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To think toilet sounds better than loo?

244 replies

Mabelthebore · 25/08/2024 14:02

& dessert sounds nicer than pudding? I know some people look down on those who say toilet and dessert but I actually think they sound nicer. I think loo in particular is a horrible word.

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CarolinaInTheMorning · 25/08/2024 15:32

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 15:19

An American friend was puzzled when I said I loved exploring old outhouses as a child ( meaning barns and stables-
To her an outhouse is a bathroom.

So true. Also an outhouse does not have plumbing, just a hole in a bench type contraption. Thankfully, they are few and far between these days. Barns, etc. we call "outbuildings" in the US.

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:33

In Welsh it’s ty bach (little house) in south Wales and lle chwech (six place) in North Wales. I’ e no idea what the origin of the north Walian phrase is, if any Gogs on here do know please enlighten me.

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:35

CarolinaInTheMorning · 25/08/2024 15:32

So true. Also an outhouse does not have plumbing, just a hole in a bench type contraption. Thankfully, they are few and far between these days. Barns, etc. we call "outbuildings" in the US.

My late in laws (Mancunians) called their utility room the outhouse.

CurlewKate · 25/08/2024 15:35

Call them whatever you like. But be aware, like everything else an English person says, someone will judge you for it!

CarolinaInTheMorning · 25/08/2024 15:36

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:22

Restroom conjures up to me a room with a sofa and some magazines on a table.

And some of the fancier ones do have similar set-ups.

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/08/2024 15:41

JoeyDoesNotShareFood · 25/08/2024 15:11

Lol it's breakfast, lunch and dinner here too. Couldn't quite hold onto the dinner and tea for afternoon and night.

Tea is a drink. Dinner is night food.

School dinner ladies?

FuzzyPuffling · 25/08/2024 15:43

Thepeopleversuswork · 25/08/2024 14:12

The word toilet makes me cringe to be honest. As do the words serviette and lounge.

Its my mum’s snobbery and I know it’s awful but these sorts of words sound so much like people trying too hard. Yes I know I am a snob.

Shove up on the snobs bench.

I too hate all those words you've mentioned. Also "patio".

JoeyDoesNotShareFood · 25/08/2024 15:44

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/08/2024 15:41

School dinner ladies?

Yes we had school dinners. Lol

Every other place though, they're known as lunch ladies; also school lunch, lunch at school, school snacks.

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/08/2024 15:47

ErrolTheDragon · 25/08/2024 15:20

Apologies if someone has already mentioned this and I've missed it, but this thread reminds me of the Betjeman poem 'How to get on in society'.

https://allpoetry.com/How-To-Get-On-In-Society

It was written in 1958 ... however, the one thing in it which is still applicable is how not to pronounce the word 'scone'.Grin

Amused at quite how wide of the mark the “analysis” is.

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 25/08/2024 15:50

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/08/2024 15:47

Amused at quite how wide of the mark the “analysis” is.

Beat me to it! Wonder how many people have read it and been completely misled about the meaning.

Pieceofpurplesky · 25/08/2024 15:52

Pudding is a big gooey delight with custard/ice cream/cream, dessert is a dainty and delicate mouthful.
Pudding all the way here!

Loo/Toilet ... I'm a toilet sayer - most of the kids I teach say toilet too. Loo sounds a bit frilly (a loo has a dolly toilet roll holder)

Misorchid · 25/08/2024 15:54

Loo for me. Sometimes, like Hyacinth, I might pop off to “powder my nose”.
If we stuck to these Non U rules, we would still be saying “looking glarse “

2catsandhappy · 25/08/2024 15:54

I recall reading a Sunday supplement newspaper many years ago.
The story I read gave the origin of the word 'loo'(allegedly) it went something like this...
At an English estate weekend house party(Edwardian era) all bedrooms had a card with the occupants name inserted into a brass holder on the door. i.e. Lord Toff or Lady Truffle. On this particular weekend, a certain Lady Louisa had annoyed the resident children so much that the children put her name card into the slot for that corridors lavatory/bathroom.
So all guests had to visit 'The Lady Louisa'. Which caused polite titters and rapidly caught on as 'The Loo'.

Maybe the story was run as a joke, I have no idea.
Any hoo, at home it is 'the loo', at friends house I ask for the bathroom and in public I look for the toilet.

MidnightMeltdown · 25/08/2024 15:57

And loo is OK, but it’s a child’s word isn’t it? Like wee and poo.

Is it? I think that kids are more likely to sat toilet than loo

MidnightMeltdown · 25/08/2024 16:02

@Calliopespa

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Calliopespa · 25/08/2024 16:03

MidnightMeltdown · 25/08/2024 15:57

And loo is OK, but it’s a child’s word isn’t it? Like wee and poo.

Is it? I think that kids are more likely to sat toilet than loo

And I think the point is that it isn’t putting on faux airs by trying to be francais.

cariadlet · 25/08/2024 16:06

2catsandhappy · 25/08/2024 15:54

I recall reading a Sunday supplement newspaper many years ago.
The story I read gave the origin of the word 'loo'(allegedly) it went something like this...
At an English estate weekend house party(Edwardian era) all bedrooms had a card with the occupants name inserted into a brass holder on the door. i.e. Lord Toff or Lady Truffle. On this particular weekend, a certain Lady Louisa had annoyed the resident children so much that the children put her name card into the slot for that corridors lavatory/bathroom.
So all guests had to visit 'The Lady Louisa'. Which caused polite titters and rapidly caught on as 'The Loo'.

Maybe the story was run as a joke, I have no idea.
Any hoo, at home it is 'the loo', at friends house I ask for the bathroom and in public I look for the toilet.

I've always understood loo to derive from, "Guardez l'eau" - shouted when emptying a chamber pot out of a window, warning passers by to watch out.

Although that's probably just another apocryphal story.

FuzzyPuffling · 25/08/2024 16:07

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:12

Do those who object to the word toilet hate the word toiletries too?

Yes.
Shampoo, soap...say what it is.

oakleaffy · 25/08/2024 16:11

Isn’t loo from “ bordaloue(?) (?)spelling )
the gravy boat type urinals women used in the days of hooped dresses?Georgian era?

autumnbake · 25/08/2024 16:13

I say bathroom. The loo sounds too slang for me. My mum says loo or ‘spend a penny’. Toilet sounds too harsh.

Always say pudding, never dessert!

celandiney · 25/08/2024 16:18

KimberleyClark · 25/08/2024 15:22

Restroom conjures up to me a room with a sofa and some magazines on a table.

And after a few days out I'm thinking that would be ideal - if there were restrooms scattered around public venues,cities,train stations and if you had had enough you could ask for the restroom and have a nice sit down on a sofa with some magazines ( and ideally tea and biscuits as well 🙂)

jannier · 25/08/2024 16:19

Has anybody said WC yet?

Zerogiven · 25/08/2024 16:22

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2catsandhappy · 25/08/2024 16:24

@cariadlet seems more likely.

Snazzysausage · 25/08/2024 16:27

Bog hole and pudding
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