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To ask for a national campaign to stop adults referring to their "tummy"

120 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 19/07/2024 09:33

Still absolutely fine to talk to children about tummies

But adults need to know that it is never ever ever ever ever ok to say "my tummy hurts"

Ever, ok?

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UnctuousUnicorns · 19/07/2024 11:23

YANBU. While we're at it, can we also ban people from referring to the ground as the floor? I mean, where did that even come from? I don't think I can blame Americans for it, for once!

OtterMouse · 19/07/2024 11:25

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LindorDoubleChoc · 19/07/2024 11:27

Never, ever OK! Can you please please explain to my 59 year old, 6ft 4", 18 stone husband that he does NOT have a tummy. God it gives me the ickest of icks!

Poolstream · 19/07/2024 11:29

Well I'm feeling a bit moby, I've got a Shania in my aunt Nellie.

FinalCeleryScheme · 19/07/2024 11:31

Poolstream · 19/07/2024 11:29

Well I'm feeling a bit moby, I've got a Shania in my aunt Nellie.

Are you sure it’s not in your Newingtons?

Poolstream · 19/07/2024 11:32

FinalCeleryScheme · 19/07/2024 11:31

Are you sure it’s not in your Newingtons?

Could be. Nothing a raspberry won't sort out. 😅

SantasRubiksCube · 19/07/2024 11:34

Just need to add that when we had DD1, my husband attempted baby talk and said 'oh is this your little bel-bel'........he nearly didn't make it out alive of that one and safe to say he's never attempted it again

Poolstream · 19/07/2024 11:37

SantasRubiksCube · 19/07/2024 11:34

Just need to add that when we had DD1, my husband attempted baby talk and said 'oh is this your little bel-bel'........he nearly didn't make it out alive of that one and safe to say he's never attempted it again

Dd's inlaws are like you.
Dgc, 2, loves a bit of baby talk.
Unicef recommend it.

thecatsthecats · 19/07/2024 11:40

MartyFunkhouser · 19/07/2024 10:02

I agree - see also grown-arse adults referring to being ‘poorly’ or having a ‘sniffle’.

I was THAT five yo. I vividly remember telling the teacher that I wasn't POORLY, I was UNWELL.

UnctuousUnicorns · 19/07/2024 11:46

thecatsthecats · 19/07/2024 11:40

I was THAT five yo. I vividly remember telling the teacher that I wasn't POORLY, I was UNWELL.

"Poorly" isn't a childish word where I'm from (NW England). 🤷‍♀️

willWillSmithsmith · 19/07/2024 11:49

FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 19/07/2024 10:00

YANBU and can we also campaign to stop grown adults calling their own parents mummy and daddy? << shudders >>

Although I'm too lazy to start my own campaign, so I'll probably slip it into the small print of yours.

Oh yes. It does seem a very ‘posh’ thing to do though. You never hear working class adults say mummy.

MyDogsPaws · 19/07/2024 12:03

Belly or guts is far, far worse! If we didn’t have a general term like ‘sore tummy’ then we’d have to say things like “I have pain in my bowel” which I don’t really want to hear about either.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 19/07/2024 12:05

Poorly is a normal word round me. No one says unwell.

Katiesaidthat · 19/07/2024 12:17

NervousSubject · 19/07/2024 11:22

But you wouldn’t extend your ban to adult women who say ‘mummy’?

I am an adult and will say Mummy till the day she dies. I do refer to her in the third person as mother/madre, though, but still unapologetic.

Mumoftwo1316 · 19/07/2024 12:18

Katiesaidthat · 19/07/2024 12:17

I am an adult and will say Mummy till the day she dies. I do refer to her in the third person as mother/madre, though, but still unapologetic.

Me too, my mother will always be Mummy.

TheresaCrowd · 19/07/2024 12:21

NervousSubject · 19/07/2024 11:22

But you wouldn’t extend your ban to adult women who say ‘mummy’?

No adults should be calling parents 'mummy and daddy'.

It's far too 'bitty' 🤮

FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 19/07/2024 12:23

willWillSmithsmith · 19/07/2024 11:49

Oh yes. It does seem a very ‘posh’ thing to do though. You never hear working class adults say mummy.

Equally I know a lot of middle class people who wouldn't dream of calling their parents mummy/daddy past the age of about 10.

HappiestSleeping · 19/07/2024 12:24

OptimismvsRealism · 19/07/2024 09:56

I like to think of it more as the weird babytalk police.

There is a board specifically for this. Head over to pedants' corner.

MagpiePi · 19/07/2024 12:52

x2boys · 19/07/2024 11:22

Does she also go to the hospiccal, and drink from Boccles,whilst wearing her Sangals

Edited

I bet she goes on holi-bobs

Legendofthelostkeys · 19/07/2024 13:44

I had to have a transvaginal scan a few years ago and the hospital letter explained the procedure and the word 'tummy' was used! I don't particularly object to the word tummy but surely it has no place in a hospital letter!

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