long story short, a couple of years ago my SS accidently slept with a man (a few times)...i know i know how do you accidently sleep with someone of the same sex but thats not the issue.
SIL has disowned their nephew as they can't understand how or why a man would sleep with another man.
Myself and DH have no issues.
another SS has just been sent to prison for sex offences. SIL wants to support said nephew, send money, gifts etc and i am the big bad wolf because i absolutely will not even have the SS's name spoken in my house!
what have i done wrong?