I was with you until this.
The size of someone's family should be down to the couple raising the family, not anyone else.
Too many people rubbed their hands together with glee when the two child benefit cap was introduced, because there is this inherent hatred of people that choose to have more than two kids (and I know this on a personal level).
I am subjected to outright venom when out and about with my family.
My partner works so many hours to support us that I feel like I barely see him, but it's not okay for us to get a little bit of additional help because someone else chose not to have a big family for financial reasons, whereas we chose to take the chance because I know I would never regret a child I had but would always regret never going for another child just because it meant we have a little less money.
I worked my arse off before having a family, I know what it's like to work, and I never once resented any of my tax money going to those that needed help, it never even entered my head, because I'm not spiteful and selfish.
Why is it okay for children to be pushed into poverty, children that didn't ask to be born, but not okay for pensioners that can for the most part find the money, not to?
I understand it must be hard being a boomer and being used to everything being handed to you, but this is what it's like for everyone else, and if you find it awful then imagine what every day younger people have gone through the past 14 years that those pensioners have been voting in Tories (their main target audience) and screwing everyone else over.
I don't have sympathy, I just don't.
When they're paying more than just a pittance in mortgage fees or tiny little social housing rents, I may have more sympathy.
But do not come for those that decided that they wanted more than two kids, we've had enough of being the equivalent to what is found on the bottom of your shoe.