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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To say thank you to Mumsnet?

87 replies

Mamtorr · 07/07/2024 01:38

I wasn't going to join a union for my job but I saw an ama about a union rep and I happened to read 3 threads where the OP was told to contact their rep.

16 months of membership later and I find myself in an untenable position in my job. I contacted my local unison rep and she has been incredible. My manager is trying to get rid of me for whistleblowing in the nhs and now I'm 'medically suspended' so I'm not using sick pay, I'm just off work on full pay until they find me somewhere else to go.

My union rep is so good and shutting down my horrendous manager, she's also gone above the hr person who is copied into my managers emails to me.

If you're not in a union and you work in the NHS.. JOIN ONE!!!

I've been a nurse for 14 years and lve never felt more supported than now. My union rep asked if I wanted her to come and join me at my house to be with me during the zoom meeting.

I will probably have to be redeployed because of my disclosures but I know my rep will force my trust to find a suitable position.

I was given a formal written warning for ordering 2 x meals a day for the family parents of a child who was on end of life care because 'they're not the patients' we're talking would probably pass that day and the parents hadn't eaten in 3 days. I then got another warning for making the parents of a child just diagnosed with cancer (like literally that day) a cup of tea because I should have told them that there was a parents kitchen and had them make their own tea..

I stood up to my managers and now I'm facing disciplinary action for 'wasting ward resources'

So thank you Mumsnet for giving me the kick up the arse to join a union because if I hadn't and I'd disclosed to hr my concerns alone I wouldn't be in a job right now.

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ScottBakula · 11/07/2024 13:43

You sound amazing @Mamtorr , thankyou so much for looking after your patients with care and compassion .
I hope everything goes well for you tomorrow, you have a good union rep and the mumsnet army behind you.

I agree that no matter what role you are in you should join a union.

I have been in one for 30 ish years , twice they have stopped me from getting made redundant, and once they have backed my to get my place of work to change their safety code of practice.
Dont wait until you need one , do it today !

Codlingmoths · 11/07/2024 13:50

Good luck tomorrow op.

Codlingmoths · 11/07/2024 13:52

Also if I was a consultant and heard something like this I’d march down to the ward, personally make a cup of tea for every visiting family (& patients who were able) and tell the staff to make sure Nurse Ratchet heard, and if she wanted to make a complaint about me she was welcome to.

Glitterbiscuits · 11/07/2024 14:03

Good luck @Mamtorr

Thanks for making a stand for human decency

nocoolnamesleft · 11/07/2024 18:37

Wishing you all the best for tomorrow. Hold your head high for caring for the children and family in your care.

ImWearingPantaloons · 11/07/2024 19:04

Thinking of you tomorrow.

Please update us

LordSnot · 11/07/2024 19:09

I also joined a union because of Mumsnet posters. I've never had to use it but I'm glad it's there.

I hope it goes well for you tomorrow and justice is served.

MissMoneyFairy · 11/07/2024 19:11

LordSnot · 11/07/2024 19:09

I also joined a union because of Mumsnet posters. I've never had to use it but I'm glad it's there.

I hope it goes well for you tomorrow and justice is served.

Justice will be served, along with tea and biscuits for all

mitogoshi · 11/07/2024 19:13

Just wanted to say well done op! None of us think resources should be wasted but compassion is so important too. I would happily donate to my local children's hospital to fund such things in fact (happen to know they are good about such things) hopefully you will be able to be redeployed in a better environment

tsmainsqueeze · 11/07/2024 19:14

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 07/07/2024 01:55

Just read your full op and am absolutely disgusted you have been reprimanded for making parents of a dying child a cup of tea and got them something to eat. Truly shocked.

Me too , what kind of people would begrudge this ?

ImWearingPantaloons · 12/07/2024 17:45

How did you get on OP?

Been thinking about you today

ScottBakula · 13/07/2024 00:08

I am on my way home from a long shift but its been a decent one ( everyone pulling their weight) it made me remember your thread and what working for arseholes is like.
I really hope your meeting went well .

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