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To marvel at privately educated Keir Starmer's hypocrisy?

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Bursarysadness · 06/08/2024 16:03

Both Kier Starmer and his wife are privately educated. Kier's senior school converted into a private school in the second year of his attendance and he has received a generous full bursary up until his A levels. He has built his life and his success on this education, supported to the end by the bursary funded by the same schools and parents he is now trying to destroy. It pains me as my children receive 50% bursaries from a brilliant local school. We've worked incredibly hard to cover the remaining 50% but it has been worth it, seeing how my children blossomed. We had a very different experience in their primary state schools, including bullying and racism. We don't live in a great area. We have just been told that the school will probably reduce all their bursaries to be able to lower the fees for the non bursary parents who are now struggling because of the VAT introduction. I don't know what the future for my children is now and they have so many close friends where they are. They are both academically brilliant and work very hard - hence the bursaries were granted. I feel so depressed that, from what is becoming obvious, they won't be able to benefit from the generosity of bursaries the same way Kier Starmer did when he was a child ..

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Jazzicatz · 06/08/2024 17:57

Aww maybe you just need to work harder OP.

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 17:58

In fact , all children's clothes and shoes are VAT exempt. You didn't know this right?

@senmama007 I don’t wear children’s clothes and shoes - which is why I referred to VAT on my clothes. Reading for comprehension may not be your strong suit.

Still no one explaining why private education should be VAT exempt though.

mumedu · 06/08/2024 17:58

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 17:45

I do wish people would shut up about envy and jealousy. It's just so unthinkingly offensive.

Nope.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/08/2024 17:58

Westfacing · 06/08/2024 16:10

Keir, it's Keir.

As a child he would have had no say in his parents' choice of school.

And he sends his own children to state schools - where is the hypocrisy?

Because he is rich enough to be able to live near good schools. Most people can't afford to.

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 06/08/2024 17:59

He didn't go to a private school, and he didn't get a bursary - there were no fees for the existing students.

And even if he had, he can still believe VAT should be payable.
Even in some hypothetical scenario where he'd gone to Eton and was now proposing banning private schools completely, it still wouldn't be hypocrisy, because it would have been his parents' decision. Can we not disagree with things our parents did in their parenting without being called hypocrites?

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 17:59

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 17:48

He did he choose to live in an area with outstanding schools with like minded parents.

Do you not see the double standards, he can most cant.

It’s not double standards. I am a professional and earn a decent salary. I used private education for a while. I chose to live in a nice area and chose the best school for DC. I still think that we live in a society where it is really hard to get yourself out of poverty if you are born into it. I still believe that my DC are not more deserving of a good education that other children. I can make the best choices for my DC whilst still believing in and fighting for, more equality, better prospects for all etc.

mumedu · 06/08/2024 18:00

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 17:58

In fact , all children's clothes and shoes are VAT exempt. You didn't know this right?

@senmama007 I don’t wear children’s clothes and shoes - which is why I referred to VAT on my clothes. Reading for comprehension may not be your strong suit.

Still no one explaining why private education should be VAT exempt though.

Because there are no taxes on education. Otherwise, they would charge tax on uni and further education fees too or tax the £50 school supplement many give to support building maintenance at church schools.

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 18:02

Well, where do we stop? Tax on books next? The thing is, private school parents pay tax like everyone else. But they save other tax payers money because their children don't take up a place in the state system.

I pay tax like everyone else and still
pay VAT on goods, services and commodities that are considerably more essential than private education. I’m not sure parents sending their child to private school is thinking “this’ll save the national tax bill X amount”, so I’m not convinced that’s any reason to give tax breaks to people wealthy enough to afford school fees.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 18:03

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 17:48

They'll keep sending their kids to boarding school

Boarding schools.

I work in a school and the amount of parents that do not care, that when you tell them that their child has behaved this way, or not done any homework, actually say its not my problem you deal with this.

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 18:03

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/08/2024 17:58

Because he is rich enough to be able to live near good schools. Most people can't afford to.

So?? Of course he lives in the best place available to him, does his best for his children. Should he give away his hard earned money and live in mud hut with no electricity just so he can avoid being labelled a hypocrite? I am comfortably off. It doesn’t mean I can’t acknowledge my privilege and fight for equality. It doesn’t mean I can’t be utterly outraged by the appalling inequality in our society.

Veryoldandtired · 06/08/2024 18:03

OP I agree with you wholeheartedly! However I feel MN is the last place to vent about something like this. People are so ‘woe is me’ here that you might think it’s a competition about who has it worse in life. No foresight. Nothing

TruthorDie · 06/08/2024 18:05

Iwant20cats · 06/08/2024 16:20

This has been done to death already
Several times

Yep. Deeply boring

Everyone seems to think their own children’s set of circumstances are unique and the exception. They aren’t. If they are bright then they will do well in life

Frozengrapetower · 06/08/2024 18:05

@5128gap I do agree with you. Some of the comments from people against VAT have been incendiary, taunting or hurtful. As someone who will never be able to afford private school for my children, regardless of what's best for them, it has been hard not to take some of the comments personally i.e. suggestions good parents are doing whatever they can to send their kids or private or all us private school parents will gang up and push your kids into even shitter schools... Ouch...

However, seeing the division going on at the moment I suppose I'm trying to approach this, and all debates, in good faith. It just seems to me this is bringing out the worst in both sides when we are actually all people who want the best for our children and people facing VAT are naturally very stressed. Any change or move is stressful.

For me, its been interesting understanding how much people are sacrificing for private schools, really running themselves to the ground. Why do they think state schools are sooo much worse, what are their fears, what of those fears are real (lack of SEN provision, large class sizes, overworked teachers) and what has been scaremongering.

The resources of people that dedicated to the education of their kids will be amazing in the state sector, we can raise the bar for everyone. Let's all get onside.

Naive? Probably, but its all Ive got.

Dibblydoodahdah · 06/08/2024 18:05

NellieJean · 06/08/2024 16:38

He passed the 11+ and went to Reigate Grammar which went independent whilst he was there, however pupils in the school at the time were allowed to complete their education to 16 without fees. For the sixth form he was awarded a bursary so at no point was he educated privately and his parents paid no fees.
in any event kids don’t tend to get the choice as to how they are educated it’s a decision made by their parents.
Sorry to let simple facts get in the way.

Of course he was educated privately. At sixth form on a bursary. You’re the one who is letting facts get in the way.

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 18:05

Because there are no taxes on education.

Except the government want to change that, and I can’t see any reason not to. There are lots of things I use that would be more affordable without VAT, and some I couldn’t afford regardless. That’s not a reason to not impose tax.

ladykale · 06/08/2024 18:06

Allthisdrama · 06/08/2024 17:56

I'm an experienced science teacher in a senior state school in London. I do it as I want to teach all children. However, a few points from me:

  • I have absolutely no problem with private education and think these schools also do a lot of good, especially for sen children. Many of them also share their facilities with state schools and organize camps / workshops for gifted state kids. Hey, I guess this will stop now!
  • whatever you may want to think, private education is much better than state education. It's sad (especially for me as a state school teacher) but it's true.
  • it's better not just because of their labs, facilities, languages they offer etc. it's mainly better because of the parents!!
  • in my state school, kids come late, rarely with homework done or homework done properly. They don't prepare for tests. They don't care. Because the majority doesn't care or doesn't prepare, this means I can't progress with my teaching and teach the bright ones because I need to make sure that the 70% of tbe class that doesn't care is of level good enough for them to at least know that the hell is going on. I feel genuinely sorry for the bright ones
  • a lot of kids drink or take god knows what. This is not conductive to learning. Many parents don't seem to know?
  • many kids are aggressive (not because they are bad kids but because they are totally lost, not parented, with no guidance or support at home)
  • when I try to raise anything with some parents, sometimes I get assaulted - verbally, even physically. I had a chair thrown at me or was called a c*. I think this was in response to me commenting on regular lack of homework. I was "picking on their kid".
  • after COVID, the level of absenteeism is like nothing we've ever seen before.
  • for all it's worth - yes, I think it's the politics of envy to be honest. Not the fact it's been done but how it's been done. In the middle of summer holidays with schools closed and staff on holidays, and starting from January and not next September. It's clearly malicious and designed to hurt and disrupt. It's petty

I'm getting quite tired of it, frankly. Schools are definitely underfunded. But, from where I am standing, the biggest problem is the deterioration of parenting in the UK. In China classes have 60 kids in them. Schools are underfunded in India. However, the parents make sure the kids do their homework, they come to school, every day and on time. And, above all, they respect the teachers so teachers can teach. There is a shocking absence of looking at ourselves, our society's approach and engagement in education, our attitudes and respect for teachers and hard work. This is what needs to be fixed and then all state schools can be good. Without this, you can throw millions at it and achieve nothing.

Here is goes. From an exhausted disillusioned teacher to you.

This is enlightening & why my kids will go to private school even if it means bankrupting myself!

senmama007 · 06/08/2024 18:06

@Jellycatspyjamas I think you should brush up on your comprehension/ logic skills... Education is for children, same as children's shoes and clothes? We hope you don't wear children's clothes

ladykale · 06/08/2024 18:07

Frozengrapetower · 06/08/2024 18:05

@5128gap I do agree with you. Some of the comments from people against VAT have been incendiary, taunting or hurtful. As someone who will never be able to afford private school for my children, regardless of what's best for them, it has been hard not to take some of the comments personally i.e. suggestions good parents are doing whatever they can to send their kids or private or all us private school parents will gang up and push your kids into even shitter schools... Ouch...

However, seeing the division going on at the moment I suppose I'm trying to approach this, and all debates, in good faith. It just seems to me this is bringing out the worst in both sides when we are actually all people who want the best for our children and people facing VAT are naturally very stressed. Any change or move is stressful.

For me, its been interesting understanding how much people are sacrificing for private schools, really running themselves to the ground. Why do they think state schools are sooo much worse, what are their fears, what of those fears are real (lack of SEN provision, large class sizes, overworked teachers) and what has been scaremongering.

The resources of people that dedicated to the education of their kids will be amazing in the state sector, we can raise the bar for everyone. Let's all get onside.

Naive? Probably, but its all Ive got.

Read post by @Allthisdrama who is a teacher...

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 18:08

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 17:59

It’s not double standards. I am a professional and earn a decent salary. I used private education for a while. I chose to live in a nice area and chose the best school for DC. I still think that we live in a society where it is really hard to get yourself out of poverty if you are born into it. I still believe that my DC are not more deserving of a good education that other children. I can make the best choices for my DC whilst still believing in and fighting for, more equality, better prospects for all etc.

So you would also believe that if just one child was offered a place at a public school that they are given the chance, instead of being in a school with pupils having fights, distrupting lessons, not caring.

I wonder why you have used a private school for a while?

Dibblydoodahdah · 06/08/2024 18:10

ladykale · 06/08/2024 18:07

Read post by @Allthisdrama who is a teacher...

And to add to that my friend teaches at my local state comp. She told me not to send my kids there. That’s a good enough reason for me.

Pottedpalm · 06/08/2024 18:10

@Allthisdrama put it perfectly at 17:56

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/08/2024 18:10

Education is for children, same as children's shoes and clothes? We hope you don't wear children's clothes

I hope education extends well beyond children, but I can see the point you’re trying to make in linking this particular change however private primary and secondary education without doubt is a luxury whatever way you look at it and should be taxed accordingly.

thefireplace · 06/08/2024 18:11

Private schools don't need to pass on the VAT amount, they can have larger class sizes, delay that IT suite upgrade, don't fix the leaking roof, have more TA's, less music lesson or none.

You know just like the state sector has had to do.

Miffylou · 06/08/2024 18:11

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 06/08/2024 17:47

What about the parents that do not give a shit, there are plenty of those.

They will be a smaller percentage.

CompleteOvaryAction · 06/08/2024 18:11

thefireplace · 06/08/2024 18:11

Private schools don't need to pass on the VAT amount, they can have larger class sizes, delay that IT suite upgrade, don't fix the leaking roof, have more TA's, less music lesson or none.

You know just like the state sector has had to do.

Ah yes, a good old race to the bottom.

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