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To marvel at privately educated Keir Starmer's hypocrisy?

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Bursarysadness · 06/08/2024 16:03

Both Kier Starmer and his wife are privately educated. Kier's senior school converted into a private school in the second year of his attendance and he has received a generous full bursary up until his A levels. He has built his life and his success on this education, supported to the end by the bursary funded by the same schools and parents he is now trying to destroy. It pains me as my children receive 50% bursaries from a brilliant local school. We've worked incredibly hard to cover the remaining 50% but it has been worth it, seeing how my children blossomed. We had a very different experience in their primary state schools, including bullying and racism. We don't live in a great area. We have just been told that the school will probably reduce all their bursaries to be able to lower the fees for the non bursary parents who are now struggling because of the VAT introduction. I don't know what the future for my children is now and they have so many close friends where they are. They are both academically brilliant and work very hard - hence the bursaries were granted. I feel so depressed that, from what is becoming obvious, they won't be able to benefit from the generosity of bursaries the same way Kier Starmer did when he was a child ..

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Elizo · 06/08/2024 18:12

I can see it would be hard moving your children - perhaps you can come to an arrangement with the school. Maybe they are cutting future bursaries

However, please don’t use the fact your children are academically brilliant and hard working as a reason for them to go private. Those of us with children in state schools could find it insulting. My son is very bright. He doesn’t go private. The school approached him about a bursary in a private school for 6th form. I wasn’t keen. He isn’t either. Some of us just want local and to be in the community. But not because our children are not clever or don’t work hard or we don’t care…

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/08/2024 18:12

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 18:03

So?? Of course he lives in the best place available to him, does his best for his children. Should he give away his hard earned money and live in mud hut with no electricity just so he can avoid being labelled a hypocrite? I am comfortably off. It doesn’t mean I can’t acknowledge my privilege and fight for equality. It doesn’t mean I can’t be utterly outraged by the appalling inequality in our society.

Because he is denying "hard working families" as he likes to call them, the chance to do what he is doing for his kids ie give them a good education.

Why can't you see that it is hypocritical???

The families who have trust funds won't be affected by the VAT rise. The people who have 2 jobs to pay for school fees will be.

pleasehelpwi3 · 06/08/2024 18:12

Move to the local state school, where your 'academically brilliant' children will surely shine. Or sell stuff/move to a smaller house so you can afford the private education.

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 18:14

Ah yes, a good old race to the bottom.

Or cutting your cloth to suit your purse. If schools are concerned parents won’t be able to afford the VAT uplift and will remove their children, as a business/corporate entity they can chose how they use any slippage in their budget eg upgrade facilities or support parents to pay the VAT.

mumedu · 06/08/2024 18:14

Veryoldandtired · 06/08/2024 18:03

OP I agree with you wholeheartedly! However I feel MN is the last place to vent about something like this. People are so ‘woe is me’ here that you might think it’s a competition about who has it worse in life. No foresight. Nothing

So true

Trixiefirecracker · 06/08/2024 18:15

I’d be over the moon if they got rid of fee paying schools full stop. 🤞

Izzymoon · 06/08/2024 18:17

It will be interesting to see the numbers in the private schools and how they have changed by the end of the year. I don’t remotely believe as many people will remove their children as threatened.

Sunnyside78 · 06/08/2024 18:17

Allthisdrama · 06/08/2024 17:56

I'm an experienced science teacher in a senior state school in London. I do it as I want to teach all children. However, a few points from me:

  • I have absolutely no problem with private education and think these schools also do a lot of good, especially for sen children. Many of them also share their facilities with state schools and organize camps / workshops for gifted state kids. Hey, I guess this will stop now!
  • whatever you may want to think, private education is much better than state education. It's sad (especially for me as a state school teacher) but it's true.
  • it's better not just because of their labs, facilities, languages they offer etc. it's mainly better because of the parents!!
  • in my state school, kids come late, rarely with homework done or homework done properly. They don't prepare for tests. They don't care. Because the majority doesn't care or doesn't prepare, this means I can't progress with my teaching and teach the bright ones because I need to make sure that the 70% of tbe class that doesn't care is of level good enough for them to at least know that the hell is going on. I feel genuinely sorry for the bright ones
  • a lot of kids drink or take god knows what. This is not conductive to learning. Many parents don't seem to know?
  • many kids are aggressive (not because they are bad kids but because they are totally lost, not parented, with no guidance or support at home)
  • when I try to raise anything with some parents, sometimes I get assaulted - verbally, even physically. I had a chair thrown at me or was called a c*. I think this was in response to me commenting on regular lack of homework. I was "picking on their kid".
  • after COVID, the level of absenteeism is like nothing we've ever seen before.
  • for all it's worth - yes, I think it's the politics of envy to be honest. Not the fact it's been done but how it's been done. In the middle of summer holidays with schools closed and staff on holidays, and starting from January and not next September. It's clearly malicious and designed to hurt and disrupt. It's petty

I'm getting quite tired of it, frankly. Schools are definitely underfunded. But, from where I am standing, the biggest problem is the deterioration of parenting in the UK. In China classes have 60 kids in them. Schools are underfunded in India. However, the parents make sure the kids do their homework, they come to school, every day and on time. And, above all, they respect the teachers so teachers can teach. There is a shocking absence of looking at ourselves, our society's approach and engagement in education, our attitudes and respect for teachers and hard work. This is what needs to be fixed and then all state schools can be good. Without this, you can throw millions at it and achieve nothing.

Here is goes. From an exhausted disillusioned teacher to you.

Spot on - thank you. And if that isn't your experience (to whatever degree) then you are lucky and privileged. Whatever money is thrown at those schools won't make any difference if there are parents like that.

Donotneedit · 06/08/2024 18:18

Private school education is expensive but anyone can learn critical thinking for free

www.grammarly.com/blog/appeal-to-hypocrisy/

mumedu · 06/08/2024 18:18

Notellinganyone · 06/08/2024 16:40

I teach in an independent school and all three of my DC went. I voted Labour and understand the political signal that this policy is sending. It is, to be clear, a political rather than economic policy but that’s important too. I wish they’d waited until September though.

It's easy enough for you to say as your children's fees are heavily discounted. Perhaps staff fees will feel the pinch too as schools tighten their belts.

Superhansrantowindsor · 06/08/2024 18:19

Imagine if they did scrap private schools - it would cost the country loads!
in addition house prices in the catchment of good schools would go up even more.
The post earlier from a teacher working in state school was spot on about the reality of many state schools today.

Noonooo · 06/08/2024 18:19

Qwertys · 06/08/2024 16:13

Can’t be bothered reading your post. There should be no private schools.

I do not resent people who send their children to private schools. Most would likely do the same given the option. But it simply should not be an option.

I do resent the people who churn out the endless tone-deaf posts about this very far from radical policy.

I agree but also think the UK should get rid of grammar schools. All the grammars are in posher areas so it's difficult for students from poorer areas to get to these schools. The vast majority of grammars are in the South too.

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 18:21

@IMustDoMoreExercise
Because he is denying "hard working families" as he likes to call them, the chance to do what he is doing for his kids ie give them a good education.
Two things.

  1. He is doing what he can to improve the education available to everyone. Contrary to Mumsnet belief, the vast majority of state school pupils get an excellent education-albeit without the very desirable private school frills?
  2. Are you expecting him to move from the house he moved into 20 years ago?
Lolaandbehold · 06/08/2024 18:22

If Oxbridge is the end game for your academic offspring then they’ll have a better chance if they have gone to the local state comp.
I say that as a private school parent, My DCs schools are also reducing bursaroes among other things so fees don’t have to go up by the full 20%. It’s a shame but hopefully children like yours will make the comps better, which I think is partly the government’s aim?

Dorisbonson · 06/08/2024 18:23

Qwertys · 06/08/2024 16:13

Can’t be bothered reading your post. There should be no private schools.

I do not resent people who send their children to private schools. Most would likely do the same given the option. But it simply should not be an option.

I do resent the people who churn out the endless tone-deaf posts about this very far from radical policy.

Seriously?
No Private education? No choice for private piano lessons? No choice for top up lessons? Just take the bare minimum provided by the state and ban everything else?

Tell me how will you explain that policy to my sister in law desperately trying to help my quadriplegic nephew to speak, read and one day walk? Should she give up hope because she has to pay for private things beyond the state provision? Or do your rules only apply to certain things? How do you feel if I tell you this will absolutely kill and destroy foreign investment in the UK? Is your ideology more important than jobs?

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 18:24

Miffylou · 06/08/2024 18:11

They will be a smaller percentage.

I can assure they are not........Working in a school the parents that do not care are now the majority

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 18:26

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 18:08

So you would also believe that if just one child was offered a place at a public school that they are given the chance, instead of being in a school with pupils having fights, distrupting lessons, not caring.

I wonder why you have used a private school for a while?

What is it you are asking exactly?

Arrivapercy · 06/08/2024 18:27

We've worked incredibly hard to cover the remaining 50%

Lots of people work incredibly hard. You haven't necessarily worked harder than that nurse down the road whom the government have simply paid less than you. Even being able to afford 50% of the fees for two kids means you are likely rather high earners, or have had help to afford a home/car etc so have very low outgoings.

Trust me - if your children are academically brilliant, they really will be fine.

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 18:27

@Dorisbonson "No Private education? No choice for private piano lessons? No choice for top up lessons?"

That really is whataboutery. We're talking about schools-not out of school activities.

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 18:28

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/08/2024 18:12

Because he is denying "hard working families" as he likes to call them, the chance to do what he is doing for his kids ie give them a good education.

Why can't you see that it is hypocritical???

The families who have trust funds won't be affected by the VAT rise. The people who have 2 jobs to pay for school fees will be.

Who is he denying what to? He’s not preventing anything?

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 18:29

No Private education? No choice for private piano lessons? No choice for top up lessons? Just take the bare minimum provided by the state and ban everything else?

You know the poster was referring to private schooling - eg primary and secondary education. Which was clear from her reference to private schools. Nothing about music lessons, private tuition - which I’d happily pay VAT on anyway.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 18:29

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 18:26

What is it you are asking exactly?

Simple

Why

Xenia · 06/08/2024 18:31

Hopefully those of us lawyers who had a good private school education (or state) will be able to litigate the proposal into the ground..... let us wait to see. I don't know if any schools group is planning a judicial review but there may well be grounds.

VJBR · 06/08/2024 18:32

Westfacing · 06/08/2024 16:10

Keir, it's Keir.

As a child he would have had no say in his parents' choice of school.

And he sends his own children to state schools - where is the hypocrisy?

The best state school with a very small catchment area where his wife became a Governor before his kids went there. I wonder why she did that?

YOYOK · 06/08/2024 18:34

It is hilarious to blame the current PM for the choices his parents made when he was a child. 😂 I didn’t vote for Labour and I’m not a KS fan but this is bonkers.

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