pudding? I know some people look down on those who say toilet and dessert but I actually think they sound nicer. I think loo in particular is a horrible word.

OP posts:
Reallybadidea · 25/08/2024 14:53

Wtafdidido · 25/08/2024 14:52

Is the risk worth leaving your son without a mother if things go wrong? No matter how small the chance there is always a risk

Goodness only knows what words they'd end up using!

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 14:53

Wtafdidido · 25/08/2024 14:52

Is the risk worth leaving your son without a mother if things go wrong? No matter how small the chance there is always a risk

What- If she calls pudding “dessert?”🙂

MidnightMeltdown · 25/08/2024 14:54

I say 'Loo' unless I'm with non native English speakers, in which case I tend to say 'Toilet'.

Some of my family are not native English speakers and I know that 'Toilet' will be widely understood, whereas I'm not so sure about Loo.

Whale80ne · 25/08/2024 14:56

MasterBeth · 25/08/2024 14:49

How often are you having conversations about going to the loo with people all over the world?

Actually lots of mners live in non English speaking countries and have international friendship groups who use English as a common language, so quite a lot of people are (though I don't understand why some people are compelled to spell out where they're going in detail when they get up from the table in a restaurant/ café/ bar/ wherever...).

drunken · 25/08/2024 14:56

Loo, bog or the shitter.
Pudding and I'll add napkin instead of serviette 🤮

Redlettuce · 25/08/2024 14:56

Loo and afters

PedantScorner · 25/08/2024 14:57

Crapper and afters?

Haveanaiceday · 25/08/2024 14:57

This discussion does seem old fashioned I'm not saying class isn't an issue but I don't think we judge it on whether someone says toilet or loo or whatever.

avocadotofu · 25/08/2024 14:57

Boredshitless1 · 25/08/2024 14:04

The word toilet actually makes me cringe..loo every time for me!

I second this!

gamerchick · 25/08/2024 14:57

It's bog.

I don't really care if people look down on what others call stuff. You can say I'm going for a piss and ... Meh.

Whale80ne · 25/08/2024 14:58

DarkForces · 25/08/2024 14:34

My loo is very multicultural. It had 2 types of soap for a start and a push button flush

That's alright then. 🤣

Zerogiven · 25/08/2024 14:59

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mewkins · 25/08/2024 14:59

Bellatrixpure · 25/08/2024 14:08

Dessert over pudding. Pudding sounds stodgy to me.

I'm with you. I had anything steamed pudding like and so it always really puts me off.

coffeeandteav · 25/08/2024 14:59

Loo is awful makes me feel sick.

LoneHydrangea · 25/08/2024 15:01

As an inveterate snob, I was brought up to never say ‘toilet’ and cringe when I hear people say it. Ditto ‘dessert’.

My kids say both to wind me up 🤨

LakieLady · 25/08/2024 15:02

drunken · 25/08/2024 14:56

Loo, bog or the shitter.
Pudding and I'll add napkin instead of serviette 🤮

In my head, a napkin is fabric and a serviette is a throwaway paper version.

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:02

mewkins · 25/08/2024 14:59

I'm with you. I had anything steamed pudding like and so it always really puts me off.

Steamed pudding and custard is one of life’s cozy childhood memories.
Gorgeous !

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:05

I’m going to have to go to the shops and buy a chocolate sponge pudding now
This thread about puddings has set off my nostalgia for sponge Pudding and custard.

JoeyDoesNotShareFood · 25/08/2024 15:06

LakieLady · 25/08/2024 15:02

In my head, a napkin is fabric and a serviette is a throwaway paper version.

Same here. It's how I know it to be used - Serviette or paper towel. Some may say 'paper napkin' instead of serviette or paper towel. Napkin is the fabric, reusable kind.

Language is quite interesting.

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:07

LoneHydrangea · 25/08/2024 15:01

As an inveterate snob, I was brought up to never say ‘toilet’ and cringe when I hear people say it. Ditto ‘dessert’.

My kids say both to wind me up 🤨

Oh no!
I used to say “ Breakfast dinner and tea “ to deliberately annoy parents- instead of “ Breakfast, lunch, dinner “

Cattenberg · 25/08/2024 15:08

JoeyDoesNotShareFood · 25/08/2024 15:06

Same here. It's how I know it to be used - Serviette or paper towel. Some may say 'paper napkin' instead of serviette or paper towel. Napkin is the fabric, reusable kind.

Language is quite interesting.

Same here.

And loo is OK, but it’s a child’s word isn’t it? Like wee and poo.

mewkins · 25/08/2024 15:09

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:02

Steamed pudding and custard is one of life’s cozy childhood memories.
Gorgeous !

Reminds me of school dinners....and not in a good way!

Calliopespa · 25/08/2024 15:10

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 25/08/2024 14:33

It's loo and pudding, sweet is common.

Agree. It’s the Nancy Mitford upper and non upper thing. She observed that people trying to sound posh adopted the French word “ toilet”, “dessert” “ serviette” etc instead of good old English words. It was because it was seen as affectation.

Strangely though words like “ chemise” and “robe” remain upper class whereas words like “frock” are a bit rough and ready.

As posted above, I do think the pudding / dessert thing has become a bit contextual as our eating habits become more international.

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:11

deademptyduck · 25/08/2024 14:16

If I'm asking where they are I tend to ask for directions to the ladies! Loo or toilet don't feel right. Pudding to me is a specific type of desert - usually the type served with custard! Desert covers everything!

And there are savoury puddings too. I prefer dessert.

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:11

Cattenberg · 25/08/2024 15:08

Same here.

And loo is OK, but it’s a child’s word isn’t it? Like wee and poo.

😂 I would call a poo a poo.
and a wee a wee.

What is one meant to say?
”I’m passing stools?”

”Urinating?”

I’m picking up dog stools on this walk!

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