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H told me to shut my ugly mouth this morning

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greenpena · 10/08/2024 11:14

Because I got annoyed that he was annoyed that I hadn't cleaned up the kitchen from last night's dinner, as he wanted to make breakfast and it wasn't clean.

I said he's not some sort of king. I am currently on a break from work, so I do have more time than him and I always clean up the next morning, as I'm very tired at night.

This morning I came down and had a coffee and didn't immediately clean up, as I was feeling tired and wanted to chill for a bit. He comes down after a lie in and starts cursing because the kitchen is a shit hole and apparently everything is a shit hole.

I told him it's not ok to talk like that and I'm sick of it. To which he told me to shut up and then commented on shutting my ugly mouth.

I'm beyond upset.

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QueenBitch666 · 12/08/2024 21:42

Purplecrush · 10/08/2024 11:24

I hope to god you don't have children.
If you don't, pack a bag and leave, if you do, see if you can visit family for a break.
You are married to a vile pig.

Less of the animal slurs. Animals don't behave like pieces of shit

TwinklyAmberOrca · 12/08/2024 21:48

greenpena · 10/08/2024 11:36

He never cleans up the kitchen after dinner or anytime really. I always do it, even when I was working and he always complains it's a hole if it's not done to his standards.

If you want a tidy kitchen in the morning, do it your fucking self.

Yes we have two kids under 5.

Why on earth did you have kids with this prick?!?!?!?

There is no way I'd stay with someone who spoke to me like that. Do you really want your kids to grow up in a household thinking it's OK to treat someone like that?

BusyMum47 · 12/08/2024 22:09

@greenpena

All the other issues aside, if my husband uttered the words, "Shut your ugly mouth!" to me, it would 100% be a deal breaker!

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