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To move house to busier road to keep DH happy?

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BeethovenNinth · 18/07/2024 05:50

We live in a fine enough house; was always temporary as we are a big family. I’m ashamed to say my DH himself is too ashamed to bring people back (work colleagues etc) as our house is very modest. (Please no judgement here- this is the way it is).

thing is, I like our little house. We have nice neighbours and a sunny enough little garden. DH is desperate for more space - he has a hobby that needs more space.

we have been looking a very long time and can’t find a house we agree on. In short - I’m a picky nightmare. Every house I look at, I find fault with (eg aspect of house, sun, a not so good walk for the kids to school, too far from bus stop).

new house is fine. The garden is a little darker but it’s on a busier road it gives us much more space and a huge garage.. ( We currently live on a through road to an estate already and our back garden is already about 25 m from a busy town road). New house fronts to a previously rural road which leads to next town so a quieter road in some respects but still a lot of cars at peak times eg sometimes need to wait to cross at 0800. Very quiet road at night. (This is small town in rural ish Scotland so not massively busy)

DH desperate to move, we offer at 10am. I will be fine with it but worried about traffic noise annoying me. (Although I type this listening to a fair bit of traffic noise as it is - just further away).

also not sure how bad the extra pollution is in terms of the kids playing out.

sorry for length of post. This is the first house we both like and I’m nervous and can’t sleep!!!

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BeethovenNinth · 18/07/2024 13:55

We just found out we didn’t get it. It went hugely over.

I am a bit disappointed but it’s really helped focus my mind and priorities so this has been super helpful.

thanks to everyone who replied. I also take on board the constructive criticism!

re thr sleeping issue, I can sleep anywhere after years of tents etc so it doesn’t bother me where I sleep whereas DH is like the princess from Princess and the Pea. He puts up with my foibles and I his, so we rub along well. And I’m glad I went for this property to show him we can!

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Silvers11 · 18/07/2024 14:27

Sorry you didn't get it @BeethovenNinth - but you did have reservations, so it was simply not meant to be. Hopefully another one will be meant for you, not too far in the distance

Havinganamechange · 20/07/2024 10:16

The noise would be a deal breaker for me. Sorry you didn’t get it but maybe for the best.

BengalGal · 22/07/2024 18:58

A house on a busy road won’t appreciate nearly as much as a house on a quiet street. Location is the most important aspect. Followed by floor plan. These are things you can’t change. Air pollution can cause asthma, birth defects and immune disorders. Wait for the right location.

Coffeeismyfriend1 · 22/07/2024 21:21

Having lived backing on to a main road as a child and now living on a flight path for an airport (the airport is about 3 miles from us so planes quite low when coming in to land) you get used to it after a short time. The only time I really notice the planes is when they are coming in to land at night just as I’m falling asleep and the windows are open.

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