Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Kirstie Allsop's 15 Year Old Son

415 replies

ImAFemaleVersionOfRoyKeane · 20/08/2024 05:23

Kirstie Allsop has just posted on X (Twitter) that her 15 year old son has just returned from inter-railing around Europe.

He was accompanied by his 16 year old friend.

AIBU to think this is too young?

These situations may seem OK but at that age they think they are invincible, so they can be impulsive and not make the best decisions, especially when something goes wrong!

OP posts:
FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:29

PointsSouth · 20/08/2024 06:24

Surely anything that puts distance between oneself and Kirstie Allsop is a good idea?

Unnecessarily bitchy.

Areolaborealis · 20/08/2024 06:29

Unless meeting family who would be responsible for them it would be a firm 'no' from me. I don't know the rules where they are travelling but if something went wrong in the UK for a 15 year old unaccompanied traveller it would be quite complex, eg, if they lost their passport, needed medical treatment, had to deal with police, needed accommodation etc how would this be managed?

olympicsrock · 20/08/2024 06:30

I went inter-railing just after my 16th birthday with a 17 year old German friend. ( my exchange) . We had a great time, spent time researching places to stay, budgeted our money. No issue.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:30

StrangeFoodChoice · 20/08/2024 05:35

He probably stayed in the best hotels and traveled first class, I wouldn’t worry on his behalf

Oh yes, let's make massive nasty judgemental assumptions about someone and their life just because you are jealous

Willoo · 20/08/2024 06:31

It’s fine. Maybe he is very mature for his age.

Edenspirits73 · 20/08/2024 06:32

God no- we’ve actually just been interrailing with our kids for a month and there’s no way our 16 year old is ready to do it on his own!

ElfAndSafetyBored · 20/08/2024 06:35

Better than being at home vaping Spice.

Some kids can cope with travel at 15 (and he could actually be practically 16), some can’t. I am sure Kirstie and her partner are best placed to make this call.

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 20/08/2024 06:36

What a fantastic experience! If you know enough people, and Kirstie is definitely a woman with connections, then accommodation becomes less of an issue - you stay with Aunty Whoever at her place in Paris, then dad's old pal in Cologne, then nip down to St Tropez and spend a week with the rest of the immediate family in a villa, head off to Italy to stay with your travelling companion's cousin in Milan, then off to the Greek Islands for a few nights at the villa being stayed in by the travelling companion's family, then off to Seville to spend a few nights with another school friend's family....it would be easy enough to do, I would think, given a wide enough network of family and friends.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:37

CormorantStrikesBack · 20/08/2024 06:12

The confidence this sort of stuff gives you is amazing. I encouraged Dd to travel by herself and with friends abroad from a young age. She went to Beijing with friends at 16yo for the summer. Went to Paris when she was 17yo with a friend for a week. Covid stopped play for a couple of years but then she was off again.

She’s travelled to about 20 countries on her own now. She thinks nothing of getting a flight to Slovenia or similar on her own and staying in a hostel and meeting people and doing stuff with strangers. She went to Vienna for a long weekend and met a guy and didn’t come back for a month and they went to about 5 different countries during that time. She’s currently in Croatia.

What a brilliant parent you are to encourage and support her doing this!
Aren't you envious- I'm jealous of her!!

NewGreenDuck · 20/08/2024 06:38

I'm a lot older than you all and really at the age of 13/14 I was going to all sorts of places by myself, or with a friend of the same age. I think in the years since then parents have become very unwilling to allow their children to 'grow up', to take risks which are often quite small and develop resilience. It wasn't that our parents were uncaring but many of my friends left school at 16 and the following Monday were at work with no allowances made for their youth. They were grown up.
He probably had a great time and learnt new stuff.

JudgeJ · 20/08/2024 06:38

pollyglot · 20/08/2024 06:09

4x gt grandfather went to sea, all alone, as a powder monkey at the age of 8!! Just a baby! He survived Trafalgar on the Temeraire which had 18% of the crew killed or wounded. i don't recommend it, of course....

What a wonderful piece of family history!

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:39

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

JudgeJ · 20/08/2024 06:42

Edenspirits73 · 20/08/2024 06:32

God no- we’ve actually just been interrailing with our kids for a month and there’s no way our 16 year old is ready to do it on his own!

Poor lad, still being babied. A lot of students will be starting Uni in the next few weeks and I hear some horror stories about their inability to cope with living away from Mummy, some parents do their offspring no favours.

CormorantStrikesBack · 20/08/2024 06:42

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:37

What a brilliant parent you are to encourage and support her doing this!
Aren't you envious- I'm jealous of her!!

She’s having the most amazing life and I’m pleased for her. Slightly sad as the guy she met in Vienna is Canadian and they’ve been to a year now and she’s looking at moving to Canada. I was a bit adventurous when I was younger, went backpacking round Asia in my own, I’ve hitchhiked across a few African countries with a friend. But she has worse itchy feet than me. And I’ve turned into an anxiety ridden middle aged person who’s nervous about going to Cornwall 🤷‍♀️😆🙈

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:43

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 20/08/2024 06:36

What a fantastic experience! If you know enough people, and Kirstie is definitely a woman with connections, then accommodation becomes less of an issue - you stay with Aunty Whoever at her place in Paris, then dad's old pal in Cologne, then nip down to St Tropez and spend a week with the rest of the immediate family in a villa, head off to Italy to stay with your travelling companion's cousin in Milan, then off to the Greek Islands for a few nights at the villa being stayed in by the travelling companion's family, then off to Seville to spend a few nights with another school friend's family....it would be easy enough to do, I would think, given a wide enough network of family and friends.

Again, another post by the terminally envious of other people's money. You make nasty assumptions are are not ashamed to share them.
From your post, I could make many assumptions about you and your family, none of which may be true, but once they are in the public forum, someone will believe them
No need to be so bloody nasty about a stranger

Hallamlass · 20/08/2024 06:44

Great! It's a nice change from people infantilising 25 year olds.

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:45

CormorantStrikesBack · 20/08/2024 06:42

She’s having the most amazing life and I’m pleased for her. Slightly sad as the guy she met in Vienna is Canadian and they’ve been to a year now and she’s looking at moving to Canada. I was a bit adventurous when I was younger, went backpacking round Asia in my own, I’ve hitchhiked across a few African countries with a friend. But she has worse itchy feet than me. And I’ve turned into an anxiety ridden middle aged person who’s nervous about going to Cornwall 🤷‍♀️😆🙈

Edited

Will you be my mum?!!🙂🙂😀😀😃

Boopbeepbeepboop · 20/08/2024 06:46

PointsSouth · 20/08/2024 06:24

Surely anything that puts distance between oneself and Kirstie Allsop is a good idea?

That's an unnecessarily spiteful sounding comment.

Edenspirits73 · 20/08/2024 06:48

JudgeJ · 20/08/2024 06:42

Poor lad, still being babied. A lot of students will be starting Uni in the next few weeks and I hear some horror stories about their inability to cope with living away from Mummy, some parents do their offspring no favours.

WTF? You know literally nothing about me or my kids.

CormorantStrikesBack · 20/08/2024 06:51

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:45

Will you be my mum?!!🙂🙂😀😀😃

I can’t afford another one after bankrolling this one so much 😁.

She does pay for her own trips now but the summer after she finished uni cost me dear as she convinced me she needed to go on some architecture course in Florence for a month. The course was expensive and accommodation in Florence in August was horrendous 🙈

But she got one of a very limited number of part one Architect jobs when she got back and she reckoned the course helped. Her now employers said it was the confidence in her job interview which made them give her the job. They wanted someone who could stand up to clients if needed.

shes on about doing a similar course in Sri Lanka next year but will be paying for that herself!

MapleTreeValley · 20/08/2024 06:52

Assuming he's young for the year and about to be 16, I did this when I was a year older than him. It was amazing!

AgnesX · 20/08/2024 06:54

Edingril · 20/08/2024 05:26

I wouldn't do it but if she is OK with it not sure why I would have an issue?

This. Maybe he's very mature? I would have seen it as a huge adventure at that age.

Bobbybobbins · 20/08/2024 06:54

He must be one of the youngest in his class, some of his friends would be coming up to 17 so I think it's ok. As others have said, clearly he would have loads of cash!!

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 20/08/2024 06:56

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:43

Again, another post by the terminally envious of other people's money. You make nasty assumptions are are not ashamed to share them.
From your post, I could make many assumptions about you and your family, none of which may be true, but once they are in the public forum, someone will believe them
No need to be so bloody nasty about a stranger

Edited

Why do you think I'm being nasty?! I'm just saying how it could be done with a network of friends. Calm yourself. You're making yourself look foolish.

Temushopper · 20/08/2024 06:57

FinalInstructionstotheAudience · 20/08/2024 06:43

Again, another post by the terminally envious of other people's money. You make nasty assumptions are are not ashamed to share them.
From your post, I could make many assumptions about you and your family, none of which may be true, but once they are in the public forum, someone will believe them
No need to be so bloody nasty about a stranger

Edited

I don’t think it was nasty. It’s probably true you could stay with friends and family all over the place if you knew people. I spent weeks at 16 after GCSE backpacking round Germany and stayed with people who organised school exchanges with my mums school & my grandparents friend who moved there in the 60s as well as a few youth hostels. If my mum hadn’t had her network I maybe couldn’t have done it and I was lucky she knew so many families in Germany willing to host me. I’m sure someone in media & with a partner in property development (& an interest in it themselves) will have a decent network of friends and that it likely includes people who will either have homes abroad or know people who do and would be happy to have the kids stay for a night or two.