Confused

[Karenj19]

So about 12 months my OH bought some viagra as he was having problems we used two but they didn't agree with him . He went to the doctors and got some tablets from the doctor which agreed with him . A month ago I found the Viagra packet and i noticed that a tablet had been taken out of the blister packet when I asked him he made a flippant comment and I thought maybe I had got it wrong . At the weekend I checked the packet again and another tablet had gone . I asked him and he blamed by 18 year old son ! and then said it must have dropped out . I am so confused as to what's going on and just wondered what others thought ? We have been together 15 years but he has been acting oddly for the last couple of years secrets and rumours but nothing concrete.

Sounds like a no brainer to me.

He's coming up with stupid excuses really quickly and even then he's changing his mind rapidly. First, it's the son, then it's the tablets falling out of the packet. Red flags. I would be back-tracking your diary to see when he might have used them.

Hugely context-dependent. Some men use viagra to masturbate too which he may not have been comfortable sharing. However, if there was a change in behaviour and rumours from a reputable source, it is harder to brush off.

Mmmmm....very suspicious. If he's not using them with you, then with who?