I'm expecting people to tell me I'm nuts but please be kind. I lost my DM over 30 years ago she was cremated as she requested and get ashes scattered in the garden of remembrance. She didn't want a plaque and we respected her wishes. It was always my dad's wish for the same to happen to him.
My dad got remarried a little while after to a lovely lady. Sadly she passed away and wanted to be buried which was respected. My DDad is now saying he wants to be buried with his second wife not cremated like my mum I'm really struggling with this as I feel he had left my mum by herself. Could you kindly give me your views please