That’s my point.. they don’t legal marry for the benefits, they have the religious wedding but are totally fine with lying to the state that they’ve got pregnant repeatedly with a man/men they are no longer are in contact with.
Just to extend the point that this is taking away from families in real need: a women I know personally, has two children and every benefit under the sun going (latest she’s told me she’s going to go for mental health now too so she doesn’t have to work the few hours she had been doing) - she manages to get away every summer to her holiday home in the Med for 8 weeks at a time - yes the kids miss the end and start of the school year, but no one raises an eyebrow. Oh, and here’s the kicker, she’s living in a 3 bed/ 2 bathroom/ 2 reception room/ 1930s house with garden worth £750,000 plus in zone 2, curtesy of the tax payer. And then you have another woman I know personally, 2 kids, younger is severely disabled and will need constant care for the rest of his life as he will never be independent. She lives in a tiny 2 bed flat, with kitchen and living room in one tiny space that there is no room for the essential physio equipment does not fit. She’s rightfully claiming every disability benefit she can for her child. Someone please explain to me why the family in real need is suffering while the other family are living the life of utter luxury under the same system?
I’m as left leaning as they come, and am critical of the benefit system because I’m not blind to be rampant fraud within.