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Disagree with communal fridge

268 replies

Frannni · 02/08/2024 18:29

Our neighbour, we shall call them “neighbour X” recentl started a discussion on the street WhatsApp about needing a communal fridge so anyone on the street can store excess fridge stuff over the summer. Everyone chipped in and “neighbour x” bought the fridge.

I am starting to get a bit miffed about it all, as firstly the fridge is kept at neighbour Xs house, which means they kind of control it. Secondly, we needed to use it recently to store excess drinks as we were having people over. Guess what, it was full so no use at all.

What has really annoyed me is that I have since heard it was mainly full due to neighbour X filling it with their own stuff. I am feeling really annoyed that we chipped in £50 for something we cannot even use when we need it. AIBU?

OP posts:
MissScarletInTheBallroom · 02/08/2024 19:00

He saw you coming.

Supergirl1958 · 02/08/2024 19:00

Ask her to buy you out of your share!

ShoehornSheryl · 02/08/2024 19:01

Your neighbour is a genius. You all bought them a fridge, how kind.

ItsAlrightDarling · 02/08/2024 19:01

paperrockscissors · 02/08/2024 18:58

We’ve got one in our town it’s called the ‘community fridge’. It’s in the town hall and is very popular. It had to be moved to the town hall due to vandalism and people stealing huge quantities of food from it. I think it’s a lovely idea for families who are struggling to make ends meet. People donate food and I know that left over food from one of the supermarkets gets taken there from time to time too. I think in times when the cost of living is so high and people are struggling to pay their bills things like this can make a real difference.

Edited

That’s a completely different thing though, and entirely irrelevant to this thread

paperrockscissors · 02/08/2024 19:02

foothandmouth · 02/08/2024 18:59

That's a community fridge.

Op is talking about a shared fridge, people just use it for extra space

Yes that’s why I edited my post.

Keroppi · 02/08/2024 19:02

Madness. I thought you were going to talk about a communal leftover fridge, like the communal larders/pantry type things some shops donate short dated stock to.

meercat23 · 02/08/2024 19:03

That is not what I thought a neighbourhood fridge is at all. I am not surprised that you feel a bit duped!

PointsSouth · 02/08/2024 19:03

Aquamarine1029 · 02/08/2024 18:42

If Mr. X suggests a communal car that he'll park in his garage, you should probably pass.

...or indeed, a communal garage, for when people need to park an unexpected car.

Or, wait, wait - a communal house! If everyone puts up fifty grand, we can buy the house next to mine, for whenever anyone needs it. As I'm closest, I'll take responsibility for looking after it. My son and his wife and kids'll stay there most of the time, just to make sure it's ticking over and to deter squatters.

pocketaces · 02/08/2024 19:04

I'd so love it if Mr or Mrs X was on here. Would love to get their side of it

Izzynohopanda · 02/08/2024 19:04

How many people chipped £50? 10 people would be £500. How big is the fridge?

WouldUSayImWorthy · 02/08/2024 19:04

halava · 02/08/2024 18:47

I'd prefer a communal husband myself. Preferably with DIY skills.

Think that's called swinging

BenchyMcBenchFace · 02/08/2024 19:04

STRAIGHT into Mumsnet classics! Along with screaming at the Sistine chapel, the everlasting chicken, the recent “can widowers eat lasagne?” and now neighbours sharing a fridge.

Settling down the read these comments all evening 🍿

THANK YOU! 🙏

burnoutbabe · 02/08/2024 19:08

See a community car can work -a few blocks of flats near me have those. Handy in London.

I assume there is a booking system and something to prevent excessive use by people.

Unprecedentedusername · 02/08/2024 19:08

is this the first communal purchase or is there a communal leaf blower & pressure washer

halava · 02/08/2024 19:08

WouldUSayImWorthy · 02/08/2024 19:04

Think that's called swinging

In the hot tub by the Pampas Grass. Drinks from the communal fridge brought by the first person to drop their keys in the old ashtray.

pinkstripeycat · 02/08/2024 19:09

How odd 😂

GogAndMagog · 02/08/2024 19:12

So your spare food is held hostage in somebody else's house?? Or do you have a key to access the communal fridge?

Bonkers. OP I don't believe you can be so stupid...... or can you ??

Izzymoon · 02/08/2024 19:13

Have you never heard of an ice bucket for drinks? Who on earth pays £50 for a fridge in someone else’s house??

justfinethanks · 02/08/2024 19:14

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kfellover · 02/08/2024 19:15

Absolutely bonkers, I’ve never heard of anything like this, I might suggest it to my neighbours😂

Marooney · 02/08/2024 19:15

Astonishing

UngratefulOldCabbage · 02/08/2024 19:15

Who's paying for the electric? Careful you don't get an electric and cleaning bill at the end of the year!

justfinethanks · 02/08/2024 19:16

BenchyMcBenchFace · 02/08/2024 19:04

STRAIGHT into Mumsnet classics! Along with screaming at the Sistine chapel, the everlasting chicken, the recent “can widowers eat lasagne?” and now neighbours sharing a fridge.

Settling down the read these comments all evening 🍿

THANK YOU! 🙏

Edited

can widowers eat lasagne

What!? 😂

RumNotRun · 02/08/2024 19:16

@BenchyMcBenchFace Sorry, what? A thread about whether a widower can eat lasagne? I have missed that one. I'm on the app so the search isn't good. I don't suppose you have a link do you?

CheeseWisely · 02/08/2024 19:16

WTF?? How on earth did anyone think this was a good idea? I'm baffled. If you need extra fridge space then buy a second hand fridge on marketplace and have 100% of it to yourself.

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