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To marvel at privately educated Keir Starmer's hypocrisy?

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Bursarysadness · 06/08/2024 16:03

Both Kier Starmer and his wife are privately educated. Kier's senior school converted into a private school in the second year of his attendance and he has received a generous full bursary up until his A levels. He has built his life and his success on this education, supported to the end by the bursary funded by the same schools and parents he is now trying to destroy. It pains me as my children receive 50% bursaries from a brilliant local school. We've worked incredibly hard to cover the remaining 50% but it has been worth it, seeing how my children blossomed. We had a very different experience in their primary state schools, including bullying and racism. We don't live in a great area. We have just been told that the school will probably reduce all their bursaries to be able to lower the fees for the non bursary parents who are now struggling because of the VAT introduction. I don't know what the future for my children is now and they have so many close friends where they are. They are both academically brilliant and work very hard - hence the bursaries were granted. I feel so depressed that, from what is becoming obvious, they won't be able to benefit from the generosity of bursaries the same way Kier Starmer did when he was a child ..

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Crispsandwineandcheese · 06/08/2024 22:05

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 06/08/2024 16:18

What has his wife’s life history got to do with it op? She’s a person in her own right not just a part of him.

You wasn’t saying that about Rishi
Sunaks wife ..

Tempnamechanger53 · 06/08/2024 22:08

Hatty65 · 06/08/2024 17:02

It's utterly pathetic trying to paint Keir Starmer as 'privileged' and out of touch when you remember Boris and Rishi - both of whom are MASSIVELY unaware of how ordinary people live.

Keir's father was a toolmaker, his mother a nurse, His wife works for the NHS as an OH worker. He's an ordinary person who was bright enough to pass the 11+ and attend a grammar school, which eventually went private. His parents didn't have huge amounts of money and he didn't go to Eton or Winchester - unlike previous PMs.

I'm so sick of privileged people who send their kids to private schools whining it's going to cost them more. Most people don't have the option. Suck it up.

To be fair Rishi Sunak's parents are a GP and an NHS pharmacist. Although quite well paying, these are still 'normal' jobs. We are not talking FTSE CEO or Hedge Fund manager type millions.
Boris' background was very bohemian and certainly not financially very stable. He was a King's scholar at Eton because he was academically brilliant. Likewise fees at Winchester were much more affordable in the 1990s when Rishi attended. It is really surprising how much they have increased over the last 30 years.

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:08

Qwertys · 06/08/2024 16:13

Can’t be bothered reading your post. There should be no private schools.

I do not resent people who send their children to private schools. Most would likely do the same given the option. But it simply should not be an option.

I do resent the people who churn out the endless tone-deaf posts about this very far from radical policy.

Do you feel the same about private tutors? Private music or sports classes? Private healthcare?

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 22:18

@Q2C4 "Do you feel the same about private tutors? Private music or sports classes? Private healthcare?"
I never understand why people think this is relevant.

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 22:21

@Crispsandwineandcheese "You wasn’t saying that about Rishi
Sunaks wife .."

No, I wasn't. That's because her extraordinary wealth and her tax affairs were actually relevant to Sunak's prime ministership.

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:27

Perplexed20 · 06/08/2024 17:25

Sigh. Yet another post.

Wouldn't it be amazing if people put this energy into making state education better - for the 93% of children.

And before you ask I did - I was a Chair of govs for over a decade and helped improve our school.

If the 93% of parents of state school pupils haven't managed to improve standards, what makes you think that the 7% of parents of private school children will? Surely if they had that much influence this policy wouldn't be going ahead at all?!

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:32

Whatacarrion · 06/08/2024 17:39

Your children are in a system where money enables you to have privilege. Just earn more money i suppose. If you support private schools you must think that’s a fair system. Just earn more money

Exactly. If you want something that's expensive, you have to work to get it.

The same could be said to parents complaining that private education should be banned as it's out of reach for their families (which you could say is surprising as presumably they factored in lifestyle impact when assessing their career choices).

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:34

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 17:45

I do wish people would shut up about envy and jealousy. It's just so unthinkingly offensive.

The glee expressed by some posters on here re parents who will have to take their children out of private schools is palpable.

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:38

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 22:18

@Q2C4 "Do you feel the same about private tutors? Private music or sports classes? Private healthcare?"
I never understand why people think this is relevant.

Because these are also forms of education/healthcare only available to those who can pay for it.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 06/08/2024 23:03

Bursarysadness · 06/08/2024 20:37

Then why would you stay in a school like this? We are in London and schools can be very ethnically varies. I imagine they just can't afford any accusations of racism on their record. Where are you?

I really can't say why people chose to stay. We are in a very ethnically diverse area. It was well known in the local community that the school didn't deal with racism effectively but a lot of ethnic minority families chose to send their kids there anyway. I never understood why. It was an open secret for years but it all came out very publicly in the end. It doesn't seem to have affected recruitment.

Piglet89 · 06/08/2024 23:05

@Tempnamechanger53

He was a King's scholar at Eton because he was academically brilliant.

I wish people would stop trotting out this fucking tripe. Being good at niche subjects like Classics does not make you “academically brilliant”.

This is the man who was so poor at numerate subjects and STEM-related stuff, he couldn’t understand the stats presented to him during COBRA meetings. The guy seems to be quite good at a couple of almost entirely impractical and irrelevant subjects: let’s not get carried away.

Corvidmango · 06/08/2024 23:19

Tempnamechanger53 · 06/08/2024 22:08

To be fair Rishi Sunak's parents are a GP and an NHS pharmacist. Although quite well paying, these are still 'normal' jobs. We are not talking FTSE CEO or Hedge Fund manager type millions.
Boris' background was very bohemian and certainly not financially very stable. He was a King's scholar at Eton because he was academically brilliant. Likewise fees at Winchester were much more affordable in the 1990s when Rishi attended. It is really surprising how much they have increased over the last 30 years.

Yes. They are just average Joes really. I mean Sunak didn’t even have Sky TV as a child bless him.

Tempnamechanger53 · 06/08/2024 23:43

Piglet89 · 06/08/2024 23:05

@Tempnamechanger53

He was a King's scholar at Eton because he was academically brilliant.

I wish people would stop trotting out this fucking tripe. Being good at niche subjects like Classics does not make you “academically brilliant”.

This is the man who was so poor at numerate subjects and STEM-related stuff, he couldn’t understand the stats presented to him during COBRA meetings. The guy seems to be quite good at a couple of almost entirely impractical and irrelevant subjects: let’s not get carried away.

He was awarded one of the King's scholars' scholarships the year he sat the Entrance and scholarship exams and must have performed outstandingly to have been awarded one.
Also are History and Literature irrelevant and niche- I would argue they are at the very heart of the human condition.

DadJoke · 07/08/2024 01:04

Because they then send their kids to private school and support private school.

HPFA · 07/08/2024 06:03

blueskies73 · 06/08/2024 19:40

But would he be a successful lawyer, living in his expensive house in a catchment for an excellent and privileged local school for his kids if he didn't have that education? Clearly, this is the question you have to ask yourself? And he didn't even do so well at his A levels - Bs and Cs - quite pathetic really. So it's not like he did very well? He went to a posh school though, right? And in those times it mattered. Noone would do well or get a good law degree with these grades now!

My brother went to Leeds University in the same time period with similar grades from a comprehensive.

My school friend got into Manchester with similar.

And the idea that the only decent state schools are in expensive areas is nonsense.

HPFA · 07/08/2024 06:11

CompleteOvaryAction · 06/08/2024 19:12

@Allthisdrama is the problem not private Vs state but Comprehensive education per se? In the old Grammar / Tech system, those who wanted to learn academic things were able to do so without disruption because those who wanted to learn more vocational things were also able to do so. Nobody was a square peg in a round hole, and all aptitudes were catered for. Comprehensive education forces all children through the same curriculum, regardless of aptitude, interest or relevance to aspiration.

The main problem with the old system was a lack of mobility after the age of 11, but you could easily conceive of a state system that filtered for academic vs non-academic inclinations, whilst allowing mobility between the two tracks as children developed. That's what we need really and I agree that no amount of money will fix the structural problems that the comprehensive system enshrines, so the VAT on private fees will simply not improve anything.

There is no statistical evidence anywhere in the world that selective education produces better results than non selective.

dottiehens · 07/08/2024 06:45

mumedu · 06/08/2024 17:48

They should have implemented it in a staggered way and with more sensitivity to children who were in exam years or already in the system. As far as I am concerned, the government should put the cost of a child's state education towards their private school fees, like they do in Australia. Private school parents are taxpayers.

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Double taxpayers that is. That money has already been taxed. Also, agree that it should have been staggered but it is planned to be done in the most mean way. Reeves also lied to say September 25 and then they brought it forward to force people already enrolled to pay. You need to give notice to schools not to be charged and changing kids mid year is a nightmare. Disgusting and shameful. So much for the kindest people now in charged. I heard of so many regretting already to have voted Labour as so far they have been so sneaky with hole in the budget bollocks to raise tax. Not to mention people were voting against Tories and not for Labour to begin with.

Zanatdy · 07/08/2024 06:52

If they are academically brilliant they will be fine in state school. My children are academically brilliant, and go to a state school in south london. They are also mixed race, and have suffered no bullying. You can’t judge all state schools based on the one your children went to until they were moved to private. At the end of the day, Keir isn’t a hypocrite as he sends his children to a state school, and his parents didn’t send him to a fee paying school, it became one after he started which is totally different. Private schooling is a luxury, I’m sure many of us would love a large bursary, you’re just thinking of your own pocket and not kids at large, so no-one hear is going to care. South london has some great schools, move house if you’re that concerned about possibility of going back to state

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 07/08/2024 07:05

dottiehens · 07/08/2024 06:45

Double taxpayers that is. That money has already been taxed. Also, agree that it should have been staggered but it is planned to be done in the most mean way. Reeves also lied to say September 25 and then they brought it forward to force people already enrolled to pay. You need to give notice to schools not to be charged and changing kids mid year is a nightmare. Disgusting and shameful. So much for the kindest people now in charged. I heard of so many regretting already to have voted Labour as so far they have been so sneaky with hole in the budget bollocks to raise tax. Not to mention people were voting against Tories and not for Labour to begin with.

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If you're going to call them double taxpayers, I guess that applies to all of us. I can't imagine that there is a single taxpayer that doesn't pay VAT on the purchases that they choose to make, alongside the various other taxes that they will be paying from income that has already been taxed.

Perplexed20 · 07/08/2024 07:28

Q2C4 · 06/08/2024 22:27

If the 93% of parents of state school pupils haven't managed to improve standards, what makes you think that the 7% of parents of private school children will? Surely if they had that much influence this policy wouldn't be going ahead at all?!

Look at Finland.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2024 07:32

I don't know whether private parents would
make a huge difference to state schools-and anyway, I suspect there will actually be very few moving when it comes to the point. I do think the money will make a difference though.

UpTheMagicFarawayTree · 07/08/2024 07:33

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 07/08/2024 07:05

If you're going to call them double taxpayers, I guess that applies to all of us. I can't imagine that there is a single taxpayer that doesn't pay VAT on the purchases that they choose to make, alongside the various other taxes that they will be paying from income that has already been taxed.

Exactly, all of us pay tax on luxuries.

Crispsandwineandcheese · 07/08/2024 07:42

CurlewKate · 06/08/2024 22:21

@Crispsandwineandcheese "You wasn’t saying that about Rishi
Sunaks wife .."

No, I wasn't. That's because her extraordinary wealth and her tax affairs were actually relevant to Sunak's prime ministership.

Is that you, Angela?

CurlewKate · 07/08/2024 07:45

@Crispsandwineandcheese "Is that you, Angela?"

Eh?

Welshwabbit · 07/08/2024 07:53

Bursarysadness · 06/08/2024 20:50

Fair point @Piglet89 and yes, it feels like it's all about personal conviction and beliefs and not actually about what makes sense, logically or economically. Both my husband and I were state educated and did very well, especially me - that's why we could afford to pay half of the fees. However, schools in South London have changed - some of them are scary places right now. Plus, every child is different. My boys would get in trouble and they would not study unless they were in the environment they are in right now. I was a conscenscious girl, I pushed myself. My boys.. no way...

There's a whole bunch of things to unpack in here, but I am intrigued by your suggestion that schools in South London have changed (presumably for the worse). Since when? I have friends whose kids went to school in South London in the 2000s; mine are at (primary and secondary state) schools there now and our experience sounds a lot better than theirs. My kids (both boys btw) are white and at schools where 85-90% of the kids are not white; racism is not tolerated. My information is of course anecdotal, as is yours, but the picture you paint of schools in South London is completely counter to my experience.

On the point of your original post, I hope you are able to keep your children at their school if that is what you want. But for the reasons many other posters have given, there is no hypocrisy in Starmer's position.

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