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To boycott the Olympics for allowing a rapist to compete

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Fluffyelephant · 28/07/2024 11:21

I cannot believe in this day and age a convicted child rapist has been allowed to compete in the Olympics.

I know he was booed when he was competing but that's not enough. He never should have been allowed to compete in the first place and as a result I'm not watching any of the Olympics and encouraging others to do the same. I know that means other legitimate athletes will sadly be punished for the actions of one man and the decision makers for the Olympics - but what else can you do to send a message it's unacceptable?

For context, the volleyball player raped a 12 year old girl in Britain who he met online when he was 19 and was convicted in 2016. To add further insult to injury he only served 1 year of the sentence and seems to have gone on to marry a police officer!? He also has since said he's not a pedophile (although admits he did do what he was accused of) and that the media saying he is one is 'a load of nonsense'.

Unbelievable that this isn't considered more serious in a country like the Netherlands or by the Olympics itself.

www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/cpd9e0r2dxmo

OP posts:
capstix · 29/07/2024 10:26

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 09:43

@capstix Paid his debt 😂 he will NEVER finish paying the debt. She will pay it for her whole life.

I'm afraid that's your view. If you offend and are convicted, you serve your sentence and your debt to society is paid. If the sentence is too lenient that's a valid point to raise and lobby form for reform.

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 10:27

Agapornis · 29/07/2024 10:06

Someone had a bit of fun with Wikipedia Grin

😂😂

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 10:28

@capstix Nah.

capstix · 29/07/2024 10:45

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 10:28

@capstix Nah.

If that's your argument then I feel confident that your view is not worth considering.

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 10:47

@capstix Well I can't argue with Stupid so I'm not going to bother.
I'm glad to see most on this thread agree with me 😊

ReacherSaidNothing · 29/07/2024 11:08

I wonder if his victim and her family view his debt as being paid, seeing as they're, you know, members of society...

Aroastdinnerisnotahumanright · 29/07/2024 11:17

Considering he only served one year of a four-year sentence, his "debt to society" has not in fact been paid.

capstix · 29/07/2024 11:35

I'm glad you think they do. Have a nice day at McDonalds.

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 12:14

capstix · 29/07/2024 11:35

I'm glad you think they do. Have a nice day at McDonalds.

Ooh I wish 🤤

Sleepersausage · 29/07/2024 14:55

Agapornis · 29/07/2024 10:06

Someone had a bit of fun with Wikipedia Grin

His own Wikipedia has been updated quite a bit as well!

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 29/07/2024 16:03

Aroastdinnerisnotahumanright · 29/07/2024 11:17

Considering he only served one year of a four-year sentence, his "debt to society" has not in fact been paid.

Absolutely this, not sure why @capstix can't understand

DutchCowgirl · 29/07/2024 16:41

Fluffyelephant · 28/07/2024 18:05

I found it very shocking and disturbing reading one news article that when Dutch fans at the olympics were asked whether they thought it was ok that he was competing not a single one condemned it.

Well that is not true, on dutch websites/forums there are loads of people who object to this.

Bellaboo01 · 29/07/2024 16:47

Narwhal23456 · 28/07/2024 11:33

Its really upsetting and put me off watching any of it to be honest.

Paedophilia has no place in the Olympics.

It has no place ANYWHERE!!!

capstix · 29/07/2024 18:05

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 29/07/2024 16:03

Absolutely this, not sure why @capstix can't understand

I'm not quite sure why you can't understand. When people are given a sentence, they are almost always released early by the state that sentenced them. At that point they have served their sentence and their debt to society is repaid. If you don't like that system you can lobby your MP for reform. But don't blame me for your lack of comprehension.

MaidOfAle · 29/07/2024 18:42

GailBlancheViola · 28/07/2024 11:41

Agree. The guff about him being rehabilitated yet he is not allowed to stay in the Olympic Village for safeguarding reasons says it all. He has no remorse, he doesn't believe he did anything wrong and should be able to have all he wants and the Dutch Olympic Selectors and the IOC are more than happy to accede to his wants.

On top of that there are two males going to be competing in the female boxing category.

You want to know how highly the IOC think of women and women's sports? These two events show you exactly what they think. Truly is a man's world.

This is why I'm not going to watch any of the events this year, not even women's cycling and women's weightlifting that I have watched in the past.

MaidOfAle · 29/07/2024 18:45

capstix · 29/07/2024 18:05

I'm not quite sure why you can't understand. When people are given a sentence, they are almost always released early by the state that sentenced them. At that point they have served their sentence and their debt to society is repaid. If you don't like that system you can lobby your MP for reform. But don't blame me for your lack of comprehension.

Edited

He was sent back to the Netherlands to serve his sentence and they released him after a quarter of it was served. Not the two-thirds served over here if you behave yourself in jail, but one quarter. It's a pisstake.

But then the Dutch have prostituted women in shop windows in front of their brothels, so it's pretty clear what they think of women and girls.

C0rdeliaChase · 29/07/2024 18:51

capstix · 28/07/2024 12:13

I know I'm going to get pilloried for this, but let's bear one thing in mind. He committed a crime and his sentence was 4 years in prison - not 4 years in prison and you are never allowed to do anything again that makes you happy/notable/rich or try to rebuild your life.

I hope everyone's just as concerned that roughly half of Americans are unconcerned that a rapist may be about to become their next President.

He never served 4 years though. He served 12 months in a British prison before being transferred to a Danish prison where he was released after a month.

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 29/07/2024 19:55

@capstix I understand perfectly well how the legal system works.
Sadly he didn't even serve the requisite 2/3 of the time was sentenced with.

What I and many other posters are trying to point out is that he has not 'repaid his debt to society'. Society includes his 12 year old rape victim - do you honestly believe he has repaid his debt to her by serving a measly 1 year of a pitifully lax sentence?

blacksax · 29/07/2024 20:08

capstix · 29/07/2024 10:26

I'm afraid that's your view. If you offend and are convicted, you serve your sentence and your debt to society is paid. If the sentence is too lenient that's a valid point to raise and lobby form for reform.

Oh look. A paedophile apologist has arrived.

MaidOfAle · 29/07/2024 20:12

blacksax · 29/07/2024 20:08

Oh look. A paedophile apologist has arrived.

Advanced Search that one. Also a "cocklodgers moving themselves in without asking if it's OK" apologist.

JackRabbitSlim · 29/07/2024 20:18

capstix · 29/07/2024 18:05

I'm not quite sure why you can't understand. When people are given a sentence, they are almost always released early by the state that sentenced them. At that point they have served their sentence and their debt to society is repaid. If you don't like that system you can lobby your MP for reform. But don't blame me for your lack of comprehension.

Edited

Well, he didn't even serve his sentence, but no, I wouldn't say his debt to society is repaid since thankfully most of society disagrees with you and doesn't think a prison sentence absolves him. He is a rapist, he always will be. He could serve 20 years in solitary confinement and he would still be a rapist. It wouldn't un-ruin his victim's life or make people feel safe around him.

brunettemic · 29/07/2024 20:24

Narwhal23456 · 28/07/2024 13:05

That is concerning yes! Rules should be stricter regarding the Olympics, in ways that perpetrators like him shouldn't be allowed to compete for country. Commit paedophilia, get rights revoked.

The rules are down to the individual nations as to who they allow to compete, not the Olympic committee.

Disturbia81 · 29/07/2024 21:38

@JackRabbitSlim Well said.
@capstix is a disgusting unempathetic human not worth arguing with. At least he/she is a lone voice among sense.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 30/07/2024 06:55

If you commit rape you should not be granted the honour of representing your country on a world stage, regardless of what piddly sentence you have apparently served.

DoraSpenlow · 30/07/2024 07:47

I absolutely agree that the volleyball player should not be there.

But to discard all the training, dedication and hard work of other competitors by boycotting everything else is a bit of an over reaction. They had no part in the decision to let him attend.